PPD Blind Spots

NockerJoe · 2020-01-19T16:53:49+00:00

The experience of actual Chads - they’re not sex robots, with no motivation in life except pussy. If anything, they care less about it than the guys on this board, because it’s so available to them (note that this isn’t to say that it’s of no importance, just that it’s not their sole goal in life)

Yeah this is what I've noticed too. A lot of guys who aren't conventionally handsome try really hard and care a lot. But there's a very small contingent of tall AND handsome AND fit white dudes who just kinda do their own thing and pussy falls into their lap. But this group is so small that I've only met two guys like that in my whole life and they're probably less than half a percent of the population.

But if you're a dude like that then you just don't care about pussy because you aren't invested in it. Like, at all. They get ghosted and toyed with on Tinder too, it just happens more often. But it's funny to them because they know there'll be a woman along shortly anyway. They can deal with conversations that go nowhere and women who play shitty emotional games simply because they don't care.

goatismycopilot · 2020-01-19T17:28:04+00:00

Class/Income. Everybody here claims they went to a top ten school and got a six figure income right out of college and were raised at least UMC. That and nobody ever admits to being average or basic but accused everybody else of being that way. A ton of people here don't seem to have much life experience beyond being a member of the UMC cow herd and yet especially the men yammer about how conformist women are. The few men who aren't conformists sound crazy because actual real nonconformist people usually are.

Twiteena · 2020-01-19T17:58:55+00:00

Personally I have noticed the PPD blind spot is sexual libertines who speak for everyone. I grew up conservative Christian and I am not a rare breed in that, and although I do not judge most of the libertines who sleep around it is still an alien world to me. Everyone here has some sky-high N count and it's....weird.

SilentLurker666 · 2020-01-19T17:28:37+00:00

I believe that they are not blindspots.. most PPD would agree with the facts that you've stated.. but draws different conclusions from them.

The experience of actual Chads - they’re not sex robots, with no motivation in life except pussy. If anything, they care less about it than the guys on this board, because it’s so available to them (note that this isn’t to say that it’s of no importance, just that it’s not their sole goal in life)

The quote "sex is like oxygen, you don't care unless you aren't getting any" rings true, and unfortunately for society, more males are finding themselves without sexual experience... and that's a can of worms that society and especially feminist avoid to discuss every time it comes up.

The lived experiences of women

There's an obvious problems of using lived experience as facts and the dangers of using said lived experience to support certain government policies... a debate on lived experience can reach to no conclusion because everyone experienced things differently and no matter what the other person do.. they can't experience 100% of what you've experience.

Different SMPs/RMPs for different age groups - the rates of STDs in nursing homes prove that people keep fucking age-matched peers well into their senior years

I don't see how this hasn't been discussed in PPD at all... In fact many times TRP brings up "the wall"... and part of explanation on why the wall exist is because after a certain point in life male want to settle down with females that makes better wife material (no children, less risk of STD) then those who has a higher N count.

Male priority shifts that come with age - at a certain point, men prioritize family and career over the constant pursuit of strange. It’s natural

Citation needed on the fact that it's natural. While I do tend to agree with you, it's funny how your statement here are in line with TRP. if you go further into the chain of logic... for example if male's priority shifted from the pursuit of sex to starting a family... what characteristics would they choose in an ideal partner they wanted to start a family with?

How much effort it takes for women to remain attractive, especially as we get older

The wall, confirmed.

The experience of attractive women - they don’t have to settle for BB

They don't. In fact they'll seek to attract the best male possible, and RP have already preach to better themselves... maybe you should elaborate?

Orange_Paisley · 2020-01-19T16:42:36+00:00

Their absolute astonishment that what a girl wants to date at 15 is going to be different than what she wants to date at 25.

Dora_Bowl · 2020-01-19T16:52:21+00:00

The blind spots you listed are not "PPD blindspots" but ones the men on here have, and perhaps they are not even overlooked as much as they are just ignored. I find it unlikely the younger men on here care about the sex being had in nursing homes, which is why it is not discussed.

The actual things I do not see discussed on here is how men can be "too attractive" for women to pursue.

exparadox1989 · 2020-01-19T17:45:08+00:00

Couldn't agree more with the male-related points of this post. The women that I date/fuck can't understand how they are not the center of my world. If I ignore them, they assume that I'm out trolling for pussy because I can't live without it...

All I really care about is selling my company and starting another one, and training jiu jitsu as hard as I can (with the intention of taking an amateur MMA fight once I have the time to dedicate to an 8 week training camp). I'd much rather spend time around my friends than actively courting a woman, playing some sort of mating game to obtain pussy (which they seem to think is the holy fucking grail).

tl;dr: 30M male, fits the HVM stereotype, could give a shit about pussy due to abundance mentality, cares more about choking people out.

hammerhaunts · 2020-01-19T16:36:58+00:00

Women don't realize how simultaneously boring and picky they are

azngirl7689 · 2020-01-19T16:36:07+00:00

The fact that yes women can get dick in 3.5...but is it quality dick? Is it a guy we can stand for more than a minute? Is he groomed? Is he attractive?

Yes we can get laid really easily but the goods are usually odd.

TheJim66 · 2020-01-19T17:49:29+00:00

I only have two but they are the reason that this sub is plain entertainment and doesn't really offer much of value beyond that.

-Whatever women experience should be taken with a huge pile of salt because women are emotional creatures and their emotions take priority over reality

-Women have ZERO idea what it is that attracts them and makes them fall for a man

CHAD_TDK · 2020-01-19T18:53:32+00:00

What blind spots annoy you guys?

the blind spots of people calling the blind spots of other people are:

innumerable
vast
deep

MrHerbSherman · 2020-01-19T22:24:56+00:00

I think lived experiences are mostly self serving narrative, it’s not that I’m blind to them it’s that I think usually you can understand the world better by looking past the narrative and taking “just the facts ma’am” type approach

Mystery_Tragic · 2020-01-20T00:41:35+00:00

That because there dating and relationship life was easy must mean everyone elses is easy as well.

That an average guy can get laid just as easily as the average woman.

TheColdestHand · 2020-01-19T16:36:54+00:00

‘the group consensus was just wrong’. Sorry, do you mean “here are the views, that some of you hold , that I disagree with”?

noNooodleArms · 2020-01-19T18:53:30+00:00

Oh, a blind spot: Most women here think TRP leads dudes. That TRP is a cult driving behaviors, and in some cases it is.

However, normal, reasonably attractive and sexually successful dudes find TRP and it's like oh, shit, that's why this or that happened. Got it.

poppy_blu · 2020-01-19T18:37:37+00:00

Their biggest blind spots are in their own self awareness.

PapaPinyun · 2020-01-19T20:55:06+00:00

I am most consistently irritated having to explain again and again that the RP idea of early man and shit is just so flat wrong, or totally ignored. No one is framing sexual evolution and selection in the context of socially bonded, interdependent, communal, cooperative, territorial pack animals, but that is how we got down, and that is the stage on which our sexuality developed. They all act like Ronald Reagan is the archetypical ancient tribesman and not some communist that lived every day within a whiff of his comrades' ripe balls.

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noNooodleArms · 2020-01-19T18:44:51+00:00

Male priority shifts that come with age - at a certain point, men prioritize family and career over the constant pursuit of strange. It’s natural

There is absolutely no doubt, I mean none, that there is societal pressure along these lines.

I am not denying that there is a natural element, but the societal (and familial) pressure is immense.

Epoch789 · 2020-01-19T21:05:21+00:00

My biggest issue and the one that brought me here is any thread that discusses lifting weights. So many ignorant DYELs. Second would be speaking as though their individual ~~fuck ups~~ experiences are universal.

LotBuilder · 2020-01-19T18:31:25+00:00

The men in nursing homes that are banging old ladies are also banging young hookers... that’s where the STD’s come from.

newyearzz2020 · 2020-01-20T00:51:44+00:00

Your last two points are just denials on your part.

40 year old women may still be attractive, but not attractive enough to get Chads commitment.
All women (attractive or not) end up “settling” for a guy lower than Chad, because Chad has no reason to settle down, nor does he want to. They settle as they get older when they realize Chad doesn’t want them for commitment. It takes some years to realize this, however

Title	PPD Blind Spots
Author	SmurfESmurferson
Upvotes	33
Comments	174
Date	January 19, 2020 4:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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