So what exactly is a Chad?

AreOut · 2022-09-14T15:21:14+00:00

just a guy who can get attractive women for casual sex, most of them do possess most of the attributes you mentioned but not necessarily

Ztstra · 2022-09-14T15:16:16+00:00

Not really a red piller but all men know this and the answer is simple.

Chad is a very hot dude that women chase , thats it. He doesnt need to finesse, to impress(he does but he does it by existing) to this to that he just looks really good and can fuck all the time. He wont be hated for being an asshole ( he be called assertive and confident) he wont be walked over for being nice (a real gentleman), hes not abusive (hes passionate)............

I dont think its a thing about points the way you put it up there. Chad is a dude who can just pull women regardless . Doesnt have to be a bully , be abusive or anything to be a Chad. He can be all of those but its not a rule.

In fact a Chad i know is kind of a good dude, like helpful and so. Treats women as disposable but never really like abuses them or anything. And they all know what he does yet they all line up anyway.

"Niceguys" just cant stand that the good looking guys get all the women and they cope by calling him an ass and themselves nice. Most women can pull guys, most guys cant pull women, it takes serious work and there is an element of envy towards someone that just does it effortlessly.

I think thats about it.

prizefighterstudent · 2022-09-14T16:21:27+00:00

Any dude who can get casual sex with above-average / attractive women with relative ease is a Chad. He often fits the qualities you've mentioned, but it doesn't have to be all of them.

You're also missing the most important quality -- objectively good-looking.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-09-14T17:49:29+00:00

Chad is actually an acronym

C- Caucasian. Not sure why, but apparently you have to be white to be Chad. Not like any other race is fighting for the name Chad or anything

H- handsome/hot. He has to be good looking enough in a suit to win over your parents but also hot enough that you need to carry a spare pair of panties in your purse whenever he is around

A- athletic He can’t just look good, he’s also got to have the six pack and biceps that make you lose control when he takes his shirt off. If he’s at the pool you will know from all then uncontrollable “damn!” You hear from all the ladies

D- dick. Chad must also be packing the perfectly giant penis that wants you to jump on it despite knowing the major internal injuries that will occur from self impaling.

There is one exception to the rule:

Any dude you think is cute can be called Chad

no one should take any of this seriously

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-09-14T16:08:19+00:00

Chad is a guy who get what you want but fail to get (ex. Casual sex)

Hungry-Nebula · 2022-09-14T18:35:12+00:00

In the original Chad vs Virgin memes, Chad was simply the opposite of the virgin. That is it, and nothing else factors into the common definition.

The humour of those memes was two-fold. First, it showed people an exaggerated image of their own insecurities. Maybe when you walk, you slouch and stare at the floor. Maybe when you sit on a bench, you try to make yourself as small as you can. Maybe when you are buying groceries, you try to not look the cashier in the eyes.

Second, it frames that exaggeration as inherently bad, which must mean that the opposite is inherently good. Then, when you see the opposite of that, the humour comes from the idea that the opposite of a bad thing isn't a good thing. And also the funny pictures.

Everybody here philosophising about what it means to be a Chad is just naval gazing. It's a meme, simple as.

1Here4Bach · 2022-09-14T15:06:02+00:00

You’re looking to into it. Chad is any hot male. Some hot males meet the requirements you listed others don’t.

purplish_possum · 2022-09-15T03:38:18+00:00

It's not that complicated. Chad is just a guy attractive enough to get female attention with little effort and without having to pay for it.

poppy_blu · 2022-09-15T10:47:24+00:00

Anyone who they’re jealous of because they want to be him but can’t muster the ability to change themselves.

You are right though that for a lot of the Asian guys “cHad” is a euphemism for white guy.

TotalTravesty · 2022-09-14T15:12:30+00:00

Chad is a boogeyman. He is the sum of all personal fears for whoever is talking about him at the time. If you’re short, Chad’s tall. If you’re tall, Chad’s rich. If you’re rich, Chad has a large penis. If you have a large penis, Chad has a square jaw. And so forth and so on.

He’s whatever the other guy aspires to, no matter how large or small those aspirations are. I was called a Chad because I had casual sex once. Good luck getting a straight answer about such a nebulous-by-definition figure.

risdeveau · 2022-09-14T15:34:18+00:00

Just any man hot enough that he doesn’t have to try to get sex

warramite · 2022-09-14T16:57:01+00:00

Most of the qualities you listed aren't necessary to be a Chad. Chad is just an ideal physical male specimen i.e tall like 6'0+, muscular, big dick of course, wide shoulders, solid jawline-general bone structure

Whether he's a dick, mysognist, rapist, racist, frat boy, morally up standing guy or not doesn't matter because he's THAT good looking.. which is the point

Halo Effect, we assign positive qualities to attractive people.

Chad approaches girl randomly on street and tells her to be his GF "Wow, he's so confident and mature, he knows what he wants."

Ugly Indian Janitor does the same and he's a "creep.. obviously a sexual offender"

Chad is white, Tyrone is black, Chadpreet is Indian, Chadriguez is latin.. There's different names for highly attractive guys of different ethnicities

nicethingyoucanthave · 2022-09-14T16:07:13+00:00

the critera that Red Pill / Incel consideres to be

As a longtime TRP follower let me assure of one thing right off the bat. No male group, be it TRP or incel, gets a vote on this issue

A chad is defined as: whatever a plurality of women find attractive.

That’s it. That’s what it is. To the extent that TRP is interested in discussing it, all we can possibly do is attempt to document women's preferences by observing thier behavior. But we don’t get to make the rules. Women make the rules (through their behavior, not their words)

If all women woke up tomorrow and decided that math majors with slide rules and pocket protectors are sexy, then “chad” would mean “good at math” and by sundown TRP would be full of posts with titles like “teach me to calculus”

I’ve said this many times.

SilentFroggy · 2022-09-14T15:55:02+00:00

The guy that girls talk about in their circle

meddit-throwaway · 2022-09-14T16:19:20+00:00

I don't think all of those requirements are absolutely necessary, I would think of the chad status as more of a score. Anything ~8/10 and above is a chad, with the following things giving you extra points:

Height (being above 6ft)
Muscle mass
Body fat %
Chiseled jawline
Hunter eyes
Facial symmetry
Hairline
Long "instrument" (lol)
Wealth / success
Social status
Communication skills / charm
Deep and masculine voice

I disagree with bully, disrespectful, entitled etc being beneficial, it's more that a chad can get away with having those negative qualities due to his other redeeming factors. I would also disagree with race although certain women have preferences for that.

Ohmaygahh · 2022-09-14T16:50:41+00:00

A Chad is simply a guy who garners a disproportionate amount of sexual interest from a great many, and varied, amount of women by seemingly doing nothing actively to garner said interest.

Capable-Resolve-2001 · 2022-09-14T15:33:26+00:00

Chad is a man to whom women are genuinely sexually attracted, so about 10% of the male population, if I’m being generous.

Smitten_Squire · 2022-09-14T18:53:00+00:00

That's the stereotypical American chad phenotype. Become popular in 80s movies

kokorwqac · 2022-09-14T20:58:59+00:00

It used to be what you said, however nowadays every guy that is appealing to women is described as a chad

sparklyyblueberryy · 2022-09-14T23:21:14+00:00

I find it interesting that they view rude people as high status. Where I live they become social paria. Social skills and income is important for that.

Men that are tall, handsome or whatnot don’t seem to act like this at all to me.

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-09-15T00:13:19+00:00

Chad is any guy getting laid more than the guys here.

purplish_possum · 2022-09-15T03:41:33+00:00

The douchebag fratboy Chad is but one of many types of Chad.

Only 2 of the 13 listed traits apply to me yet my n-count is almost 60.

2022-09-16T14:12:40+00:00

The guy women want to fuck and men want to be.

EugeneCezanne · 2022-09-14T17:48:12+00:00

Chad is a projection of the insecurities of struggling men. You can literally fill in the blanks with whatever a given guy thinks is preventing him from getting laid.

supershotmd · 2022-09-14T16:54:02+00:00

Chad doesn't have to be part of a frat, a douchebag or a bully, he also doesn't need rich parents and there is no rule saying he can't have a well rounded personality. The convention that he be white is just an excuse for the tongue-in-cheek covnention of having different names for the ''Chads'' of different races (Tyrone etc).

All you really need is to be tall, muscular, handsome, and popular.

vogel777 · 2022-09-15T00:47:06+00:00

Chad sounds fucking heinous. "Chad" isn't what women want, he is the fantasy (perhaps even the homoerotic fantasy) of incel men. Chad is who they desire or at least desire to be, what women want doesn't come into it, he's a purely male fantasy.

neverforever3838 · 2022-09-14T15:17:53+00:00

His last name also has to be Davis.

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f_ckupsomecommas · 2022-09-15T19:16:11+00:00

Usually it refers to a guy with handsome facial appearance, tall stature, and a good build (not too skinny, not too fat, appreciable muscle mass). If you have all three of those generally you’d be considered a “Chad,” which is basically a meme at this point but there’s still truth to it.

You can be a Chad who’s a friendly respectable guy, or a complete jerk. I’ve met both, chads who are hard working and intelligent, and chads who are deadbeat criminals.

TodTheRod01 · 2022-09-22T16:44:04+00:00

Again your definition is very wrong.

Title	So what exactly is a Chad?
Author	MagicGal55
Upvotes	6
Comments	100
Date	September 14, 2022 2:11 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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