it seems like this sub is constantly about guys talking about how sex makes them feel, but they never want to ask: What’s in it for women?  Women don’t experience orgasms that much during casual sex and plenty of guys treat her attention with entitlement and something to take for granted. See, that works with extremely desirable men. The problem is less desirable men try to pull that off and panic once they realize they ruined a good thing for them. 

I had an ex like that. Loved the sexual attention I gave him. The moment he acted like it was inconvenient to come see me, I dropped him like a hot potato. Guess who came crawling back to me months later begging for a crumb of attention? Stayed friends with him for years because he apologized enough. His dating life took a bad turn throughout those years, constantly dumped or cheated on, with long dry spells in between. Really scratched away at his self-esteem. 

The other point of my example is even when guys beg for that attention, many will still act ungrateful for it once they get it again. Hence, it is just a better solution to take it slow and vet more men who actually appreciates a woman’s attention instead of acting like he’s entitled to it.  I know there’s women who do like casual sex, but guess what? They’re able to get picky with her choices and she’s doing it for herself, not for a man. And I haven’t even brought up the issue with slut shaming. 

So it’s extremely entitled and disrespectful when guys get upset that women don’t want to risk having more subpar sex with them all because it gives him at a woman’s expense. A lot of guys really need to think why women should give them anything when they have nothing of value for women.  It’s also weird when people say men are transactional when a lot of men have nothing to trade while whining that sex is a need and sex makes them feel loved and all that bullshit.