It's called people having double standards and being hypocrites. These are the type of women that claim they're feminist, want equal rights, and often say they're independent. However these type of women are nothing both hypocrites and opportunists, they only want the benefits not the downsides, that's not equality.
You thinking a man should pay for you, fine then that man can think that you should do all household chores and that he's the boss of the house, right? (You want to keep some culture/tradition/morals from the past then why shouldn't we keep others that don't make sense in this era)

Also if I find out someone was testing me I dump their asses straight away. It's a disgusting habit that doesn't prove shit and only clearly shows that they don't think I'm worth their trust (plus it only works on dumb people). Hey if you don't want to trust me or actually take the time to find out properly then why the fuck would I want to be in a relationship with you. Trust, for me, is one of the most important things in a relationship, testing people is not a way to build it.

Also screw people, women more often than men, expecting you to read their minds or that everyone has the exact social and moral values. Say what you think and want, you want to be sly or vague about it well then it's YOUR fault if the other doesn't understand it properly. If you say you'll pay the bill then pay it or don't offer. People offer it to be polite, but it's even ruder and more wicked to offer if you never had any intention of actually paying. It's only polite when it's sincere because it's polite to share the costs, it's not polite because of you saying it.