askTRP Megathread October 11

WestyWorld · 2017-10-11T13:58:35+00:00

Facebook Users Posted A Third Less Content In 2016 Than In 2015

When do you think that social media bubble is finally going to burst?

ForWARdTRP · 2017-10-11T15:26:30+00:00

So - How do you people stay strong when life is stacking against you?

I have lost a ton of my friends- maybe for the better. I have made mistakes on my RP journey, been too heavy handed when people disrespect me. Called out people who are trying to bring me down. Still it hurts. I have made some new ones who are trying to better their lives, and lead interesting ones. They live an hour away. The damage my ego takes from not being the best one in the room makes me squirm.
Financially struggling. Definitely Dream chasing but I am seeing tons of progress. I have a 9-5 that pays okay. Just hope Im making the right decision by not returning to school. I have a degree.
LTR overstepping boundaries. Clear guidelines. Broken. I have to break up with her but it really is a beneficial relationship for me. I have to Next.
Too exhausted to hit the gym or play hockey for two months now. My body shows it. I need to eat better. fuck. My time management is fucking awful and disorganized. Does anyone have a simple as fuck app to help with time management? I hate schedules. I hate them so much. But I guess I need to adapt.
Was accused of rape a while back. Absolute horseshit excuse after a night of bad sex. No chemistry. That is looming over my life and I have been lawyered up.

It feels like life is crushing me and I am expending energy in the wrong places.

I know I need to dissect and address each of these issues individually. Any outside perspectives would be great.

I haven't cried in years and I was very close yesterday. Basically I said to myself "fight back" and "fuck this"

Thanks

Cos_7_ate_9 · 2017-10-11T17:51:18+00:00

I have a friend who used to complain about some people instantly taking a dislike to him. He was brutally honest, had tattooes and dressed a bit shady but generally had more integrity than the people talking bad about him. His self narrative was that he was too real for all the fakes which I thought was bullshit and always said he should just be nicer to people. And for a while he did pretty well for himself with girls.

Anyway I've only recently started to experience something like he described. The context is me moving to a new college and having to make new friends by joining some clubs and societies. Some guys will just dislike or blank me for no apparent reason after at most one conversation. Maybe I'm just weird or maybe I smell but this just happens to be a time when I'm getting a lot more success with women. I'm a lot more agreeable than my friend but I'm not trying to be liked either.

So this might just be a mixed bag of social success and blunders but considering me and my friend are on the same page now has anyone else experienced increased negativity from some guys to go with their increased positivity from girls?

It seems obvious that masculinity invites conflict but I thought that was a two way street.

primatepicasso · 2017-10-11T13:29:26+00:00

What do you guys think of the red pill documentary? the sub was mentioned in it

TRP_mask · 2017-10-11T13:50:47+00:00

Right now I'm texting with this girl (she's trying to start a conversation every time) and it's going pretty great. However, I'm pretty bad at noticing hints on how she likes me (as a friend or maybe more). Sometimes some awkward things come up, like sending a kiss emoji and then saying 'oops wasn't meant to do that' as some sort of shit test. She also talked about how I was drunk on last party (after which we started texting) and the only awkward thing I did was grabbing her hand and that it was weird and such. Apart from that, small talk, and we're planning on going to kermis (kind of mini amusement park) saturday night. Because we live in villages, most people know each other. She is the sister of a classmate of mine and my own little sister knows her too. Especially that classmate knows me as a completely different person than my friends and so that girl. I'm afraid that any move I make on her can turn into problems with those people. Any idea on how to approach carefully yet obviously for her?

whatsthisgarg · 2017-10-11T16:06:03+00:00

How about this:

Does anybody else miss /u/Neoreactionsafe ? Or does anybody know the story of how he was stripped?

In case you're wondering, I do not miss his goofy comments whatsoever, but I have to tell you, seeing his user name without the tag was like seeing your kooky uncle at your cousin's wedding walk out the bathroom without his pants being escorted out by security.

Nergaal · 2017-10-11T17:07:58+00:00

TRP has boosted my nihilism. Any advice?

womans_algorithm · 2017-10-11T19:21:53+00:00

Today I pussied out like 4 or 5 times when having the opportunity to approach a girl in public. This shit is fucking HARD developing an alpha/outcome independent mindset when I grew up as a nerdy beta, but I’m determined to make consistent daily progress (made some small talk with the barista at the coffee shop).

Does anyone have specific advice for making the leap and overcoming approach anxiety? Or does “don’t be a pussy” pretty much sum it up?

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-11T21:10:30+00:00

I'm almost positive I have genital herpes.

How am I supposed to spin plates now? Herpes sites don't look good.

no_okaymaybe · 2017-10-11T19:16:07+00:00

Does anybody here have experience with balancing the principles of recovery(addiction) and TRP? I consistently find myself conflicted. For instance, recovery encourages monogamy, and the sharing of feelings.. TRP encourages polygamy, and minimal words expressing feelings but instead responding with behavior. Not to mention it being commonplace for drinking, going to the clubs, etc which I’m no longer interested in because it’s not my lifestyle anymore(no disrespect to anyone who still engages). I’m just struggling to balance the principles of recovery with the fundamentals of TRP. Thoughts?

jakeyv123 · 2017-10-12T08:07:37+00:00

How would you guys recommend going out to meet new girls. I want to work on adding more women into my life, but I find i hard if I only go out one night a week. How do you all get the girls in your lives?

DiscordantMonk · 2017-10-11T16:42:49+00:00

Swallowing TRP opened my eyes to things I've felt and noticed on a subconscious level. I felt like I was in control of my life, but it's whole new ball game now! How did you guys manage to keep a set schedule for yourself to get you to where you are now? There's a ton of stuff to manage in life and I don't want to bury myself in the process.

LycaonLiakos · 2017-10-11T20:37:43+00:00

how do one use monk mode in high school?

shutupitsunique · 2017-10-12T06:19:00+00:00

Ltr. I fuck her about 4 or so times a week. Today she texted me some perverted shit and that got me excited for the evening. That evening I make some advances, shes just not putting in any fucking effort and very clearly I realize she doesnt want to do it. She thinks I'm angry, but I'm just dissapointed. Am I overthinking this? Everything else is great, just that she did that. First time this has happened. Were about a month in now. I was thinking of just pulling away for 2 days. When should I do this? Completely unexpected or is this now a good opportunity? Why so?

Romanthehuman · 2017-10-12T02:59:04+00:00

I've noticed that when I approach a particularly attractive girl I tend to get a little nervous. I understand that in situations you are not 100% comfortable in the adrenalin response is normal, but is there anything I can do to help alleviate it when the situation comes?

I approched a girl today, and escalated a bit with her. She was receptive but commented that my hand was trembling. What can I do about this? I understand I need to keep approaching until I become comfortable with it, but is there anything I can do in the moment or before to calm myself?

Thanks for the help fellas.

GoGetting · 2017-10-13T10:59:48+00:00

As you have stated that "no question is off limits", I'd like to pose this devil's advocate style question:

What are the current failings and points of weakness in the "red pill" cultural space?

TheLoonyDuck2 · 2017-10-11T16:39:07+00:00

Need advice on morning routines. How to create one and stick with it. Also, I wanna fuck this Muslim girl in my class but not sure how to open to her.

niemczycki · 2017-10-11T16:11:05+00:00

How do you respond to the shit test of being called a player

Sittingonabigbluebox · 2017-10-11T18:42:46+00:00

Was in a relationship that I wasn't happy with, built up so much hate, found TRP, it completely changed my life and the way I dealt with women and life. Broke up with her to destroy the blue and oneitis and all that crap that made me miserable. I have felt the power one gets from swallowing, there is nothing else like it in this world. Some days after being in the gym with girls(and guys) looking at me, DGAF attitude, I feel like a god.

But sometimes the blue pill in me fights me (raised in BP environment for 27 years) and tries to come back up and waves of emotions and shit hit me like a brick and I don't know how to deal with them, the hatred of my ex comes back and it and I feel I'm starting from square 1 again

How did you guys finally hit that sweet spot of the pill staying down? Was it some moment of clarity or was it a gradual process?

Bitsoft · 2017-10-11T20:28:01+00:00

How do you respond to someone who asks if you're RP?

MentORPHEUS · 2017-10-11T19:31:55+00:00

Red pill views on plastic surgery and being 5ft7 1/2 ?

Surgeries : chin implant , nose job , eyelid surgery , calf implants . Can't afford leg lengthening .

22 yo ugly male NA

moviemaker10 · 2017-10-11T20:02:33+00:00

On a fitness subject which is TRP minded I imagine... do you guys workout your neck/forearms/calves and other ‘showing’ muscle groups purely to look good? Or do you just workout main muscle groups? I’m considering putting a good bit of my workout time into these lifts even though they have virtually no practical uses besides looking good in a button down.

imaginethegainz · 2017-10-11T20:23:50+00:00

Does lifting boost your confidence and increase your SMV as much as people say it does?

dreamville11 · 2017-10-12T16:31:03+00:00

Hey guys, I've been having trouble sticking to a weekly schedule. Taking five classes in college that are spread out through out the day along with practicing for moot court, Im pretty much struggling trying to find time to go to the gym (I go at 4 am since I can finish my workouts without being interrupted) and find time to space out assigned readings and do them in a orderly manner.

This is the first time in my life where I feel Im actually busy and Im doing everything I can to set a good weekly schedule and stick to it. The last thing I'd want is to cram everything before finals. What are your tips and advice for staying productive and not slacking?

Thanks!

0ctaviusRex · 2017-10-11T21:11:48+00:00

So I started dating this hb9 girl Ive been after for a long time. she is 5 years younger than me and known to be attention greedy and branch swinging a lot. First date was in the cinema, i kino'd well, made her comfortable with touch and went successfully for a kiss. She started emotionally investing and texting. When i walked my dog the other day, i asked her to join so it would be more fun for me. Had a Good time with her and we cooked a meal together afterwards. I could have escalated into more there, but i had to Pick up my parents from the airport and was in a rush, so I dropped her off at home. From here, things got a little weird. She texts stuff i dont care about and is less emotionally invested. Kept my Response short and tried to make it sexual occasionally. On saturday there is a nice event i wanna Go to, asked her to join me so it is more fun for me, she agreed. But i once again cant escalate into sex this day, too busy later that day. Maybe i should pull back, ignore her for a while and wait until she gets more submissive and wants to see me, then plan the date and logistics to have sex. What do you think? Shes fun to have around and i wanna fuck her

RedPillpls · 2017-10-11T22:38:21+00:00

Thoughts on

• Relationship with plate sort of died off, she kept being busy, giving me short answers, etc. Stopped talking for a bout a month and then she starts to reply to my snapchat stories so I ask her what’s up and tell her to come over and she replies telling me to come over and says her address is “inyodreamz Lane” or something stupid like that and I replied in my dreams you’d be a brunette then she replies ew, bye. Not planning on talking to her again, but was this a shit test or was she just not interested anymore? I’ve hooked up with her a few times.

• I’ve had a few tinder dates pay for my drinks/food when I’ve gone out with them a few times now and each time I never get a second date. It seems like most people’s experience is different in the girl always wanting stuff payed for by the guy. Whats up with this?

• Been following a certain career path for a little over 3 years now and working full time making semi decent money for a single 25 year old male. Have been having thoughts that this field may not be what I want to do with the rest of my life and contemplating going back to school for a completely different career. Has anyone had some success with this or stories? I have a decent amount of money saved and would be able to continue working part time at this job while going to school.

pintintin4 · 2017-10-11T22:51:44+00:00

Any advice for someone who's been fat all their life and are now finally doing something about it.

Weight seems to be coming off ever so slowly and wondering if anyone has experience of this

JustinDX · 2017-10-12T01:44:55+00:00

I work as a financial analyst and I'm in my last semester of completing my finance/economics degree. My company recently hired the accountants son, who is the same age as me. He is doing the same degree, however I'm at the top university, whereas he is at a mediocre one.

I've had to train him to learn to complete portfolios and monthly/quarterly reports.

I found out he is getting paid more than me. I've been with the company almost 3 years, it's a small company and with a 5-person team (including the CEO).

I want to leave, I obviously feel unappreciated since I'm better at my job than others working alongside me (they have their degree, in their 30's). My parents say "Don't leave until you get your degree". I'm in a mood where I'm bored, pissed off, and wanting to leave without having another job to go to.

What is some advice to this 23 year old?

fsaep · 2017-10-13T09:33:37+00:00

What is the healthiest way to fulfill

mehtellme · 2017-10-12T05:10:58+00:00

A girl, who i think is in a relationship (has pics holding hands with another dude and just pics with him in general but not explicitly stated on social media) hit me up first. We talked a bit and it ended with me sort of asking her out and she responded with a maybe. wtf is going on? im better looking than the dude and the chick and I have a lot of similar interests. Should i just ignore the situation unless she messages again? i see her occasionally too, about once a week. What should i do when i see her?

xXBlackSlave6969 · 2017-10-12T07:11:33+00:00

So how long did it take you before you could talk to literally anyone because for some reason I can't speak to 1)black dudes bigger than me 2)dudes bigger than me 3)girls over 7/10

Maybr just find a big dude and fight?

turtlesrv · 2017-10-13T00:45:20+00:00

Greetings oh holy ones.

Long time reader first time poster.

I'll get to the point. Met this hb 7.5-8. Took her out for drinks about 2 weeks later. Applying all the things I've learned so far on this glorious forum we hit it off better than I have with any other 2 hole (always struggled with the eye contact and kino) .

She's lapping it up and talking about seeing me again etc etc where I obviously keep her at arms length keeping her guessing whether or not I want to. Plenty of tounge action throughout the night. We hung out in various bars for about 4 hours,We end up pretty drunk and she brings up that she's had an awesome time, I like you etc, but that she's not going home with me tonight.

Now my memory at this stage is quite hazy as I bet hers is but I basically said goodbye and left here outside the bar.

Not something I've ever done to a chick. And I don't know what kind of cockyness/loserness/drunkenness tone I gave at this stage.

I'd normally tell her it's time for me to go and walk her to a taxi or something snoother along those lines.

It's now about 5 days after as I've only remembered this by piecing my memories back over the last 2 days as alcohol does 😂

I had messaged her 2 days after taking her out with a simple "hope the hangover wasn't too bad etc." With no reply. But I'm now wondering did I go a but far at leaving her outside the bar?

What should my next move be?

I don't want to be too apologetic and coming off as a loser, but I may have stepped it a bit far with the disappearing act.

All advice is greately appreciated you legendary humans!

DSetupDTitleDMenu · 2017-10-12T14:29:34+00:00

I have no desire to be the lonely pickup artist. I'd rather get most of my girls through social connections. My personal favourite kind of chicks are the cute, young, kinda shy types.

So let's say that I'm older (let's go for thirties) and they're still my type. I'm out of college and presumably don't have any friends younger than mid-to-late twenties. How am I supposed to meet the younger, shyer types when I'm in my thirties or older?

Judirek · 2017-10-12T18:09:44+00:00

Still fighting for my STEM degree, should have graduated now but bad decisions got me stuck at 22, still 2-3 years until I graduate, but I am failing very hard at school, reading gets me sleepy, generally I am feeling way too sleepy for too long now I'm thinking of getting a check up from a doctor, last time I was checked was when I was a teen, is that just a blood test? Can it also show if I don't have hypothyroidism?(there was a post last time bout this)

4 months into lifting, from 168 cm and 128 lbs to 168 cm and 154 lbs, from skinny fat to still skinny fat BUT with visible developing muscles (NOW I know how hard it is to get ripped) but the fat in the lower stomach and lower chin is hard to eliminate plus I'm done bulking I hate the stomach fat so much each time I wear my school slacks I am reminded. I wanna cut will the weight I lift stagnate and have a slow progress? Target weight is 145 lbs.

From where I'm at people in their 20s or those who haven't finished school yet are still being supported by their parents, one of the reasons why I am a lazy ass, about to apply and get my first ever part-time job in a fast food chain which pays 6-7 USD for 8 hours (pay is fine and is better than construction work here), I plan to save for 8 months and get braces to fix my teeth, wanted to ask what are other ways people earn when they were still at school?

Almost everyday I am very horny, I am definitely getting very thirsty but it seems I need to monk mode for now, should I bang asap or not?

AkumaReal · 2017-10-12T21:18:45+00:00

Im in a somewhat of a desperate situation. 29 years old, feeling like Ive lost my chanse ... Ive only had sex with 4 women in my life, 1 relationship which lasted 2 years ... last time I had sex was 4 years ago, Ive been depressed which is now cured.

Is 29 too late to change? Im feeling down and shitty... would need some inspiration I guess

TRP_mask · 2017-10-12T22:00:30+00:00

Saturday I'll have my first 'date' (not entirely sure it can be called a date but fair enough) and I know a lot of people that still know the old me. Because we're going to a public place where I'm pretty sure I'll meet people I know, I can expect some reactions from them that are meant to embarass me in front of her. I know because I've experienced when I'm just talking to girls and I read it's because people can't stand it when you're not the shy beta they know. Now I can easily ignore those, but I can imagine getting reactions like that would embarass me in front the woman. How can I best respond to contain the damage and keep the attraction?

BridgeToTotalFreedom · 2017-10-13T00:02:43+00:00

Hey guys,

I'm studying uni and I started to connect with this classmate. We are in friends with benefits type of situation and it's been discussed and agreed upon. Now she has been flirting for a couple days with our common friend. She does it right in front of me usually. It kind of bothers me even though I see her as a plate and don't have plans for a relationship. I like her and I like what we have. Not many people know and she is just.a plate. How do I make her stop this behavior? What's the red pill way to approach this? I would like to keep frame and keep things the same with her. We slept together once about 3 days ago and meeting(soft stuff) for a while before because she needed time and then her overprotective mom was staying with her so she couldn't come over. She said she wants to keep doing it and I could tell she was a bit inexperienced but loved what I showed he.

What do I do in this situation?

Thanks.

ahmetmakesyouwet · 2017-10-13T01:26:51+00:00

Any tips on forgetting about my oneitis that is moving soon?

Jaloss · 2017-10-13T09:28:48+00:00

How did you find TRP? What event or link caused you to open it? What were your initial reactions and how has you life been changed now?

DamiensLust · 2017-10-13T10:10:54+00:00

What the fuck happened yesterday? I was being driven back by a female friend (who has a fiance and has done for 8 years) from college, in the class where I have firmly established myself as the most confident dude (they often call me cocky & arrogant but cant get enough of me). When we were alone, she was laughing a lot and I was upping the touch and kept repeatedly grabbing her sides and made jokes about her stomach and let my hand repeatedly drift up to her chest and linger on her boobs and she was loving it, had a huge smile the whole time. We got back to my flat and in her car I was trying to make a move but she just told me to get out of her car, I asked her if she was sure twice but she was completely straight faced all of a sudden.

What the fuck?

Dulmurry · 2017-10-14T17:01:47+00:00

In the last year my value grew a lot. Now I receive a pretty good amount of attention from mediocre to average girls but very few from the hotter ones. My question is: do I need to improve more or hotter girls never make the first move since they have more abundance?

JuicySosa300 · 2017-10-12T01:34:25+00:00

Can someone clarify this for me: trp says don't be exclusive with a girl because she will cheat on you, so instead you remain unexclusive with a few girls. All of these girls are sleeping with other guys too There's no feasible way that I would ever be able to outpace a girl's n-count because I have way more going on in my life than most girls. Most girls are constantly getting hit up by dudes every night. Just curious how this is justified.

Frich3 · 2017-10-11T16:56:31+00:00

I'm a fairly attractive mid 20's guy, who was a former athlete in college and works out 6 days a week with jiu jitsu and crossfit. I'm upwards of 6'6 and 220 and have decent success with the ladies however, I am just now noticing how much women like assholes or rather, men who put themselves first and dont put women on a pedestal. To black women I am a 8.5-9 and to white women and everyone else I'm anywhere from a 7-9 depending on preferences. There's a mid 30's woman who's a solid 7.5-8 with atleast double d's and everyone at my gym wants her but she always invites me to drink at her house and go out to eat. I've went over there about 4 times now and haven't tried anything but she always states how she likes really tall guys and "loves to climb a tree". Is she shit testing me to see if I will make a move?? Is she throwing hints that she wants me to fuck or is she just teasing?? She refers to me as "such an asshole" and everytime I hit on women at the bars she always says I'm "too hot for them" but yet she doesnt make a move on me. She hasn't had sex in a year if that helps with the advice.

CapnMcDickSmack · 2017-10-12T02:05:33+00:00

Beta incel who has never spoken to a female for more than 5 seconds, never had a female friend.

WTF DO I DO??? I fucking hate females and my genetics. Hands smaller than most females, short, baby face, small dick, blah blah blah i'm a fucking ugly loser.

Title	askTRP Megathread October 11
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