Decided to get over AA. This is how it went

sarfreer · 2012-08-17T02:16:34+00:00

"Do you want another one?"

Funny, smooth. I like it.

Bout_It_Bout_It · 2012-08-17T03:25:48+00:00

...aaaaand that is how most interactions go, in my experience. Honestly, since i started reading up on game, about 80% of people i talk seem relieved that they have someone to talk to on the bus or whatever.

They almost gush when i bring up interesting conversation.

iStoned · 2012-08-17T03:41:50+00:00

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Tighten_Up · 2012-08-17T06:02:34+00:00

The "Do you want another one?" went smoothly. What would you have responded with if she said she didn't have a boyfriend?

General_Awesome · 2012-08-17T02:35:40+00:00

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slashd · 2012-08-17T09:48:59+00:00

I decided to hit on the cashier at the grocery store just because I get anxiety when I think about flirting with girls, and I never flirt anyway

You should really go to (Salsa) dancing parties. There are literally hundreds of girls who you could ask to dance (and flirt) with. In one night you could try your talk for example 50 times, with each girl's feedback you can analyze it and try a modified approach with the next one, all within just minutes. In just one night you could go from "have just read this approach it in The Game" to "expert at it".

budguy68 · 2012-08-17T04:25:28+00:00

I like it but you got the same problem I do. You self ejected.

anraiki · 2012-08-17T12:04:30+00:00

Sisters says this is a "No no" since the girl is working and unable to escape because of the environment she is in.

wisher555 · 2012-08-17T02:32:23+00:00

Props for trying man. I've been trying for a while to get over my AA. Taking small steps at a time. I'm a very shy person, so i'm taking it a bit slow. keep on progressing.

nivar · 2012-08-17T01:59:44+00:00

awesome man! keep up the good work.

2012-08-17T02:36:20+00:00

nice keep it up. the others offer great advice. i would just tell you to use this as a step. you did it! now keep doing it!

brjohns994 · 2012-08-17T02:20:47+00:00

Here's a tip. Don't ask her if she has a boyfriend. Some girls may say yes as a safe guard. Be more direct. You might have confused her more than anything. I would alter your conversation this way:

Her: Hello You: Hey, good to see you again! Her: Thanks, you too. You: I think you seem like a real nice person and I'd like to take you out to get a drink or to get some coffee. You: My name is "-----" by the way. (Shake her hand)

If she says she has a bf still...

You: Oh, okay. Well it was great to finally meet you formally. Maybe I'll see you around.

If she doesnt, get them digits.

castledefense · 2012-08-17T04:10:48+00:00

now just keep it up with every attractive girl you see

StubbA · 2012-08-17T14:32:45+00:00

I think his opener was pretty bang on. No over thought routine, used things in front of him for humour, it would have came across very spontaneous and I think your just unlucky.

Either she had a boyfriend or you werent strong enough in the way you said it. But I'd say she was just a taken lady. Nice one!

Mailman7 · 2012-08-17T20:00:40+00:00

Beer and watermelon.

bjordion · 2012-08-17T20:54:38+00:00

suave

2012-08-17T22:18:53+00:00

I had two regular cashiers, solid HB8 and HB9. The HB8 would banter with me a bit, I actually got her number but I kinda blew it in texts and I generally tryharded / awkwarded everything up. A lot of cashiers are just in work mode and might be afraid to get caught schmoozing at work. Or I just suck. Obviously kino is harder over a counter and would just seem weird and if you're in line you can't actually go into a full routine.

The HB9 never seems terribly interested, and I make a fryface.jpg: NOT SURE IF SHE IS AWKWARD / OR JUST DISMISSING MY AWKWARDNESS. I'll be honest, she didn't seem very bright but my god she's so gorgeous, it actually gave me feels. Like when you see a picture of Mila Kunis and immediately regret every action and attribute about your life because it led you to an existence without Mila Kunis.

My last interaction with the HB9 was ... regrettable. I told her I was going to Brazil, I had all this stuff prepared to say to her, and she was like, oh, you won't see me because I go off to college next week. I was like, okay, great, have fun bye!

She was alone, no one else was in line, I could have said ... ANYTHING. I was not expecting her to leave so soon and when I get caught off guard it 100% throws me off and I'm just left herpderping. I wanted to say ... anything else. At least tell her I thought she was pretty, ask for her number, just anything. That night I dreamt I asked her out and she said no, but I was happy to get more closure than I got.

They're both gone off to college now, I has a sad.

2012-08-17T22:21:14+00:00

"You have a boyfriend? Oh, you gonna marry him? Because if you marry me first, I'll let you name our dog."

kielfear · 2012-08-17T04:45:34+00:00

What would you have said if she had said no to having a boyfriend?

oreopimp · 2012-08-17T20:54:33+00:00

Not bad for first time out, I sense much greatness in you.

If I was god and I could edit your conversation I'd probably cut out the below:

Her: Hello

Me: Hey, it's you again

Her: Yea, it's me again, giggle

Me: You're so nice... ~~Do you have a boyfriend?~~

~~Her: Me?~~

~~Me: Nod~~

~~Her: Yes~~

~~Me: Oh, do you want another one?~~ (if I did say this I'd probably say "every girl can use two boyfriends." w/ a smirk)

Me: ...maybe I'll share my watermelon with you. [I was purchasing beer and watermelon]

Her: Laugh

Anyway that's all semantics and preferred style. Still my man, keep it up, you're doing the lords work

Drackyjager · 2012-08-17T03:11:38+00:00

Smooth bro to be fair, just unlucky she already had a boyfriend

brjohns994 · 2012-08-17T03:12:20+00:00

I know what works for me. I just got a date with a hot girl at Pet Smart today with my tactics. Maybe these dont work perfectly for you but by all means, take away some of it.

zefrogi · 2012-08-17T09:29:16+00:00

Haha, unlucky man. Big ups for the leap though.

MikeyBron · 2012-08-17T10:48:29+00:00

That'll work, even if you're not in now, you may be down the road. You met her, at the very least (assuming it played out the way I read it) flattered her a bit. Without smothering them in it; Women <3 flattery. That little psuedo-compliment, plus the banter are a start, And if not you're making progress on your femininity-based social angst. Win-win.

DoubleHawk4Life · 2012-08-17T18:04:29+00:00

It's cute, and definitely a step.

bozzwtf · 2012-08-17T18:27:14+00:00

Hell yes. You will be remembered fondly.

quicklookleft · 2012-08-17T20:26:20+00:00

ADORABLE good work op

fatless · 2012-08-17T03:06:15+00:00

Sorry, but practicing flirting (or even just socializing) with service people is not the same as getting over AA. Waitresses, cashiers, bartenders, retail sales clerks - their job is to service and interact with you. Their reactions may be genuine, but it's not the same as with any woman out in the wild/general public.

That isn't to say that it's not a bad thing to practice flirting (even with females you're friends with!) talking with strangers in public, etc, but you have to realize it's not the same at all as approaching that random cute girl there trying to pick out fruit in the store.

antfoo · 2012-08-17T22:17:51+00:00

pimp shit, have an upvote

slimjim9059 · 2012-08-18T01:02:45+00:00

Drink the beer and try again

Decided to get over AA. This is how it went

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So if you start with Salsa and discover it just isn't your style you can switch to other dances which you like more.

Title	Decided to get over AA. This is how it went
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Date	August 17, 2012 1:18 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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