Why do straight women even bother tbh

OrangeyPanda · 2020-11-03T16:31:56+00:00

Suddenly 95% of women are virgins..

BusinessPrint1 · 2020-11-03T17:26:00+00:00

TIL I'm a virgin.

strainedcrow · 2020-11-03T17:02:23+00:00

I used a vibrator or my hands every time I had sex with my ex. He'd ask if he made me cum and I'd say no, I did. Lol

Maude2010 · 2020-11-03T16:27:24+00:00

I’ve decided to only count the ones with whom I enthusiastically consented and had a good time. I’m practically a virgin!

But seriously, I want to forget the others, focus on positive memories and move forward.

Bitemebitch00 · 2020-11-03T18:31:19+00:00

I'm a virgin again

Twinklefireflies · 2020-11-03T21:13:33+00:00

Try being married to someone who "just doesn't like reciprocating".

complex_answer_22 · 2020-11-03T16:44:16+00:00

My number is pretty low for my age, and even out of that, only 1 has actually given me an orgasm. I've made myself orgasm with a couple others but if you have to vigorously rub your clit to try and get off before he finishes that doesn't count either.

spacechicken1990 · 2020-11-03T16:37:10+00:00

I only count the 2 that I consented too...

melonmagellan · 2020-11-03T19:33:42+00:00

The pathetic part is you sometimes can't tell if they're trying or not.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-11-03T18:51:46+00:00

Why keep a list to begin with? This body count thing was created by men to slut shame women. Let’s leave it in the past.

Trocek · 2020-11-03T18:29:13+00:00

I was just thinking about it lol. My ex tried but never actually made me cum ✌️😌🍒

sassylittlespoon · 2020-11-03T19:40:16+00:00

I’ve been very fortunate in this regard. I’ve had very few partners that didn’t care about my pleasure. And they weren’t partners for long.

But then, I don’t even let a man enter the gates if he doesn’t make me cum first.

Datonecatladyukno · 2020-11-03T20:28:04+00:00

R/SuddenlyVirgin

AnonPinkLady · 2020-11-04T00:39:27+00:00

In general just fuck body count. If you're still STI/STD negative then you can live your whole life with the shameless self love of a virgin and the wild joy and non-judgement of a slut. It's nobody's business

daisy_0720 · 2020-11-03T20:07:21+00:00

I've only had sex with one guy then.

Gods, that's depressing.

GamerGirlLinda · 2020-11-03T22:30:23+00:00

I’m actually curious what the difference for women is between hetero and homosexual sex. Any bi woman that can enlighten me? What’s the difference? Which one is better and why? I’ve only had heterosexual relationships so I don’t know how it compares.

2020-11-03T17:59:28+00:00

So I’m a virgin. Totally going to do this 😂 I only count the times I cum 🤷🏼‍♀️

Sinchichis96 · 2020-11-03T23:05:11+00:00

I can count those with one hand😄😄 sad

AotearoaCanuck · 2020-11-03T22:35:56+00:00

This is my new favourite thing ❤️

PessimisticAna · 2020-11-04T03:42:31+00:00

Jokes aside this is an actual issue for me, I always thought it was my fault but I'm beginning to wonder if I'm not even actually attracted to men.

Hmtnsw · 2020-11-03T23:20:09+00:00

17 bodies falls down to 7 that actually was worth anything.

hotmailnerd · 2020-11-04T01:44:42+00:00

God that would be almost every guy haha.

Jenny_Saint_Quan · 2020-11-03T19:09:10+00:00

Wow...so basically only 3.

foreveryoung737 · 2020-11-03T23:45:26+00:00

Damn I’m at 0

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-11-03T23:44:14+00:00

My body count is between 150 - 250. You lose count after the first 15, really, and this is an estimate for me.

I tell each and every "new" man in my life that I was engaged once, and slept only with him, and leave it at that. I'm STD free and my past is my business.

Fair bit of a warning, you gotta keep your social media on tight lockdown and erase the evidence from there too, LOL! Gotta delete all those photos and untag yourself from the shit with your exes in it. Delete the comments, mentions, and "mutual friend" posts also, or make them private or only viewable to you.

Men objectively and usually don't treat you well when they find out you've had multiple partners. This info is somehow almost always used against you or to justify treating you like shit. As many of you already know, men lie about all sorts of shit from their height, weight, hairlines, to their career and incomes. We can lie too

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2020-11-03T19:18:24+00:00

Well my first time doesn’t count then 😂

mscristalconnors · 2020-11-04T02:30:23+00:00

I’ve only had two sexual partners yall!

Wiggy_Bop · 2020-11-03T20:28:38+00:00

I’m a Virgin again.

sweetnsaltyanxiety · 2020-11-03T21:30:00+00:00

Wow. I’m now in the single digits!

reallyuglypuppies · 2020-11-04T01:17:22+00:00

By this metric I was a virgin til I was 25 but since then I've had a LOT of sex. Say what you want about punk kids and artists but in my experience they definitely like to make women cum.

zombiessalad · 2020-11-04T03:34:26+00:00

I never got why people counted the amount of others they have ‘sex’ with (whatever defines sex for them). There’s so much shame still surrounding sex for women and it’s a big yikes...

LittleBiitchyBanana · 2020-11-04T09:17:06+00:00

i’m a virgin 😁

HydraSkyFire · 2020-11-08T23:25:12+00:00

Can't wait to tell my boyfriend I was a virgin until I met him :)))

AmazonArtemis · 2020-11-09T18:05:11+00:00

I no longer count any ONS (from my pre-FDS lurking days lol) that lasted less than 5 minutes and couldn’t get it up for round two. At that point, it’s just a sad attempt.

curlygirl507 · 2020-11-04T04:42:41+00:00

Am I really the only one whose first love actually gave me my first orgasm? I didn't even know what it was before him.

thowawaywookie · 2020-11-04T05:39:53+00:00

My list just went to negative count. 🤣

quiiidpr0qu0 · 2020-11-03T18:19:05+00:00

wait..you guys dont cum from just penetration alone? maybe im the weird one.

edit: im being downvoted because you are upset that you cant cum from penetration and havent had an orgasm in a long time bc your bf/husband doesnt care about you. sorry youre sad. lol

2020-11-03T19:13:04+00:00

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quiiidpr0qu0 · 2020-11-03T19:09:12+00:00

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Title	Why do straight women even bother tbh
Author	eveninghope
Upvotes	2630
Comments	86
Date	November 3, 2020 4:12 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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