N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Quiet_Firefighter_65 · 2025-03-07T23:48:04+00:00

Controversial but part of me genuinely believes women lose the ability to love after their first one, just from observing the massive difference in how the women I know treated their first boyfriend vs all the subsequent ones.

PrimateOfGod · 2025-03-07T03:12:07+00:00

Aw man, I’m 29 and n count is at zero. I feel like I missed out. I’ve always been a pretty reclusive person because of trauma, but I really got over that shit and have matured a lot, still somewhat shy but wouldn’t say I’m debilitatingly anxious anymore. I have hope, but still wish I had some fun through my twenties

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2025-03-06T05:24:03+00:00

ever get way too optimistic about something and then reality puts up a mirror to your face and it turns out you're the human embodiment of the feeling of not being able to take a shit no matter how hard you try? soul crushing tbh

Interesting_Show_962 · 2025-03-06T00:30:02+00:00

0 is the only correct answer

Disastrous-Lynx-3247 · 2025-03-05T20:48:04+00:00

Ding dong size is the most important physical quality you can offer women

iamexercised · 2025-03-05T18:06:33+00:00

nothing worse than a jaded 25+ year old woman with an N-count > 5 giving advice to young girls about dating around and exploring her options before settling for a good man. As if a good man is guaranteed even though they have been passed around to low-lifes previously. A good man doesn’t want you or your baggage

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2025-03-05T05:39:53+00:00

nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Icy-Criticism-9722 · 2025-03-04T19:11:26+00:00

I feel bad for the men still thinking it's worth dating a women in 2025. They are really only good for pumping and dumping. Each women has so much (fake) trauma from relationships it's best to just make any relationship you have with a women purely sexually.

ButternutCheesesteak · 2025-03-04T17:55:26+00:00

I feel like a lot of the discussions in this subreddit are focused around horny men blaming women for not getting what they want.

I get it that men like women more than women like men. That's not women's fault. At the end of the day, nobody owes you anything, just like you don't owe anyone anything. Is it unfair? Yes. But life is often unfair and that's no one's fault.

Be mad at Trump and Elon Musk for furthering the dissolution of a stable society. You'll struggle far more 10 years from now than you did 10 years ago.

Alarming_Bank_2031 · 2025-03-04T17:11:52+00:00

No one cares. Monogamy is a lie. Get over it.

pentatonicartichoke · 2025-03-04T13:33:46+00:00

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Thoughts?

RoseyButterflies · 2025-03-02T13:46:45+00:00

Try to guess my n count 😂🤷‍♀️

TheRedPillRipper · 2025-03-02T00:57:50+00:00

CROSSPOST FROM A MARRIAGE SUB

Considering walking away from a 7-year marriage since learning my 16-year-old step daughter is pregnant

I learned one week ago that my 16-year-old stepdaughter is 2.5 months pregnant. My wife has known for a month and informed me.

The (ex) boyfriend is 18. He has broken contact and is out of the picture. We expect no support from him of any kind.

She wants to keep the baby. My wife is supporting whatever decision she wishes to make. I have been asking questions and have kept my opinions to myself until today. Actually, no one has even asked for my opinions thus far.

Honestly, I’ve been expecting this day to come. We’ve done our due diligence and educated her over the years about sex and birth control options. She didn’t want an IUD or birth control; we gently gave her options offered to pay for everything. We asked her please to used condoms if she engages sexually, and…obviously she didn’t listen to us. This kid is super irresponsible.

My wife and I were both looking forward to finally having freedom when she becomes an adult. We both agreed, years ago, to not have more children, and I had a vasectomy years ago based on our mutual decision.

I asked my wife who will take care of the baby while mom is in school and at work. She said that either we will need to watch the baby, or we will need to pay for child care.

I have no desire to become a full time babysitter for the next 10+ years, as I have my own personal interests and activities which I am unwilling to sacrifice. I also have no interest in paying for child care which becomes quite expensive quickly, and she obviously cannot afford it. I explained this to my wife, as gently as possible. But now we will have a baby foisted upon us.

She responded by saying she will work a second job to pay for child care, and she will take care of the child other times as needed. I am opposed to this idea, as now my wife will be very unavailable, and it will directly and negatively impact our relationship. And it seems the freedom my wife and I were looking forward to will not come to fruition.

Further, we live in a small two-bedroom apartment, and we would need to find a larger one or even buy a house. This is another expense and stress which I have no interest in taking on.

I have not voiced this, but my opinion is that she should abort the baby (soon) or put it up for adoption.

But things will proceed…she will have and keep the baby, while my wife will take on extra work and be the nanny while her daughter continues going to school and working.

What really upsets me is that my wife has a habit of stepping in and saving this kid whenever she makes mistakes or poor decisions — she doesn’t let her assume and own the consequences. I understand she feels for her, but she has very much enabled this kid, and so she has prevented her from learning from her mistakes by having to truly deal with and work through consequences. And now she is rushing in, once again, and saving her — by sacrificing herself (and actually our relationship, too).

Honestly, I am considering walking away from this 7-year marriage. I have no interest in becoming a babysitter and paying for the expenses for both her and her child, and I don’t like the idea of all of my wife’s free time going toward supporting this baby. I do not trust my step daughter to take responsibility and properly care for this child — she has never, in the 9 years I have known her, truly demonstrated any real sense of responsibility. She never helps out at home with chores, she never cleans her room, and she fights with us constantly (and always has).

QUESTIONS

Is 16 a reasonable age to allowing consenting teenagers to engage in unsafe sex? If not, what’s the solution?
What would you advise OP to do?

grillopie · 2025-03-01T21:36:54+00:00

If youre only interested in a virgin, at least have a plan. Church isnt going to be a great option unless youre already a part of that community, and “just date younger” also doesnt seem like it would work out. Younger girls interested in older guys are probably not super likely to be virgins.

virgins not deeply entrenched in some community you cant get into are probably out there. If thats all you care about at least think of how you can find someone like that.

Proudvow · 2025-03-01T19:49:08+00:00

Biweekly reminder that experience gaps are at least as bad as age gaps.

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