I knew I wasn't crazy to think that BDSM/rough sex is wildly incompatible with respecting someone

misandryisnotreal · 2021-10-30T13:06:22+00:00

“I hear she’s married now 🤷‍♂️”

is actually

“She lives rent free in my head, so I still check her social media from time to time to see if she’s available for a casual hookup 🤡”

FuckSakez · 2021-10-30T08:59:30+00:00

He didn’t care about her so much she lives rent free in his head years later…right.

Research proves that many previously choked by an intimate partner (cough BDSM/rough sex) are more likely to escalate that violence into more extreme acts. She was just a warm body to him.

Men will f*ck women they hate. FDS won’t date men who won’t meet us half way and we get bombarded with hate. Such a double standard.

Jandi18 · 2021-10-30T07:45:41+00:00

A woman "stalking" him ends in them having sex the way he likes, but a man stalking a woman ends with her dead or sexually assaulted.

08__80 · 2021-10-30T11:47:12+00:00

Unreliable narrator:

She stalked the everloving fuck out of him, made friends with his friends, and loved the bad sex he gave her.

And then said she don't want anything either and bounced.

The truth might be closer to the fact that the sex was horrible and she realized this guy ain't shit but just let him down easy for her own safety. Or that this entire story is fake or mostly fake.

RuminatingRhino · 2021-10-30T07:24:33+00:00

Is it just me or does it seem like his ego got a little bruised when she said she didn’t want anything more either? 🤔

Zurflu · 2021-10-30T13:49:54+00:00

Same energy as guys who tell you about some crazy, super unstable woman who cried and tried to k*ll him after each time they had sex. But of course he kept showing back up to her place to fuck again. They are animals.

avocadobarbie · 2021-10-30T13:28:48+00:00

I’m so glad someone posted this comment. This was one of the worst ones. They have no problem treating women like trash man it’s disgusting.

say10s-exwife · 2021-10-30T09:21:19+00:00

The fact that his comment has over 200 upvotes scares me. Men HATE us.

dancedancedance7 · 2021-10-30T08:13:03+00:00

Kinda weird to write a post years later about something you don't care about. 🤣 Mhm.

NiBBasBeCrazy · 2021-10-30T08:57:35+00:00

What a piece of trash. If he didn’t care he wouldn’t be bragging about it on Reddit.

Also this is why I never fuck men, so that they don’t speak about me like that…”aNyWAy, fUcKeD hEr”, boy if you don’t stfu. Prolly a two pump chump who didn’t even make her cum 🤡

WorkaholicParty · 2021-10-30T11:30:25+00:00

This is why I can't take seriously mens right desperate cope that women are just as bad and violent as them, their statistics about abuse and what not. Men are rarely in any danger at all.

On the contrary he could have injured or murdered her and gotten away with it.

shedipity · 2021-10-30T05:44:11+00:00

Can’t believe they talk about women like this. We aren’t human to them.

pinkcorolla · 2021-10-30T21:03:07+00:00

The “🤷‍♂️” speaks volumes LMFAO.

sleepysiri · 2021-10-30T17:23:43+00:00

i don’t support women seeking rough sex or BDSM but it literally just sounds like she was sexually attracted to him, got her fill then moved on lmao. like sir, you didn’t do her a favour or put her in her place or (hopefully) did something she didn’t want. you were seduced??

edit: OR (and more likely) he’s bullshitting and was so awful in bed that she literally ran for the hills.

myeggsarebig · 2021-10-30T12:33:19+00:00

I think she’s my ex-pickmeisha-best friend 😂😂

ItsFreezen · 2021-10-31T14:53:52+00:00

The real story is, Scrote stalked her and she rejected him.

souredskittles · 2021-11-01T07:07:11+00:00

It’s true I’ve had an ex straight up tell me he wouldn’t get “rough” In bed because he “cared” meanwhile telling me he was okay doing this with a past fwb smh

asimovess · 2021-10-30T10:56:43+00:00

What thread is this in? 😬

xfelugirlx · 2021-10-31T16:32:17+00:00

Actually he thinks and stalks her LOL “no big deal” that girl sticks up in his head forever hahaha uh men..

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Title	I knew I wasn't crazy to think that BDSM/rough sex is wildly incompatible with respecting someone
Author	alpinepunch2021
Upvotes	460
Comments	42
Date	October 30, 2021 5:02 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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