I have been seeing this from very long time . First I observed this on insta where lots of women based pages were posting lots debatable stuff so as expected some men raised there question regarding post lots of then were infact understable and considerable but some people there took every argument in totally different direction , fighting with them on totally irrelevant topics not saying women community are like that some male community are same to where you can see post completely which act like hate flag for women. Or comments of some females and males which start doing whataboutism and explaining how their gender problems are bigger And ignored

And reddit and twitter are even worse.there are subreddit where you can't speak even in a neutral way otherwise you will be downvoted and bashed with all types of argument except the genuine discussion type. Yes there are some people who understands points of opposite side and give a decent or sometimes a totally new and amazing perspective

And this is something which I feel as problen because if we can't have a decent discussion [ irrespective of post as some post/queries can be starightaway debatable and immature which can be corrected by civil discussion ( not talking about outrageous post ) ] how can expect to live in a good society without gender wars