Women find normie guys boring, let's just be outright honest

kyjolski · 2022-01-23T20:30:07+00:00

But normie women are also boring. No exciting/interesting guy with a rich life is going to want them, except maybe for a pump'n'dump if she's cute.

It doesn't make sense to want something that you yourself can't deliver upon, it won't create a healthy lasting relationship.

NockerJoe · 2022-01-23T20:06:20+00:00

Normies love the aesthetic of alt people. They don't love the actual reality of dating one. When I was clean cut self absorbed goth girls fucked me up. Now that I have long hair and smoke weed normie women think its cool and exciting but we have nothing in common, but they wouldn't care about me if I was still a simping clean shaven normie.

Connect-Taste175 · 2022-01-23T21:58:12+00:00

i think normie people of both genders are seen as less sexually appealing. girls fetishize goth guys almost as much as guys fetishize goth girls

Slootando · 2022-01-23T20:08:21+00:00

I still say women finding average—and even above average—men to be unattractive is a more parismonious and encompassing explanation than the possibility that women find normie guys boring.

figuringMylife · 2022-01-23T21:47:53+00:00

the guy you are describing is above average wtf

IcarusKiki · 2022-01-23T21:07:27+00:00

What are you talking about? They dont lust after them like men dont fap to Debbie from accounting but they fall in love with them all the same. Most women are boring too and are icked out by weird/alt guys.

The problem is that redditors tend to be asocial nerdy guys who befriend other asocial nerdy guys so they assume that is average when an actual average guy played a sport or two in highschool, lost his virginity in his late teens, watches marvel movies and rarely goes online. They also assume the average girl is the terminally online type that lusts after alt guys and bad boys when most women would cross the street if they saw one.

LetsDelveIntoIt1 · 2022-01-23T19:58:09+00:00

Normie women will gravitate towards normie men; alternative women will not. Assortative mating ftw.

ruboyuri · 2022-01-23T20:21:23+00:00

I guess that’s why nobody in my boring, normal, middle class social circle is married, right?

Oh wait…..they totally are! Hmm, so mysterious

MarBitt · 2022-01-23T21:54:12+00:00

A normie-oriented man finds a normie-oriented woman and then they have a normal marriage with a normal sex life. I think is not at all surprising, that normal is not absolutely amazing and deviating from the average.

And a little boring can be better than dying from a drug overdose under a bridge or have to flee with four childs to a shelter from a murderous psycho, who is probably the father of one or two of them.

Cookiecuttermaxy · 2022-01-24T04:40:54+00:00

You all don't seem to know the difference between a straight up loser and an outcast/loner/misfit who's trying to work on enjoying their very own company and some self actualization, do you?

Of course no woman is gonna be attracted to a dorito sucking basement dweller, duh

But let's follow up someone from the other category

Is socially akward, never fitted in, has even been physically bullied/assaulted before, on the other hand he's got real affections, tells it like it is, is a deep thinker and like I said "says fuck you" to the status quo

But that's not a straight up loser though, just someone who wasn't a match for mainstream society

ZealousidealAd7191 · 2022-01-24T04:57:09+00:00

Problem isn’t that women find normies boring, problem is that women’s hypergamous nature makes them feel entitled to more. Most married men don’t honestly think their wife is the most gorgeous, sexiest woman on the planet but they choose to commit to her nonetheless

Swans-r-cunts · 2022-01-24T16:12:52+00:00

I mean..you could say the same about women.

Gravel_Roads · 2022-01-23T20:07:10+00:00

I’ve found normies tend to prefer other normies. I’m a dude from a more alternative/hippy background and I personally find normies boring. Not just the ones I wanna date - we just don’t tend to have a lot in common, so our conversations just don’t feel very deep.

NeuroticalyIncorrect · 2022-01-23T21:20:45+00:00

Yes, kind of. This is what incels & co don't seem to get:
(decent) Women don't measure guys stats like they're fucking baseball cards.
It's about finding a PERSON that you connect with, like every other type of relationship.
However, as women are also people and individuals what they're looking for is unique to them.

Also, with the exception of brain dead gold diggers: Women who value financial stability/a good provider, is because they want kids and probably be stay at home moms. Of course they want their partner to be able to take care of them all.

schoolpolicestation · 2022-01-23T21:25:36+00:00

The ideal mate for a woman is a perfect normie who is also a tall, 10/10 stud. Physical attractiveness determines whether or not a woman prefers a guy's character traits.

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-01-23T20:36:03+00:00

Normies like other normies. Blonde cute Christian girl with a guy who is basically her male version is what you see the most. Alternative people tend to stick together in the dating and friendship pool.

42nanaimobars · 2022-01-23T23:22:56+00:00

“1. Had an average extroverted social life”

I think an average social life is alright. I’m not really focused on social life, lol.

“2. Had a good education”

Well, a phenomenal education would be better than a good education, I guess.

“3. Lives the blue pill fantasy of getting a degree, getting a job and getting engaged ASAP, and don't care about self establishment “

A degree and a job (especially a job) are practical; however, there are a variety of ways to support oneself in life. It all depends on the situation, I guess. I wouldn’t want to get engaged with someone ASAP. I think it’s good to take your time.

“4. Gets into a relationship because it is the societal expectation”

Well that is the kicker. Getting “into a relationship because it is the societal expectation” is wrong.

“5. Barely has any original opinions, conventions or interests of his.”

This is also the kicker. Having no original opinions is awful! I want to hang out with people who are intelligent, creative, and have cool interests.

“6. Follows the mainstream.”

Yikes.

“Bonus: Big one, they constantly post about their relationships on social media”

Ahhhh! That makes me roll my eyes.

SeaSquirrel · 2022-01-24T02:04:31+00:00

Terminally online post

Normie people are normal. Normal people struggle, and also do fine in relationships.

goatismycopilot · 2022-01-24T03:24:41+00:00

Normie people tend to pair off at certain stages of life so it looks to reddit weirdos like they have gone extinct or ruptured or something but really they are off living their lives in suburbia being unobtrusive.

I would argue that women who want certain things in life or who think life is supposed to go a certain way tend to find normie men appealing and often want to marry and reproduce with them.

The outwardly normie people left on the market after a certain age have a fatal flaw(s) that are hidden behind a bland exterior. They are not niche enough to latch on to sub cult of the week and declare themselves what ever pretentious or lame ass shit is getting the sudden mainstream meme attention and they flunked out of normieland.

TheElusivePeacock · 2022-01-24T04:06:05+00:00

Attractive people aren’t looked at as boring, say it isn’t so

Maleficent-Brief-178 · 2022-01-24T04:33:56+00:00

Boring is a little bit mundane

How about unfulfilling in every way 🤣🤣🤣

EmptyVisage · 2022-01-23T20:29:26+00:00

Polarising traits are better than decent average traits. No-one is going to think you're special for being average, but having polarising features means people either think you're fuck-ugly or amazing, depending on their preference.

Vtridolla · 2022-01-23T20:00:21+00:00

All of this is just a subjective mess I feel.

UnitedIntroduction48 · 2022-01-23T20:49:08+00:00

loners/social outcasts

They don’t talk to girls and girls don’t talk to them so this isn’t true

Cupcakelover1985 · 2022-01-23T21:34:19+00:00

Yes, just like how men find normie women boring. Men and women both prefer exciting vivacious people. However that doesn’t mean that the relationship can’t still be fulfilling. It will just be fulfilling in a different way. Instead of being the flaming, passionate, spontaneous couple. They may be the more vanilla type who are just content to be in each other’s presence even when nothing to extravagant is going on.

LurkerFailsLurking · 2022-01-23T23:38:22+00:00

Why would women be attracted to guys trying to achieve the "status quo"?

It could be because they're kind, funny, easy to talk to and live with, or share common interests. How is it so hard for people here to understand that people are attracted to people not bodies. People are not just body pilots. People have feelings and dreams and interests. If you engage those things, they'll like you.

Test it out, try being genuinely interested in whatever literally everyone else wants to talk about. Find something cool or interesting about it and ask them about it. Don't take over. Be honestly interested in them. They will like you. Not every time, but 99% of the time.

PopularBug5 · 2022-01-24T03:12:34+00:00

Internet women are not normies, of course they go for non-normie men.

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ChromaticVengeance · 2022-01-23T20:38:28+00:00

So what? Move on

Fuel_Fine · 2022-01-24T04:28:29+00:00

Hot + poor > average

Simple-Dimension3806 · 2022-01-28T15:28:29+00:00

What these bitches call boring is actually hard to maintain bro. Playing by society's rules all the time doesn't allow for personal whims and ambitions. I'm honestly surprised how those normie guys do it.

Simple-Dimension3806 · 2022-01-28T15:33:31+00:00

Normie women are worse actually if boring is your yardstick

Title	Women find normie guys boring, let's just be outright honest
Author	Cookiecuttermaxy
Upvotes	49
Comments	100
Date	January 23, 2022 7:54 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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