Seems like women can opt out of parenthood or even pregnancy, while we have no choice but to go through with it. While I understand that women carry the kid, it was their decision to do so (abortion is legal where I live) and not only that, but they can choose to put the kid out for adoption after giving birth anyway, and unless they got raped, it was their decision that led to their pregnancy anyway. Of course, men play an equal role in this, considering we get them pregnant in the first place. But how is it fair to force us to pay no matter what while they can opt out of parenthood at any time? We already have no say if we want the kid and the woman doesn't, but that's one thing. This is just too far completely and acres us over.