What arouses you about your partner?

CoachNeat5724 · 2022-12-16T13:49:17+00:00

That she is imaginary, faceless and doesn't exist in real life (yet). Mystery adds a lot to sexual tension.

gymbro718nyc2 · 2022-12-16T17:53:53+00:00

She is a big assed Latina. What is there not to arouse me?

saraimarsena · 2022-12-16T13:49:10+00:00

when we spend any type of quality time together honestly. when we spend time just the two of us dicking around and being stupid or having deep conversations, it’s such a turn on to me i think because he makes me feel safe and open about being myself and saying whatever is on my mind.

CimZim · 2022-12-16T16:47:26+00:00

His scent is a huge factor. Getting in his car, which smells exclusively like him, is like a pavlovian response, lol.

Also I just like the way his cock looks and feels, in my hand, mouth, etc.

His tongue should be patented by sex toy designers and I am extremely lucky to be on the receiving end of it.

Lastly, the fact that he's a pillow prince is incredibly arousing because I enjoy being on top and making him fall apart. It's a very powerful and slightly smug feeling which is an aphrodisiac.

Birb-brained · 2022-12-16T13:59:06+00:00

Yesterday he made a Christmas spreadsheet.

Chalkie_ · 2022-12-16T13:51:06+00:00

Her laugh.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-12-16T14:04:27+00:00

There are so many things, but she has a way of looking at me and then gently touching in the right spots to let me know she wants me to be turned on cause she is.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2022-12-16T16:31:00+00:00

I can't pinpoint details about him that make me want to sleep with him, just being in his presence for a long enough time makes me want to jump him.

His eyes, cute smile, smell, build and him just acting cute around me make me weak in the knees.

I also for some reason get horny when we're having an intellectual debate lol

Novadina · 2022-12-16T17:30:58+00:00

When we spend time together, I get a lovey dovey feeling and want to jump his bones.

When he wears his thin gray pj bottoms or silk boxers and I see his huge package through it.

When we hug while standing up, the full body contact is great and he’s the perfect height for us to fit together and snuggle cheeks.

When he does sweet things for me, I can tell he was thinking about me and it makes me feel so fond of him and when I think about how much I love him, I want to make love to him.

When he wakes me up with his dick.

RocinanteCoffee · 2022-12-16T21:19:10+00:00

What about your partner is it that literally makes you sit there next to them and think “yeah I want to have sex right now”

Everything.

In my case this is someone I started dating casually a few months ago.

Pretty much everything makes me want them. The cut of their lips, their wit, the way they stretch their body, the focus with which they do their work, their delight when they are gaming (console and phone), their perfect eyebrows and eyelashes, the way they laugh, the way the bodywash they use combines with their own squeaky clean scent, their passion in the details and the big picture stuff, the way they self manage, their distinctive freckle, their easy self-assuredness paired with their honest and genuine vulnerability, their openness, their appetite for all varieties of pleasures, their lack of toxic positivity that doesn't demand a constant smile or sugar-coating reality, their calluses, the delicate skin on the back of their neck, I could go on for pages.

melody_of_ · 2022-12-16T13:47:50+00:00

She's dominant as fuck

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-12-16T14:17:36+00:00

He has a great body, amazing cheekbones, a great smile, and perfect teeth. His walk is almost like a swagger, slow and purposeful and confident. His voice is sexy and teasing. I think of all the men I have dated he is the only one I really think of as truly masculine in all the best ways.

themostgianthorse · 2022-12-16T14:58:41+00:00

Cute face
Little waist
Big behind
Boobs
Whatever that lower back dimple is called
Slight thigh crease
Enthusiasm

ohdiddly · 2022-12-16T13:45:50+00:00

His muscles and his cock :)

EulenWatcher · 2022-12-16T14:00:28+00:00

It’s hard to pinpoint exact reasons at this point. Just thinking about our previous sessions is enough for me, as well as touching his bare skin or him kissing me. Also his smell. Seeing him being highly competent in something also can be a turn on.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-12-16T15:49:36+00:00

His physicality: shoulders, back, and butt 😈

In terms of my physicality/psychology: the escalation of affectionate non-sexual touch to foreplay

But often my spontaneous AND responsive desire are greatly impacted by my hormones wherever I am in my cycle.

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-12-16T16:16:05+00:00

Besides the obvious of being my type, lots of weird, random things that may just be a byproduct of my own sexual frustration if I'm being honest

His voice. Particularly when he's being emotionally vulnerable or comforting. It's still deep but also soft and gentle and drives me kinda crazy.
His hands. Especially since it's been getting colder lately and he likes to help me warm my hands up with his. They are way bigger than mine and something about that makes me want him to grab and touch me somewhere else.
His eyes, especially when he's falling asleep. I see it when we snap or facetime each other before bed. I'm already a sucker for brown eyes but when he has that happy/sleepy look it absolutely wrecks me.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-12-16T16:43:07+00:00

Her arousal at the sight of me

The fact that she's always willing to go and I can rip her clothes off at any time because she wants me whenever I want her

It's like an inflationary spiral in economics but for sex. I'm attracted to her and her face and body make me aroused which she knows. She's attracted to me and my face and body make her aroused which I know. But then my arousal at her makes her even more aroused and her arousal at me makes me even more aroused. Then it keeps spiraling until we can't help each other and have to pull over and fuck in the back seat or bring her to a secluded place if we're in public. I can't tell you how many times we've fucked in public at least 20. 1st time we met she blew me in a bar bathroom after some other activities, then I took her home. It's all branched from there.

Apprehensive_Cut_146 · 2022-12-16T14:10:08+00:00

His bootty, his 🍆, his thighs, his skinny overall frame, his muscular hands, his cheekbones, his lips etc

Lysa_Bell · 2022-12-16T14:37:09+00:00

He has fantastic legs and a very tones booty. I am absolutely in awe with his eyes. The colour of his eyes is so intense. He usually has short cut hair and I absolutely love to run my fingers through his hair. He is in general very warm so he is my personal heater. As soon as I'm cozy and warm I get relaxed and want to get frisky. He knows exactly how to touch my body and the thought of that alone and the memory of it makes me horny for him. I love letting my hand wander over his upper body. He is soft and has some cushion which I enjoy. He has such a happy and friendly laugh which makes my heart soft and he always tries to make me laugh. He's very particular when it comes to certain things and I love watching him be very focused on things. He's incredibly passionate about his hobbies and I love seeing that fire of passion burn in him. He takes the lead and shows so much confidence when that fire starts. But he's also incredibly compassionate. He is open about his feelings and isn't afraid to share his thoughts with me even if they could be negative towards me he is honest. He can be super adorable when he messed up. He will still crack a joke about it but will definitely take responsibility for his fuck ups.

All of these things arouse me on him. Sometimes it's more emotional arousal (e.g. I want to be as close and connected as possible with you rn) and sometimes it's raw sexual arousal.

17milestoempty · 2022-12-16T15:46:19+00:00

Honestly, almost everything he does?

When I’m cooking breakfast and he comes up and smacks me on the butt. When he kisses me. When he’s undressing. When he does this goofy fake-sexy “raises eyebrows” thing. When we’re snuggling in bed (we sleep naked).

I love the way he smells, I love the way he looks, I love the way he makes me feel.

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-16T15:55:27+00:00

Like just being near him 😅

ashpr0ulx · 2022-12-16T17:34:12+00:00

he’s funny as fuck, super masculine but has enough of a soft side to head boop my cats, really capable, handles his shit, strong ability to lead

literaryhogwartian · 2022-12-16T17:41:08+00:00

Every single time he talks about his career and his passions. He is so clever and insightful and damned gorgeous when doing so.

chalkandapples · 2022-12-16T18:07:06+00:00

When he's close to me and talks in a certain way. Usually if he acts all sexy, it's very easy for me to get aroused. In some instances I get aroused before him, it's usually a physical thing like I suddenly feel horny for some reason, and the more I think about him the more horny I get because I know that's where I get the sex. Other times it's when I suddenly get a spike of joy when interacting with him because of something he did or said.

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-12-16T19:16:03+00:00

I just love the overall physical packaging, she's just barely 5 ft tall, beautiful face, kinda slim-thick, I love her ass it's got just the right amount of workout firmness and the jiggle that I like, nice tits, I'm a feet guy and she's got great ones, I suck on those things like chicken bones, she's half white / half Puerto Rican, from a physical standpoint everything about her just absolutely does it for me

And now she's pregnant again so that opens up a whole other level of arousal for me, I have a breeding kink, she hates birth control, her dirty talk has gotten so much better over the years, it's a beautiful thing lol

Peaupiche · 2022-12-16T19:33:51+00:00

The way he flirts with me and keeps our day to day dynamic sexual. He's very physical with me and that keeps me "on".

Also when he makes me coffee in the morning shirtless, that's nice.

NthKnife · 2022-12-16T20:08:02+00:00

His hair, his arms, how he dances, his smile, his eyes, his legs, his ass, his chest, his voice, his beautiful dick, the sounds he makes, the fact I know I can tease him or just mention sex and he's ready to go in seconds. That he likes being playfully bullied and controlled, that I can tell him what to do in bed and when.

I plan to propose to him in the future and he knows that. I love him madly and deeply.

lle-ell · 2022-12-16T21:10:34+00:00

His hair, beard stubble, soft skin, his chest hair, his eyes, his dick, his voice, the way he looks at me, touches me and kisses me, his sense of humour, his sweetness (when he's extra thoughtful or sensitive I literally want to jump hos bones

Edit: I'm not looking for a fight but I'm really curious about who downvoted me for this and why lmao

bluemooncookiedough · 2022-12-17T00:46:36+00:00

Any time I see him being altruistic honestly. I just stare at him thinking about how perfect he is and can barely keep from touching him. Also when he is focused he looks extremely attractive. He has such a safe strong and capable aura.

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hypotenoos · 2022-12-16T19:15:24+00:00

It’s definitely the way she has me measure my height and then has me show her the balance in my bank account. Gets real spicy.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-12-17T06:20:24+00:00

The other day he was on the roof in his work clothes fixing our elderly neighbours roof for her

Wearing work clothes in general

Cooking together

When he comes up behind me and gently kisses the back of my neck

When we get to spend quality time together

When he wears a certain pair of jeans

IntegrityDJones · 2022-12-17T07:20:35+00:00

Not a partner but FWB. Dead ringer for Columbus Short when he was on Scandal. Body of an NBA player. Incredible arms. Perfect dick. Adventurous in bed. Toys. Whips. Restraints. Oral game is insane. Multiple orgasms each time and cares very much about my pleasure.

CandleLess · 2022-12-20T22:36:26+00:00

Love her body, she's cute, always horny, very enthusiastic in bed. Not much to complain about it

Title	What arouses you about your partner?
Author	Cjaylyle
Upvotes	5
Comments	46
Date	December 16, 2022 12:06 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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