SW is glorified on TikTok for impressionable teens and it’s disgusting. Her whole page is flexing the money she earns and how ‘fun’ her job is. Her mum even hypes her up. Also even strippers know that it’s not empowering - they’re so quick to clarify that they aren’t ‘escorts’.

Acceptable_Fan_1745 · 2022-03-10T03:33:51+00:00

As a teen, I would dream about being a stripper and stripper vlogs were/are still very popular, we would all joke, I will say only few actually get into it. But just the narrative that I really was willing to do that and wanted to just a few years ago is dangerous in itself. It’s difficult trying to explain to friends that I do not and will never again support “sex work” which is just a nice word for modern day prostitution

ifhewantedtohewould · 2022-03-10T03:28:37+00:00

All the “empowering” comments are practically identical, these women are brainwashed.

keep_my_stuff · 2022-03-10T10:08:45+00:00

So insidious that they make it about CoNfIdEnCe

All these women not selling their ass must be so unconfident and boring smh

ifhewantedtohewould · 2022-03-10T03:57:20+00:00

All that glitters is not gold. You're not "taking from these men" anything more than they're taking from you, which is your dignity. You get a couple bucks today but you get their contempt forever. It'll be hard to ever move on from sex work because life is not tiktok or twitter, that virtue signaling shit is just in that bubble and even then it's people just saying whatever is cool to say that week. Sad girls on tiktok give SW these God complexes and it's so pathetic. SW now think they have power, influence, talent, and skills. Now they're shitting on women for having careers!

keep_my_stuff · 2022-03-10T03:02:44+00:00

Strippers make most of their money doing “private rooms” with clients where they usually perform sex acts. Most libfems are delusional and naive and think that men pay just to watch women dance and don’t touch. Also, statistically 100% of strippers are sexually assaulted while on the job. These young, impressionable women are not being told the truth about working in that industry. Just like everything else on social media, sex workers are airbrushing their lives and crafting a fake overly positive persona for entertainment.

StrawberryMoon3 · 2022-03-10T07:24:27+00:00

These naïve youg women still don't know what happens to prostitutes in Dubaï. There's nothing empowering about a stranger buying your body. And someone's body should not be something that can be purchased.

TigreImpossibile · 2022-03-10T02:51:21+00:00

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esthermaniii · 2022-03-10T11:18:56+00:00

If it’s such an empowering line of work, why do all the women have to be drunk AF or drugged out of their minds to do it?

MammothAd6132 · 2022-03-10T07:28:24+00:00

Isn't it funny how, whenever I see some pickme SWer glorifying sex work, the first thing they all do is mention (and often hyperbolize) how much money they make.

And it's funny, because it's usually not even that much money, but to young, jobless teen girls, that does seem a lot, because most of them never had an actual job before. So it's a good strategy to lure young naive girls who don't know better.

I work at a "boring" office desk job rn and I even laugh at how ridiculously much I get paid. I earn 3x more than my mom and 4x more than my dad. And I'm 22. And when I was 17, I never thought I could earn even half as much as I'm earning rn.

PerspicaciousCat · 2022-03-10T03:05:09+00:00

Sometimes I have hope for future generations and then I see shit like this. So terrifying.

dragonmonarch · 2022-03-10T05:19:26+00:00

I think I saw a TikTok from the woman in the last screenshot. She travels around by herself in the middle of the night to serve groups of men drinks. In the nude. I do NOT understand why anyone would do this by choice. That is a red flag the size of the USSR. Alone? At night? GROUPS of men???

NotMyRealName814 · 2022-03-10T07:00:22+00:00

There was a post earlier today on another sub where a stripper was remarking about how many of her regular customers often just want to talk and she had this smug attitude of how she's "an overpaid therapist" and it was just sooo enlightening to treat men as people, blah blah blah.

Fortunately several people called her out about this including me and another woman who was an actual therapist completely roasted her. There were many supportive comments for her but I was heartened at the number of people who saw through her bullshit and remarked upon it.

I really think the tide is changing with this bullshit "sex work is work" nonsense. The whole idea of dressing up rape culture, misogyny, trafficking and systematic abuse of women as "work" or empowering is laughable and is the epitome of patriarchal views on the role of women in society, to wit, women are put on Earth to serve men and men are actually entitled to women sexually, emotionally and as sources of all kinds of labor that benefits men.

We've got to keep fighting this mindset that sex "work" benefits women in any way. It may seem too slow or futile or hopeless but it will be worth it in the long run.

Godschild2020 · 2022-03-10T04:37:19+00:00

Women like Cardi B (and others) set the bar so low but people won't acknowledge this fact. Hood culture has made her millions. What's even sadder is that popular culture consumes hood culture as cool and cutting edge. Hood culture is poor black people flossing immoral behavior, crime, misogyny, consumerism, and ignorance. Music producers allow it because it fits into the larger plan of promoting ignorance over intelligence and anything goes. Now we have serious issues in younger generations and not just in the black community, but the community at large.

BasketLow8411 · 2022-03-10T05:22:54+00:00

WTAF. I have three daughters. Just no.

lawntall · 2022-03-10T10:26:04+00:00

Brainwashed. Most of the supportive comments i see on these type of videos are made by literal children too. Just sad.

2022-03-10T07:43:16+00:00

Those bikini waitresses and bikini baristas are at great risk. They regularly have stalkers and horrifying experiences

motokos_ghost · 2022-03-10T16:24:18+00:00

i was a stripper. guys didnt want to talk, they actively pursued me as if i actually wanted to date them.

sex in the private rooms is def a thing. maybe not in all strip clubs but it is a thing, my friend who worked at another club as a cocktail waitress confirmed. one of the dancers was prostituting herself for 800$, after that she could just pay the percentage to the club and leave for the night.

one thing i will say is that at my club, the dancers were welcoming to me, friendly, honest. there was a real comraderie between us. we were all genuinely looking out for each other.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2022-03-10T15:37:16+00:00

My friend was groomed and bullied by her LV SW family to become a stripper at a young age. She was shamed for wanting an education and career. She cave in and spent a decade stripping. It was a very degrading and traumatic experience despite relatively good money.

She met a HV future husband who insisted she stops stripping and goes for her dream degree. And she did it! She graduated, worked hard and now she is a successful business owner, making MUCH more while working less than she would ever do by stripping.

She said her former stripper coworkers are either drug addicts or alcoholics now, because it's impossible to cope with day-to-day degradation and stress without medicating yourself.

She very antiporn and anti SW now and would never, ever promote stripping as a variable career option for anyone, especially young teens.

PicoPicoMio · 2022-03-10T19:17:52+00:00

Don’t ever feel bad about working 5 days a week. These crazy chicks like to make people feel bad, but they’re literally getting their 🐱 pounded by zvm strangers for a coin. And trying to gaslight you that they’re somehow better than you.

MacrameGoose34 · 2022-03-10T03:51:11+00:00

Checked out her account, she has a video of her in lingerie waitressing to geriatric, obese, greasy, alcoholic men for a few hundred dollars🙃 wow what a dream job🙄

At this point if I come across a SW post, I feel so much better about my life and where I'm going...im just so thankful that SW isn't a necessity for me, because the delusion that I'd have to develop to be able to rationalise dancing in the nude for physically repulsive men would make me more mentally ill than I am now lol.

2022-03-10T07:42:26+00:00

I used to think that $2,000 a month was an insane amount of money, where you've really made it. Now that I'm no longer 18 years old, it's barely any money at all. Now I make close to $4,000 a month and still there are tons of people who make 10,000 or even $20,000 a month at their "stupid office job". I also have a nice window seat with a view of the mountains and trees and a plant, I listen to music all day and I wear a turtleneck. I have a lot of respect for myself but mostly safety and a career trajectory and a 401k. It's really shameful about young girls who think $200 is a ton of money are being psyoped into this b*******

2022-03-10T09:02:17+00:00

Top of the list for all HVM and Queen’s. Must Sell body for money… NOT! Sounds like she’s using ‘over justification’ to me which is response to past trauma and her behaviour.

theglossiernerd · 2022-03-10T16:06:52+00:00

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again, if sex work were empowering for women, the women leading that narrative as sex workers need to be restructuring beauty and sexuality standards that are not inherently patriarchal. Revolutionize sex work to focus solely on the female orgasm and not the satisfaction of men and I’ll say it’s empowering.

The money and power dynamics of sex work have not changed. They have simply adapted to satisfy the emerging financial/consumer market that is becoming increasingly based on social media content creators.

Just like Bit Coin bros talk about crowd-sourcing “ownership” of things like sports teams, Sex Work grls have just commodified their share of the market and are calling it “empowerment.”

2022-03-10T18:27:11+00:00

Cool! So after she quits, I’m sure that that fast money won’t screw her over later or have consequences. Nope. At least those office jobs people don’t have to worry about their reputations later.

warinmymind94 · 2022-03-11T05:12:02+00:00

There was a page I followed back and I noticed the woman running it had bruises all over herself. When I went through her posts she admitted she was doing irl and only prostitution and had other posts crying and talking about her mental illnesses she struggles with. I do feel bad for her, but it's more evidence prostitution is NOT empowering. I immediacy out it together - you Know these men using and abusing her gave her those bruises and if anything made her mental health even worse. Ended up blocking her account but did report the posts.

So yeah. Tell me again how prostitution is empowering.

frostedgemstone · 2022-03-11T06:31:48+00:00

SW industry really convincing women that having a normal job is something to be ashamed of

KindredMaximus · 2022-03-11T22:25:31+00:00

Women have been brainwashed - I notice the man knows exactly what it is. He knows she isn't respected, he knows how every man who looks at her thinks she's selling sex and has no brains. It doesn't matter how much women scream how empowered they are. Most of the world refuse to be gaslit by their delusions.

I also find this pursuit of money at any cost rather distasteful in todays world. It galls me that people who are the richest , are the ones the media are constantly shoving in our faces as some kind of pinnacle of mankind. And what are most of those men doing behind closed doors? - raping, drugging and abusing. I get why poverty creates a 'needs must' situation for millions of women around the world. But this women was in no danger of being in poverty and she's got opportunities(eg education) that she is squandering in her country (I'm assuming USA), while she wastes time wiggling her tits at disgusting, disrespectful men.

One night for me being a promotions girl at the footy game being made to wear heels and a short skirt, left me hating men who like football - for life. I hate them. The minute a man tells me he goes to football games, I walk away. I don't even speak, I just turn my back. How is she not seeing the hatred and absolute disrespect these men have for her? And how is she finding it 'empowering' and not enraging?

warinmymind94 · 2022-03-11T05:07:45+00:00

Theyre prostitutes. Stop using the buzzword sugar coated term sw.

CheetahEnergy · 2022-03-11T05:29:11+00:00

This is some dystopian shit

AnniaT · 2022-03-12T00:53:46+00:00

Hope she's saving money because women in the sex industry have a very short shelf life.

StrawberryMoon3 · 2022-03-12T03:45:04+00:00

Why are so many pertinent comments here getting deleted? What's going on?

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