Do Chads ever get annoyed at too much female attention

AlmostKindaGreat · 2023-08-14T22:03:10+00:00

I wouldn't usually call myself Chad, since Chad is a perfect ideal, but I get a good amount of attention from women and am successful with them.

I usually don't mind attention and am flattered, even if I'm not attracted to the woman. I'm only ever annoyed if I'm not enjoying talking to her, she doesn't take the hint, and she monopolizes my personal space and ability to converse with others. If she's interesting to talk to I won't get annoyed regardless. I'm not always on the prowl for hot chicks or something. I like talking to cool people regardless of gender or attractiveness.

SwaySh0t · 2023-08-14T21:43:42+00:00

In real life no but online dating and social media yea because even the unattractive women still want you court them or jump through some kinda weird hoop.

huhwhatokok · 2023-08-14T23:23:12+00:00

Even if you’re Chad, you’re not going to consistently be bombarded by women. What’s going to happen mainly is you’re going to be “reciprocated” by women easily. That’s why being Chad is at the top of the pyramid. If you don’t want much attention, you can stop engaging. Women still want to be approached and asked out, they’ll just put themselves in positions for chad to do it.

ratboi34 · 2023-08-14T22:24:17+00:00

I would reverse everyone's age in this sub to 10 years old and sell them into a cobalt mine in Congo for eternity, just to be Chad for a week.

kkkan2020 · 2023-08-14T21:37:31+00:00

I doubt it. It's a valuable currency to hold and who can say there's too much money

ultr4violence · 2023-08-15T02:11:11+00:00

I once worked with a guy who was a like a taller, blonder more handsome david beckham. We went around town for our work, and everywhere we went girls would give him attention. Like use any excuse to come talk to him without actually asking him out. Then there were the constant looks, from suggestive ones to basically stripping him with their eyes. Like constantly, everywhere, it seemed like the women had no filter or inner voice tellling them it wasnt okay. To at least be a litle subtle about it.

And these were young, attractive women too. At first I was crazy jealous of him, from how these girls who I'd have to bend over backwards to give me any attention were just fawning over him.

But I actually started to feel for the guy after awhile. He had a gf he was devoted to, and so it was nothing but unwanted attention and while he pretended to notice none of it, he was obviously annoyed.

I've also worked with a very good looking woman, and she got men coming upto her very frequently, with the distinct purpose of chatting her up, and sometimes so aggresively that they would not leave her alone.

The vast majority of men though, they did not approach her at all, much less ask her out. They would check her out though, near every single one. But they were much more subdued/careful with how they did it.

To me it looked like they had two different kinds of aggravations from the sheer amount of attention. And while the women were over-all a more constant annoyance, day in and day out, they almost never pushed his boundaries. And in the rare times it happened, then my mate was certainly not threatened by it, just more annoyed.

But many of the men hitting up my female coworker certainly did push her boundaries. Not nearly all of them were respectful during their advances. Particularly not when they were turned down. And even those who were, they would be pushing and probing still. And these tended to be well dressed, fit, handsome men with good socializing skills. They could read her lack of interest, just didn't care or think it meant anything.

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-14T22:16:44+00:00

I have a high sex drive so I don’t

StopTheIncels · 2023-08-14T22:18:49+00:00

"For every hot girl, there's a guy tired of fucking her"

controllrevival · 2023-08-14T23:32:51+00:00

Damn we got some playas in this sub.

miiiing · 2023-08-14T21:28:58+00:00

I'm not a chad but I get more than enough solicits noto comment. It's 'annoying' if it's from unattractive women who don't see my hints of I'm not interested. Which is a reflection of how women feel when they get hit on by men they don't care about.

I'd feel 'chad' probably feels the same way.

not-a-dude-at-all · 2023-08-15T03:05:38+00:00

Back in school being chased by girls was annoying because I had no real interest in them. Going into relationships just to get sex seems dumb - school girls were dumb and annoying. Was more interested in other things. Idea that I can just go and ask somebody out put dating low in my priority list.

When I decided to find somebody just to check how it all works - managed to find a girl just by cold approaching a few of them in park. So I think I'm attractive to them by some unknown reasons. Went to clubs few times, some girls paid me attention there. Can't say that attention was that pleasant because I stopped going there soon. Remember getting compliments there and there. Idea of fucking around was just too boring and would eat too much of my time.

UPD: was asked to have sex directly one or two times, rejected them for being creepy. One time was asked out by woman just to find that she only interested in sex.

not_my_name_username · 2023-08-15T03:31:00+00:00

I think part of the problem with to much male attention is that men are usually bigger and stronger than women and some men can be pretty dangerous.

JumboJetz · 2023-08-15T06:11:42+00:00

Speaking as Chad-lite, no not really but after like 2 women I don’t have time for anything else really. So Chad with 10 women might exist but I don’t think it’s that common. I’m not a very social person though so maybe an extrovert who loves being out can juggle even more.

RepresentativeBook62 · 2023-08-14T23:23:41+00:00

It can be overwhelming. I've had one woman laying in my bed and another text me to say she's coming by for a hookup and won't take no for an answer and I have to find a way to get the other one in my bed up out of my house before the other shows up, grab a shower, etc with less than 30 mins notice.

I've been caught out with one woman by others I'm hooking up with leading to fights.

I've had to stop going to certain clubs or bars because I was seeing a regular there and we split up and I have to let her have the bar for a few weeks/months to allow a cooling off period.

I've destroyed my reputation in bars/clubs before by sleeping with too many women in them.

Harem management is a thing.

MotherPermit9585 · 2023-08-14T22:01:52+00:00

My husband probably wouldn’t consider himself a Chad but has always gotten lots of attention from women and girls since grade school and is usually the best looking in any random group of normal guys. He is usually amused unless it’s excessive and invades his personal space. Like one time he was walking down the street alone and a group of about 8 young women started whistling and catcalling him, trying to grab at him and he felt nervous/thought he was going to trip on the sidewalk. He was annoyed but not scared in that situation.

He also gets a lot of attention from gay men which doesn’t really bother him (he’s not homophobic) as long as they’re respectful and don’t try to touch him sexually.

SlowEffective8146 · 2023-08-14T21:32:38+00:00

I generally don't. I do get annoyed at women using altered/fake pictures to catfish me though to try to get my attention.

baiser_vole · 2023-08-15T00:23:15+00:00

My boyfriend always gets told he is handsome by his friends' moms. He finds it weird.

fvckit88 · 2023-08-15T00:52:52+00:00

Not a chad but I do well. And no, only when they’re weird about it. Even if I’m not attracted to them I try to be nice about it. The worst is when they are interested in you but you’re interested their friend because that tends to hurt people’s feelings and there’s no great way to deal with it

ParticularCamera2297 · 2023-08-15T02:30:06+00:00

I’m no Chad, but possibly above average, and fat/ugly girls and some gay guys would sometimes be hard to deal with out at the bars, especially when they’re persistent. In those situations, I feel like what women feel about male attention, and how being nice can give the wrong message.

pop442 · 2023-08-15T04:02:32+00:00

I'm no Chad but I've gotten female attention a number of times. I'm a 6.5-7 in looks so, with a good shapeup or groom, I can appeal to a number of women.

Only time I've gotten annoyed by too much female attention was back when I used to work part time as a Math tutor for a middle school and some of the female students would flirt with me which put me in a very tight position as a young Adult man being surrounded by minors.

Weird_Inevitable27 · 2023-08-15T06:34:02+00:00

Idk but one problem often overlooked is that some of those women that take the initiative not only cannot accept rejection but they also feel personally insulted by your preferences and they just don't get that there's no spark.

GodspeedHarmonica · 2023-08-15T10:34:18+00:00

Of course. But since men never get anything out of playing the victim card, chads keep their annoyance to themselves.

Opening_Tell9388 · 2023-08-15T15:43:15+00:00

I'm not from Africa. So I can't speak for them.

Though as a tall attractive man that has always been great with women, yes.

If I'm out with a girl or some friends women just always stare, they will come up and try to dirty mac. A girl I'm talking to might beef with their homegirls who get extra friendly when I'm around. Women in the family can get weird. It can just get really wild.

I sometimes get sexually assaulted when I go out, even if I'm talking to another girl. It can get to be a lot. But sometimes it comes with a lot of perks.

lacuti3 · 2023-08-14T21:16:21+00:00

Hot guys would say they feel invisible most of the time if they were honest. Just like hot girls would say they feel invisible most of the time if they were honest. Everybody’s self-absorbed and only care about themselves.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-08-14T22:15:51+00:00

Kinda, they’ll make fun of the women simping for them. Like they’ll show their friends (me) the desperate cringy things these ho’s say/do for them.

It makes both them and I lose respect for these individuals and reflects poorly on women as a whole

januaryphilosopher · 2023-08-14T23:12:05+00:00

Absolutely if they don't want that woman. It's common even for single and looking men to complain if a fat woman or a single mum (the two PPD boogeywomen) has the audacity to think she's in their league.

shanshkrishur · 2023-08-15T04:56:08+00:00

Background: I’m not a chad, purely based off of height (I’m 5’10) but I got the goods in almost all other departments. I’m in a weird space where I’m facially attractive enough to get attention but I’m mogged height-wise by more than half of the men where I live since most residents in my town are of German or Nordic descent, the average height here must be like 6’ since even literal children (14 year old zoomers) are taller than me. And getting mogged by other men height-wise makes women rate you lower than they otherwise would.

To answer the question: In places full of brown people (Hispanic/Indian/Middle Eastern/SE Asian), it’s wonderful I get attention from attractive women. In areas full of white people, it sucks because the only women I get attention from are, for lack of a better term, “lower-tier” – ugly or fat or single-mothers, etc. As my luck would have it, I’m in a place full of white people, Nordic whites to boot.

I don’t think I get much attention from NE Asians probably because they stick to their own, and I don’t get attention from blacks either, probably because they are also height queens.

GloryToChadlantis · 2023-08-15T00:55:51+00:00

I would call myself a Chad but I do have a body count of 204.

It's not so much female attention, it is what kind of female giving you attention.

I could plow 8 dumpster donkeys tonight if I wanted.

But the kind of women I like are all taken.

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InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-14T21:28:16+00:00

Yes. If it's not the kind of female attention they want, ie a girl they aren't attracted to likes them.

physious · 2023-08-15T04:25:05+00:00

I'm not "chad" but I don't really find it annoying.

The thing is, men (usually) don't have to worry about women harassing, raping, or killing you. So I'm not going to compare my experience to a woman's.

thisreallyisnotok · 2023-08-15T15:49:58+00:00

I don’t like being groped. Lots of young drunk women are bad at boundaries and old drunk women can act desperate sometimes.

washington_breadstix · 2023-08-15T17:38:11+00:00

The "Chads" I knew in high school would absolutely complain about attention from women they felt were "beneath their station". But that was high school, we were all pretty immature. Since living in the adult world, I don't think I've ever encountered a Chad who complained about too much attention from women. Maybe the closest thing would be a Chad who complained about "chasing girls" being too much of a distraction from other things he wanted to focus on in his life.

Patrickstarho · 2023-08-15T17:56:57+00:00

Title	Do Chads ever get annoyed at too much female attention
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Date	August 14, 2023 8:49 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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