Q4W: Is your current boyfriend/husband the best looking partner you've ever had sex with?

DivineDaedra · 2023-09-16T00:06:07+00:00

Yes, but he’s also the only one so… there’s that.

I wouldn’t trade his looks with any of my previous dating partners either though.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-16T00:12:47+00:00

He's the only man that I've been with and I wouldn't change anything about his looks.

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-16T02:01:12+00:00

No woman is going to say no. When women are in love they think their partner is the hottest guy they’ve ever been with. Even if it’s not true.

Razumnyy · 2023-09-16T00:14:38+00:00

Yes, and I wouldn’t switch his looks with anyone.

operation-spot · 2023-09-16T02:29:14+00:00

I think there’s no reason for men to focus on being the most attractive or the best a woman’s ever had because she obviously likes you and her relationship with you so there’s no need to focus on other men. She can always find someone who’s objectively better and being the best in a certain way is not going to change that so focus on being the best you can be, not the absolute best.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-15T23:50:30+00:00

I gotta have sex with him for the next 50+ years, of course he's the most attractive guy I've been with.

I wouldn't have married him if he wasn't.

Operatesinreality · 2023-09-15T23:37:26+00:00

Yes, he is.

saraimarsena · 2023-09-15T23:50:50+00:00

yes, most definitely. he’s so handsome i love it. he’s perfectly my type and if i maintain eye contact w him too long i get shy and have to look away.

my n count is 2 tho.

Glowupgirl111 · 2023-09-16T00:34:49+00:00

yes Ive slept with lots of guys and my current partner is the best looking.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-16T00:52:23+00:00

Sure. He's also my only one, so it's not that he has to worry about me being dishonest about it.

Safinated · 2023-09-16T06:30:34+00:00

Nope, he’s the best at sex

Because I’ve had it with him the longest. By a lot

He wouldn’t ask, because I’m not the hottest woman he’s every slept with. So we mutually don’t open that can of worms

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-09-16T08:07:48+00:00

Yes, both objectively and subjectively. I'm very biased, but I literally can't imagine finding another man more attractive than him.

thelajestic · 2023-09-15T23:46:15+00:00

I certainly think so, but I caveat that with the understanding that your bond with someone will make them seem more attractive to you. So while i think my husband is the most attractive person I've had sex with (nay, the most attractive person in the world) I recognise that others may not think so and my feelings for him probably have a big influence on that.

But on the other hand, he is smoking hot and there is no one hotter.

JNRoberts42 · 2023-09-15T23:40:10+00:00

My first boyfriend was by far the tallest and girthiest. My second boyfriend was the most intelligent and creative. My third boyfriend was the prettiest. My fourth boyfriend was the funniest.

Hell no I wouldn't tell any of them. How in the world would any man take "My high school boyfriend is 7'1 and had a dick bigger than my forearm". My fourth boyfriend damn near had a stroke when he saw our prom pictures on my parent's mantle.

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MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-09-16T00:06:22+00:00

I'd say so. I have been with one guy who was my exact type but I'm fully aware he wasn't the most handsome man ever and my husband definitely looks a lot better than him, even if the other guy had the ''right'' elements to be The Handsomest Boy.

houstongradengineer · 2023-09-16T00:45:44+00:00

He's the ONLY, so of course. I have never been quick or over eager to have sex. It's an adult thing that should be taken seriously, even if people are more casual, but I am a stable person who would consider raising children and being loyal for life to a man who I would care for on his death bed I deserve to look my hardest for the sane in return. Not only is my man to the best looking, but he also proposed to me. He seems to be as capable as I am of monogamy - non casually.

OpalescentCrow · 2023-09-16T01:30:24+00:00

My ex, my best friend, was someone I normally wouldn’t be attracted to. But after I got to know him, he became handsome to me. Tbh I’m still a little in love lol

ashpr0ulx · 2023-09-16T01:59:27+00:00

yes, but i have on heavy love goggles

but he is the most “my type” guy i’ve ever dated as well, so it might not be just the love goggles, and he’s the best in bed.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-09-16T02:17:17+00:00

Adjusted for age, I would say yes. Probably one of the people I have had sex with that I would say is out of my league.

Wolvengirla88 · 2023-09-16T03:33:54+00:00

I’ve never looked at another person since. I mean I’ll have an aesthetic reaction if they’re gone a long time and I’m really sad and lonely. But I’ve never gotten the happy feeling internally that I do from looking at them. There’s just no context.

Highonuppers · 2023-09-16T03:50:18+00:00

Not the hottest, but certainly the most good looking. No, I wouldn’t tell him if he asked because what’s point?

And no, I wouldn’t change his looks cuz I like him just the way he is.

Difficult_Performer · 2023-09-16T07:12:52+00:00

I'd never trade and I tell him all the time. He is the most attractive. Mine has been my biggest crush since I was in 7th grade. He was older than me and while he was the hottest shit walking to me, he is not at all attractive - by the conventional standards and he's aware and makes comments about that often (I argue it HARD bc those standards mean nothing to me in regards to him, he's flawless in my eyes)... So that got to be my dirty little secret in middle and high school bc I was partnered to someone decently popular, who almost all the other girls were attracted to, and tried and failed to shoot their shot with. And at that time I never thought I'd get a snowflakes chance in hell with my partner bc of who he was as a person and I felt guilty for being "ungrateful" about being with my shitbag ex bc I fantasized about having a life with my current partner and other women would say all this untrue crap about how "lucky" I am and envious they were. :/ I'd not trade his appearance for ANYTHING. He is him and now he's mine and that's more luck than I'd ever deserved to have. Hes gorgeous and perfect in every way bc he looks so uniquely himself. We were really good friends that whole time but If I could go back I would've been fully honest about my attraction and put my feelings all the way out there so I could've had more good years with him. He's fine as frog hair twice as fancy and on the inside he's an absolute gem as well. He's also excellent in the sack and I'd never give him up for anyone else in that aspect either. I hope he sticks around a long time.

januaryphilosopher · 2023-09-16T08:32:07+00:00

He is, and also the worst looking, because he's the only. I wouldn't compare his looks to others unless he asked, and I don't know why he's ask that. I like the way he looks and don't want him to look different, it wouldn't be the person I fell for any more.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-09-16T10:14:04+00:00

Not in a LTR but I’d say my last 2 exes were about the same level of attractiveness just in different ways. More attractive than my first boyfriend ha

TSquaredRecovers · 2023-09-16T23:30:37+00:00

Yes. Unequivocally yes. And I’ve had a handful of long-term relationships as well as a decent number of FWBs and casual encounters. But my husband is definitely the most attractive.

kamalaophelia · 2023-09-17T08:42:36+00:00

Yes. Also the best in bed. The loveliest. The one making me happiest.

I am very “I love this person so I can’t even understand what I found sexually attractive in other guys” tho. Like I used to love Henry Cavill, but now… yeh he pretty but… meh

Title	Q4W: Is your current boyfriend/husband the best looking partner you've ever had sex with?
Author	l00ks-p1lled
Upvotes	4
Comments	61
Date	September 15, 2023 11:34 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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