My brother in law was forced to get a circumcision at age 17 by his mother. The women I speak to don't see this as sexual abuse. His penis was damaged and he still is humiliated to this day.

East_Meeting_667 · 2024-02-28T14:12:04+00:00

It's genital mutilation and done on young kids is a horrible practice. I know two guys that had it done at 13 and 17 respectfully for real medical reasons and they say it's the traumatic at a minimum.

ImperatorRomanum83 · 2024-02-28T17:28:20+00:00

Before I became a nurse, I worked in disability care for 20 years.

Most of the Russian and Ukrainian babies that wealthy white couples in the US adopt usually always come with SERIOUS developmental and mental health issues due to being left in a crib and ignored by the orphanage from the day they were born.

I've coordinated state services for 12 different families with Russian adoptions over the years, and every single one of them made the kids get circumcised...some as old as 15. I would try so so hard to explain that they already have deep attachment issues with unpredictable violence. The parents never cared, and it always made the kid worse behavior wise.

From a medical perspective, we in the US treat the male prepuce differently from literally every single other part of human anatomy, and it's solely to protect the feelings of people who have either been circumcised by someone who loves them, or have had someone they love circumcised.

Would we remove the milk ducts from a baby girl because she may get breast cancer?

Current_Finding_4066 · 2024-02-28T15:17:52+00:00

Ask them how they feel about female circumcision, and point out their hypocrisy. Unfortunately average person is pretty undeducated and not really smart, so, not gonna get far.

NinjaSelect3581 · 2024-02-28T16:15:27+00:00

To me it seems this is the one issue that distinguishes women from men. How do women expect circumcised men in particular to be empathic towards women’s issues when this practice of male genital mutilation is considered par for the course? And still, that’s not the end of it because women are often unsympathetic towards other women as well. But I digress because the question is really, why women don’t accept a man’s body as it was created? The comedian Amy Schumer even made fun of uncircumcised men in one of her standup routines. It almost makes me feel there is no way to solve the psychological differences between the sexes until women accept men as they are born.

I’ve never met anyone who advocates female genital mutilation fortunately but that’s so similar it’s mind boggling that there are people who practice this.

UltimateShame · 2024-02-28T14:02:16+00:00

How can a mother force a 17 year old to have his genitals mutilated?

Fantastic_Witness391 · 2024-02-28T20:41:42+00:00

If it’s done to a girl it’s horrendous, if it’s done to a guy it’s completely fine, stupid double standards!

Tech_Nerd92 · 2024-02-28T16:22:57+00:00

If I ever be blessed to be a parent I will never let them, mutilate my child. It's weird soon as a child gets born into the world we want to start cutting shit off them.

HeForeverBleeds · 2024-02-28T20:51:41+00:00

Parents shouldn't even have the authority to force circumcisions onto their children, at any age. It's disgusting that this sexual abuse and physical assault is legally sanctioned.

One of many examples of why it's nonsense when people say that males have "all the rights" and that their bodies aren't controlled by other people like females' supposedly are.

Alarmed-Rent-5384 · 2024-02-28T18:29:21+00:00

Circumcision is not ok to force someone to have. It should be illegal to have your child get one or force someone to get one. I know wayy to many guys who have gotten one and regretted it or hated their parents for giving them it. I hope its stoped soon.

rjm101 · 2024-02-28T18:08:33+00:00

It's genital mutilation and I'm tired of people acting like it's not. Clearly it is.

krackedy · 2024-02-28T13:41:43+00:00

Where did that happen? Was it medically necessary or cosmetic? So many questions.

Friendly_Might_1348 · 2024-02-28T14:41:59+00:00

Any time I see a story like this I think of one episode of South Park where one of the characters (his name's Ike) had his penis cut. It wasn't done by a doctor but by a rabbi (Ike's foster family is Jewish) and I also remember that the explanation there was so it 'can look bigger'

whathappened2cod · 2024-02-28T19:26:29+00:00

This is one of those topics I just can't put my finger on. It's total mutilation and wrong, but I enjoy having a circumsized penis. I really need to think whether or not I want my future kid to go through that. I think it's totally wrong how women shame men who are not circumsized.

hmspain · 2024-02-28T21:56:00+00:00

Where is the father in all this?

LettuceBeGrateful · 2024-02-29T03:36:33+00:00

It's so disgusting how people don't care about this. It compounds the violation of the practice itself.

Sometimes I hate this planet.

TheseMeat4233 · 2024-02-29T11:29:57+00:00

Because the gender empathy gap exists. Men are seen as the perpetrators and women as victims, different roles are really hard to be aknowledged in society.

Roamer56 · 2024-02-28T19:46:35+00:00

My doctor was a DO and can tell he wasn’t fond of the practice. He did minimal cutting and left me with a decent amount of skin, thankfully.

HugsAllCats · 2024-02-29T02:59:29+00:00

What kind of shit ass doctor does this to a 17 year old without their consent? Jesus christ

Poetic_Dew · 2024-02-29T21:42:14+00:00

I think he should have had the choice just like womym bitch and moan about their bodies belong to them. I am not a feminist so please call me a woman, not the feminist spelling of womym.

I think we should show the differences between real women and the good ones versus the Feminists Womym. I am not the enemy they are.

Womyn is one of several alternative political spellings of the English word women, used by some feminists. There are other spellings, including womban (a reference to the womb or uterus) or womon (singular), and wombyn or wimmin (plural).

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Womyn#:~:text=Womyn%20is%20one%20of%20several,wombyn%20or%20wimmin%20(plural).

Poetic_Dew · 2024-02-29T23:11:34+00:00

Actually, what they are doing to him is an act of oppression. Maybe men's rights should say the same thing.

It's our bodies leave my penis alone! He should decide, and we need to pass a law that keeps them off womyn having the right to make choices for him.

This is a double standard. I don't like womyn dictators. I have had enough of female dictatorship. The power goes to their head, and then they force things upon you.

I am calling feminist by the spelling they like, and I will remain a non feminist woman. I think feminists are like this lilith that was created. She doesn't exist. But I think she was created to promote the feminist ideal.

Lilith is a female demonic figure of Jewish folklore. Her name and personality are thought to be derived from the class of Mesopotamian demons called lilû, and the name is usually translated as “night monster." A cult associated with Lilith survived among some Jews as late as the 7th century ce.

https://www.britannica.com/topic/Lilith-Jewish-folklore

It was always Adam and Eve, not Adam and Litith. Eve was deceived, which is why there had been difficulty with women. Which is where a woman comes from. It was never meant to be an oppressive word. But feminists want to make it sound demeaning. There were good men in the bible that treated women well, just as there were men who didn't. The good men honored their wives. The wives honored the men. I am so sick and tired of the distortions that feminist make out that all men are oppressive. If that were true, no one even back then would have married. Marriage isn't about oppression towards men. It's supposed to be an expression of love with both sides.

Men are scared of bossy women as much as women are scared of bossy men. I don't blame men who feel the lack of love from real women who are raised that way. No one wants to be controlled by either side. Instead, both sides want to be respected. But unfortunately, it's not always like that. :(

I have witnessed Bossy controlling women and when a man sees a woman who is not like her. Naturally he gravitates to a woman who won't treat him that way. I observed this around my friends friends. She was Bossy and jealous and she looked at me like she wanted to chop me up and hack me to pieces.

Men don't want to be controlled, and she was controlling that they were bickering a lot. If both sides are respectful, then it can be a fantastic relationship. I really believe that even if I never had that yet.

I think feminists want to destroy women like me because I am not like them. I don't want to live in a world full of men who aren't respected or appreciated.

Poetic_Dew · 2024-03-01T00:28:01+00:00

What country did this happen in OP? I really think stories like this should be in the news.

You should take this to The Young Turks. I bet that would piss a lot of men off. I would think they might treat men's issues fairly

The Young Turks https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Young_Turks

Ana Kasparian does strike as a feminist. I don't know if you're story should go to her. I think it should go to a man since it is a man's issue.

But i am pretty sure i would direct this to Cenk Uygur may show some interest in your story or even some one like Joe Rogan maybe.

kozhithalayan · 2024-02-29T03:35:26+00:00

Why is “my body my choice” just for women? Me personally think foreskin can be nasty if not cleaned properly (basic mens hygiene) but doesnt give the right for the mother to do such thing

2024-02-28T16:52:55+00:00

Are they a religious family?

EulereeEuleroo · 2024-02-28T21:50:05+00:00

Do people see female circumcisions as sexual abuse? If it is sexual abuse, then it's a completely different type of sexual abuse from the usual.

PS: circumcision bad, since it's necessary to say it unfortunately

AssuredAttention · 2024-02-28T20:55:35+00:00

Not buying that story at all. At 17 he could refuse it. He was not forced. Likely he had a medical issue and is now trying to blame all of it on the circumcision. He was not forced into it at all.

Signal_Pattern7869 · 2024-02-28T20:49:10+00:00

Is this religious? Otherwise whattafuckery of this is just beyond.

scrimshaw_is_art · 2024-03-01T04:20:48+00:00

It's really bizarre to see a guy go on about male bodily autonomy when only just a few days ago, you were asking reddit if it is ok for you to take a pic of your grandpa's dick without his consent (after he's taken his sleeping meds) and share it with someone else.

For the confused, check his post history

Icy_Psychology_3453 · 2024-02-28T15:44:21+00:00

clickbait. fake story.

source?

Cutdick_lover · 2024-02-28T14:22:57+00:00

Did he suffer from phimosis or some other issues? If he did then it was necessary.

Scary-Error4119 · 2024-02-28T14:25:56+00:00

Fake you seem like a female Post ing...on here ...

Roddy0608 · 2024-02-28T22:39:02+00:00

What does sexual mean though?

RevolutionaryCry7230 · 2024-02-28T18:27:48+00:00

OP may I ask in which country you are? Also, was this part of some religious practice? I am in a country where circumcision is extremely rare. When it is done it is only done for medical reasons. Some men have a very tight foreskin that does not allow them to expose the glans. This may lead to recurrent infections, lack of hygiene and uncomfortable sexual intercourse.

IllustriousSalt5696 · 2024-02-29T02:33:56+00:00

Because broken homes = billable hours.

So they let women do whatever they want because strong men create strong children that resist their evil.

Abortion, no fault divorce, child support, welfare, the bribes are endless.

The king of demons built Solomon’s temple, the one they want to rebuild and ultimately that’s what this is all about, no one left to stop the anti christ.

Sad_Letterhead_6673 · 2024-03-01T01:48:46+00:00

The hospitals sell the foreskin for top dollar, it's in the consent forms.

sickofretards · 2024-03-01T03:02:39+00:00

how can she force him????

AlexExpect · 2024-03-01T10:00:38+00:00

Also as a woman, um well it feels better with foreskin than without it (just make sure men with it know how to wash their dicks properly because a lot of them don’t know how. I’m not gonna go into detail of what the proper way to clean it is, google it of ya don’t know). Interestingly my dad even told me if I was born a male he would have had me circumcised too because of the health risks involved with keeping the foreskin. He didn’t approve when I said the only risks come from not cleaning your dick. Just clean your dick! He also didn’t approve when I said that if I ever had a male kid I wouldn’t do it.

tableender · 2024-03-03T15:41:23+00:00

Should have been his body, his choice. Also if I recall correctly, if you don't have a Penis you shouldn't have an opinion.

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