Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky?

VisionsOfVisions · 2022-05-27T05:57:58+00:00

Try dating girls in grad/medical/law school. Academically, they have been pre-selected for excelling in more than just their appearance. The girls you are interacting with seem to be the ones who have used their appearance to move up in life.

ZachMoore88 · 2022-05-27T11:48:15+00:00

What you need is a hot girl who didn't get hot until after high school.

RitaPoole56 · 2022-05-27T11:14:22+00:00

The funniest part of this post is when OP wrote the hot girls don’t have a humerus bone (aka a "funny bone") in their bodies vs a humorous one.

The funniest comment is the one that claims women in med school or doctors are self absorbed when they are focused on getting a tremendous amount of detailed knowledge into their heads and or focused on a caring profession. Sure there are exceptions and many have ego issues but the over generalization in a career based on helping others was ironically amusing.

fewbar2021 · 2022-05-27T06:02:21+00:00

Its usually just about personality, its not really about women. The babes I know are all rad as fuck in ways that can be appreciated by everybody. They outnumber the dumbasses.

Some girls get by on their looks, just like anyone with good looks would. But a lot of them are interesting, educated/intelligent, and good company.

I suppose in more rural areas yeah maybe this could be your experience, but not where im at

TeamToken · 2022-05-27T07:43:28+00:00

this is the best post i’ve ever read. i can relate to this. the last guy i dated was this to the T. thanks for the chuckle.

jejunum32 · 2022-05-27T08:56:31+00:00

I’ve been with two women I’d consider a 10/10 (both over an extended period of time). One was very average in bed, was a poser and expected to be entertained.

The other 10? An absolute rocket.

The best sex ever? Has been with two women who are above average in looks but absolute dynamite in the bedroom (and elsewhere).

Not sure that helps, but that’s my experience.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-05-27T12:05:06+00:00

I suppose extremely attractive people have never needed to develop much in the way of substance; apparently most guys will put up with anything if a cute lady opens wide and lets them cum inside - and not just for a night but for a longer term relationship. They'll jump through hoops for months and months and parade around with their ditzy girl as if she's a flesh trophy, who's the real loser here?

Bingo, you've hit the nail on the head. Most guys struggle getting laid in general so they will put up with anything if it means getting their dick wet and since hot girls have tons of guys hitting them up, they never have to put any work in to have a partner.

There are exceptions to this of course, but they are not easy to find like you said.

Skadongle · 2022-05-27T12:20:23+00:00

The concept of real life NPCs really seems more believable as the years go by... though this applies to men aswell.

Contango6969 · 2022-05-27T05:50:58+00:00

Yeah most of them never had to develop any kind of a personality. It’s way worse with zoomer generation girls though they all got any spark of individuality beaten out of them vis social media in their formative years I think. It’s to the point where I can predict how a 22 year old girl will respond to anything I say to her at a very high % accuracy.

mystylejay · 2022-05-27T05:52:00+00:00

Dude, you wrote a lot putting a good amount of frustration in your words.

But the answer is in the question.

Why do you approach beautiful women?

You are dating hot babes AND tHEN you realise how empty they are(which,btw, does not hold for hot babes for sure).

Why not trying to approach babes you feel a connection with?

b.t.w. The most gorgeus babe I dated was a total dumb. But it makes sense: I got her for her huge tits not for her tiny brain:)

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-05-27T11:00:15+00:00

I met a guy friend of one of my coworkers. Not only was he taller than me, I'm 5'11", but he was way better looking, had blue eyes. AND on top of that he was smart, funny, well traveled and nice. I ABSOLUTELY HATE HIM!!!

DeliberatelyInsane · 2022-05-27T10:04:01+00:00

Most hot women are liked just for their aesthetics. As a result, they haven't had a need to show their interesting side and are thus not in touch with their fascinating selves. It's some work to bring that out for both of us, but when I successfully do so, the whole dynamic gets so mich better.

RoadyCoder · 2022-05-27T08:19:21+00:00

THIS! I’ve literally been saying this for years but nobody ever listens!

The most meaningful and enjoyable dates/sex/connections I’ve had were always with wonderfully sweet, funny, and kind women who were average looking. I don’t know how to describe it except to say I remember them much more fondly than I do the women who were considered ‘hot’.

My theory is that hot women become aware that they’re hot early in life, and they subsequently believe that they no longer have to work on themselves or make any kind of character progression whatsoever because being hot is all they’ll ever need to be. It’s a horribly misguided mindset and I honestly couldn’t imagine being in a relationship with one of these types of women. They’re painfully boring, shallow as fuck, and ignorant to the point of being downright loathsome. I rarely approach ‘hot’ women anymore - not out of fear, but more because they bore the living shit out of me.

BadassKittenMom · 2022-05-27T11:40:07+00:00

The sourness in this post hahahaha

burncushlikewood · 2022-05-27T06:31:38+00:00

What it's like growing up as a hot girl, you don't need a personality because people immediately treat you differently. As a man you impact the people around you, you can mold the girls in your circle to bring out the best in each of them. I've met some dumb hot girls, but the one that got away for me was attractive and really cool, maybe the country/market you're in has lazy/dumb women, but some girls work hard are smart and are beautiful

Deep-Advice7587 · 2022-05-27T10:37:14+00:00

I guess they never felt the need to or probably cause they aren't interested in deep conversation, most guys prefer looks so that's the result you get. I genuinely wish there are more like you out there as i personally find it difficult to even engage in a conversation with a guy. Extremely shallow views on everything. Same thing applies on guys too (i have some friends but god it's tough to find more).

entredeuxeaux · 2022-05-27T12:32:06+00:00

Every hot girl I’ve ever met has been a bore with vocal fry to boot

pacg · 2022-05-27T12:59:42+00:00

They neither have a humerus bone nor are a humorous bone.

07paradigm · 2022-05-27T13:13:52+00:00

Ahh yes what a dizzying conundrum, what hope is there for our hero?

It’s not a matter of intelligence OP. It’s simply that you cannot enjoy that person’s other qualities. Hot women are not for philosophizing, art, culture, and all these other noble pursuits. They’re not virtuous. However, they do have virtue in other forms, but you must know how to bring it out of them.

The number one rule about hot chicks: never be boring. Be unpredictable. Focus on excitement and fun. Make them laugh, cry, afraid, angry, playful. (I am not advocating abuse) I mean this in a playful, more benign sense. They’re emotional and sensual creatures, their appeal isn’t in the mind.

Be like a child mixed with touch of jerk. Fun fun fun and lots of teasing and poking at her ego and insecurity.

Don’t judge them. They’re clueless and naive, and it’s not their fault. It’s no one’s fault. Their species is highly successful at reproduction. They’re here on this planet. Release your misanthropy. Live in peace with them.

There’s a time and place for everything.

Lastly, these women are not for romancing and falling in love like you two were love birds in a Disney movie.

If you want thatttt kind of love, you’re going to have to change your approach to the dating scene. And your expectations.

Visible-Doughnut-782 · 2022-05-27T11:59:47+00:00

This all stands to reason and is not gender specific. The more physically attractive somebody is the less they have to worry about cultivating their personality and or intellect to attract a mate.

2022-05-27T13:00:56+00:00

From my experiences in the dating “game,” give me a 7 with a good personality any day. Those girls are usually wholesome. The 9s and 10s are only just good for a summer fling and one night stand honestly.

Snakehead004 · 2022-05-27T13:09:05+00:00

Where are you located? I've never had a problem in NY, LA, Seattle, SF, DC or any medium/large progressive city..

iloveyoumiri · 2022-05-27T13:28:35+00:00

They are often hesitant to open up to people because they know lots of folks have bad intentions to string them along in hopes of using them for social capital & sex. And they’re not hurting for connection because so many people want to connect with them, so they often don’t feel a ton of desire to add new people

Killz4Thrillz954 · 2022-05-27T09:45:36+00:00

Yes I agree 100%. They have no substance. They consist of tiktok videos and memes. It’s fucking wild.

cronasminate · 2022-05-27T08:54:26+00:00

So you are typical “I am too smart to enjoy the company of a non-conventionally smart person.”

Get over yourself. People can seem dumb or smart at face value but how someone socially present oneself is up to random chance. Who your parents are, who your friends are growing up, what media do you get exposed to and what other major variables become huge determinants in your development.

I’ve met many people who seem “dumb” but their intelligence is manifested in different ways, 7 ways at least. Just because you have a higher level linguistic and logical intelligence doesn’t mean you are smarter than someone who could be gifted in the other types.

The funniest thing is you think you are so smart yet you can’t figure out such a common social phenomena and don’t have the slightest awareness of your own biases.

2022-05-27T06:33:26+00:00

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AllTankiesAreB · 2022-05-27T11:56:32+00:00

God are you me lmao. In the summer before going to college I tried to date some random girls of my age in my city and I just felt exactly the same. I’m not even that deep or philosophical

adsq93 · 2022-05-27T12:26:55+00:00

Being hot isn’t the problem but yeah there is a chance that if a girl has been hot/pretty since she was little then yeah. She might be boring.

myconium · 2022-05-27T12:59:51+00:00

How do you meet all these beautiful women?

07paradigm · 2022-05-27T13:23:18+00:00

No maidens?

Title	Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky?
Author	StaticNocturne
Upvotes	179
Comments	75
Date	May 27, 2022 5:42 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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