Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives

imstuckinacar · 2024-04-05T03:16:44+00:00

Ukraine just changed the conscription age so younger men can die. Can’t have a woman be at risk due to low numbers

amongstTheIdiots · 2024-04-05T04:19:49+00:00

Yeah, pretty much.

If you’re in a shitty relationship and break up with the girl, you’re the bad guy, even if the relationship was to your disadvantage.

You’re punished for acting rationally.

Women don’t get this kind of bullshit. If a woman breaks up with a man, she’s presumed to be in the right. No further notes. If a man breaks up with a woman, he’s acting unethically.

gabriel-kornilov · 2024-04-05T05:44:59+00:00

At this point, men should not give a shit about what society "allows" them to do. Live your life for yourself. "They" don't like it? Too bad. Walk away.

Wheekie · 2024-04-05T06:26:04+00:00

How about being aboard the Titanic, surviving the sinking, only to be ostracized and and denounced as immoral because you "betrayed the spirit of self-sacrifice".

Wide_Western_6381 · 2024-04-05T06:45:36+00:00

Well.. They can go f.. themselves! I'm still doing it every single day of MY life!

Linkinator7510 · 2024-04-05T10:05:39+00:00

This is especially true for me with the whole happy wife happy life thing. I'm supposed to base the entirety of my existence off of the happiness of one woman? You see it in media all the time, she's angry? Just say sorry, no matter what she says just say sorry. Why should I live for someone else like that, why can't I live for me? You're seen as strange and weird if you don't get a wife, if you don't denigrate yourself for a woman, that's your whole purpose, serving them, not yourself.

zaiguy · 2024-04-05T12:53:24+00:00

Haha so true. My abusive narcissistic ex wife cheated on me, and when I decided fuck it, I’m only in it for myself and my kids, she became SO mad at me. Like how dare I ignore her needs?

mr_ogyny · 2024-04-05T04:44:44+00:00

People seem to prioritise a woman’s needs and feelings over children, especially boys but girls as well. They’ve gone from ‘women and children’ to ‘women and girls’.

You have women committing murder suicide yet people have more sympathy for the mother than the children she murdered.

DarkMental76 · 2024-04-05T04:20:44+00:00

If you see yourself as disposable please find new surroundings…. People…. Places,.. things…. Change shit around. People are not disposable ESPECIALLY not good men.

hottake_toothache · 2024-04-05T12:16:52+00:00

People do not care about men.

Untimely_manners · 2024-04-05T06:44:10+00:00

You can, just you will be doing it alone without any support. People won't stop you, they just won't help you.

Doktor_Vem · 2024-04-05T12:07:17+00:00

I'm sorry that you have to live with that, but luckily it absolutely is not universal. It's definitely not like that around here and I have friends in other countries (although only 2 other countries, but still) for whom it's not like that, either

Nihilistic_Mermaid · 2024-04-05T08:48:28+00:00

I believe we have to be objective here and not turn this into gender conflict. All of this above is traditional gender roles and traditional gender roles are sexist by nature. They are imposed and perpetuated by the ruling class because it makes control of the masses easier.

The ruling class (men and women) have an interest continuing these roles because they feed into societal power structures. They have an interest in men not prioritizing themselves. Just as they have an interest in women not being independent.

And they definitely benefit from pinning both men's rights movement and feminism movements against each other to divert attention from themselves as well as pinning different ethnicities and religious groups against each other.

Ok_Solid_5038 · 2024-04-05T18:48:00+00:00

We for sure need to change the spin on lonely men to single dudes having adventures. I don’t know how the fuck women did it but we need to take notes. Being single shouldn’t be a stigma.

PhysicsDue9688 · 2024-04-05T23:56:11+00:00

"Allowed to prioritise" implies you need permission.

You dont

Will it be celebrated? Nope, but "allow" is a misleading word.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-04-05T12:47:26+00:00

Rubbish. Men do not give a flying fuck about what others think they should be doing.

Grow some balls and stop listening to what the purple haired slobopothamuses tell you

Bouxxi · 2024-04-05T06:09:57+00:00

Funny thing I just came off that post on the r/vegan It's apparently about a brother who wants to date a non-vegan girl and he wants to put some weight.

And the Sister is Just sad (understandably) but doesnt support the brother beccause I feel like he was Just vegan to valorised the Sister Choice.

https://www.reddit.com/r/vegan/s/VO85XWAuMa

spgvideo · 2024-04-05T18:26:27+00:00

Welcome to the world. I guess it's time to learn the rules and get on board...or opt out

DescriptionGeneral25 · 2024-04-05T19:51:01+00:00

Even if you see "chads", "fuckboys" or whatever they're called, the typical guys who are attractive to a lot of women, they're only attractive as long as they're providing something which makes them pretty much slaves in my eyes. My cousin is one of those guys and I am his polar opposite, he's always dating some girl and I haven't even gave a fuck about women since I was like 17 which was around the time I started to realize how shitty men are treated by them, and I found out that every time he talks about his goals in life it's ALWAYS something that benefits women at his own expense one way or another. One time he was talking about how much he wants to be rich to buy expensive stuff and I started questioning him, in the end he recognized that his actual goal was to do all of that to attract women and I said that pretty much he does all of what he does to get female attention and of the WORST kind, attention from whores who only want him for his money, and I explained the whole problem with it and why I am against it but he just didn't get it, and he has said a lot of times that if I want sex I just have to fuck the first woman I can no matter if I find her attractive or not (and this mentality, no matter what feminists say, oppresses ME, not the woman), and that's the mentality of basically all men, they're brainwashed to function as slaves for women one way or another, you will find that is almost always the case if you analyze them thoroughly.

Not to mention my grandfather who once said to me "you HAVE to work to support women", and he's one of the traditional men feminists say were "opressors", he's 83 and to this day even with a lot of health problems from working his whole fucking life like a slave he takes my grandmother, who treates him like shit, everywhere she wants in his truck, and no one has a problem with it except for me.

theReaders · 2024-04-05T04:31:20+00:00

Whereas if a woman were to abandon her family, abort her child or think of her and her future alone, she's a girlboss and deserves all the love.

Literally only one of those things, abandonment, is even remotely bad. You absolutely can get a vasectomy, and think only of your future alone. Many many people will call you, and any woman, selfish for it, you'd just have to go where you're supported.

justgottaaskthiss · 2024-04-05T21:26:09+00:00

As a single woman with no kids, I can tell you this post is NOT true. All of my family thinks that there's something wrong with me. Coworkers are always looking down on me. Maybe in the online spaces you guys are on where the algorithm shows you this stuff since you keep clicking on it. But in the real world, if you aren't a wife and a mother, you are less than the women who are.

greyGardensing · 2024-04-05T05:56:12+00:00

Whereas if a woman were to abandon her family, abort her child or think of her and her future alone, she's a girlboss and deserves all the love. The absolute hypocrisy.

I’m sure it seems that way to you but women are actually held to a much higher standard as mothers than men are as fathers. A woman who abandons her child is judged much more harshly by society, it’s basically the worst thing you can do as a woman. Also, men regularly leave their families to prioritize themselves or because they do not want the responsibility of parenthood. Very very few women by comparison actually abandon their children and it’s usually due to much more difficult circumstances such as addiction, mental illness, and/or poverty. Whereas men are much more likely to leave just because they feel like it. Men have the luxury of deciding if they want to be a parent, women rarely if ever do.

_EX · 2024-04-05T03:21:16+00:00

Assuming you live in the first world, when have you actually been treated disposable in any real way? The draft may exist, but you haven't been drafted. There's a lot more men who ditch their families than women. Also, I'm pretty sure no one thinks a deadbeat mum is a girlboss

I get the complaints may be coming from some personal feelings but I don't think this is actually happening

BeatsMeByDre · 2024-04-05T10:44:51+00:00

Jesus H Christ on a cracker "I only react to the most extreme positions taken by feminists and most bizarre conditions faced by men, and ignore everything else in the world pointing to men doing just fine."

Title	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives
Author	precocious_pakoda
Upvotes	561
Comments	180
Date	April 5, 2024 3:04 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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