Gym girls - here’s how I go success with them

norwegiandoggo · 2024-07-25T08:47:25+00:00

It's kinda dick move to come up to people and give them unsolicited workout advice.

There are other excuses that are better. Like asking them about their routine. "How many sets do you normally do with this exercise? Oh cool. Is it like a twice a week?"

"How many sets you have left?" can also be an ice breaker.

general conversation stuff.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-07-25T10:06:41+00:00

Gym game is basically like social game. Keep it all indirect so you can fall back on the "just being friendly" card if it's needed. Ask her if she wants to join you for something you were "already going to do" afterwards like grab a bite or something and if she accepts, you game her for real there.

Thesiuse · 2024-07-25T18:19:46+00:00

switch it up to “hey i see you’re doing xyz exercise, can YOU give ME some pointers?”

Disastrous_Catch6093 · 2024-07-25T11:39:08+00:00

Please don’t freaking tell her form is incorrect !!!!!

SuperPoop · 2024-07-25T13:02:53+00:00

gym game is a tricky one. first and foremost from my experience, you NEVER never wanna be the guy that just goes to the gym to flirt with women. be the guy that is dedicated to your fitness and doesnt interrupt women at the gym. also, dont oogle.

what's worked for me, gym wise, is catching women walking in/walking out and doing light openers, smiles, and casual chit chat. from then, you've established a good report, where it'll be obvious they want you to pursue things further.

chipbulkner · 2024-07-25T14:37:52+00:00

This sucks

driller20 · 2024-07-25T13:11:27+00:00

Someone is getting banned from a gym soon

pitterpatter-96 · 2024-07-25T20:01:04+00:00

I once observed a girl next to me and just told her to keep her elbows in. She put down the weights and walked away. My friends joke she never came back to the gym and is now obese, and it’s all my fault.

2024-07-25T18:16:31+00:00

so basically you open with a condescending move ‘youre doin this exercise slightly wrong’ 😀😀😀

how about take a PUA bootcamp to work on your inner game issues.

youre missing the fundamental points of opening with your dick move lol

Curia-DD · 2024-07-25T19:49:19+00:00

I am in the gym every day and the last thing I want is a guy coming up to me and telling me I'm doing my exercises wrong.

big_thick1 · 2024-07-25T12:24:34+00:00

At the gym I go to, in the early morning hours, it’s common to see couples fucking in their vehicles. Happens more than you would think.

beenreddinit · 2024-07-25T16:34:03+00:00

Autistic advice for an autistic forum.

2024-07-25T13:26:48+00:00

My personal favorite is helping them set up, like adjusting the cable machine, that kind of thing.

jamesfalken · 2024-07-25T09:00:44+00:00

Sounds solid. You've fucked how many women from the gym?

This is why I like having a membership to a gym chain like anytime fitness, planet fitness etc. gives you the option to explore a lot of different gym communities aka meet a lot of gym girls.

Kimhooligan · 2024-07-25T20:36:02+00:00

I’ve also dated a gym girl for a while. Just one. I didn’t give unsolicited advice, but I asked her for hers. Basically, I was looking to work on my glutes (ass) and literally have no glute strength in actions outside of a regular squat. I wanted to work on it for no other reason than looks, not for any functional or practical value, which I playfully said we had in common. She gave me a couple basic exercises and I asked her when was the next time she was gonna work on legs and promised to see her then.

We got to know each other over the course of several workouts. Only after maybe the 5th or 6th one did I decide to show some verbal interest. Main reason I didn’t ask her out earlier is because I opened with “I usually never ask for advice or make gym relationships, it takes a while for me to warm up to people.” She mentioned much later on that she felt like she had to make an impression on me because my being wary might’ve awakened some of her daddy issues haha.

Anyways, I asked her to a couple low-risk, fun activities like going to a concert, the gun range, and going to a food festival at a pretty park.

We dated for a couple years before we had to graduate from college and ended amicably.

Basically, my takeaway is that if a girl is single, doing a hard open might be a little unpalatable. Even regular day game stuff like “Hey, I’m looking for a place to eat with a lot of protein after, do you have any recommendations? Do you want to come with me?” Is kinda unpalatable for most people who dont immediately think you’re hot.

I find that being friends first is the go-to at the gym. Because if things don’t work out (haha), you have a solid wing man.

Edit: Also, I just read the last part of OP’s post and I can’t relate or imagine knowing someone who wants to have sex with me and ignore me in the gym. I’d still want to check up on them and see how they’re doing—you know, showing genuine kindness—and ask how their week was going. I find that people who are THAT awkward make very weird sexual partners if you decide to pursue multiple other partners or take things to the next level or if you want to friendzone them. Awkward women are immediately friendzoned if they give off weird vibes.

SpaceCheeseWizard · 2024-07-25T21:22:00+00:00

So you’re just ignoring the girl in the gym that you’re gaming, or just only after you’ve established sex.

I’m also curious about the moment when multiple women you’ve been seeing are in the gym simultaneously, what do you do then?

I thought the best way was to keep it very lowkey and slow social progression. By keeping it short in the first interaction, getting her name, smalltalk. And then continue on the next time you see her, build report, ask her what’s she’s doing in the weekend or suggest something else like she could join, which you were already planning to do. Asking her right away when she barely knows you might push her no? Since you’re going to the same gym

ignitedwolf9200 · 2024-07-25T22:45:57+00:00

Yes chicks love mansplaining good thinking

midnight_moonlight7 · 2024-07-26T01:51:28+00:00

If you come up to me at the gym, unsolicited, to tell me how I can improve my form or tell me how I'm doing something slightly wrong, it's already over for you fam <3 you failed from the jump <3

KitchenRare1725 · 2024-09-19T04:21:09+00:00

Be authentic, don't be clingy, even if you are rejected, end the conversation smoothly on good terms and you should be good.

TodayOrTmrw · 2024-07-25T14:32:25+00:00

There actually has been this one girl in the gym I’ve seen occasionally and there was one instance where we were leaving at the same time in the same elevator.

I’ve never approached someone in day game or let alone at a gym so as badly as I wanted to speak to her; I just couldn’t make it feel like a good idea because I don’t want things to be awkward at the gym if it goes south.

But honestly, I’m a king at night game so I shouldn’t be a pussy. I don’t know when she goes to the gym specifically but if the opportunity arises again.. I’ll just go for it.

Thanks for the post.

No_Recording1088 · 2024-07-25T14:51:51+00:00

I will never forget when i was in my twenties and i was in a gym with my mates from basketball team. We were all working out and there was a milf working out too. All tight. Pretty good looking. Ive noticed shes been cheking me out but ive just neglected this since i dont have any interest. Im there for workout. Anyway so i get up from lat machine and go to do triceps. Its me and a friend there and we talk and workout. She gets up and comes to me, saying let me show you should do it. So i was like ok. And as i was about to handle her handle and move away so she can show me how to do it. She comes behind me. Grabs my arms and as she doing this she is explaing how to position. Then as i was in right position she leans on me and start working out with me. Like this is how you do it. Meanwhile when she was so behind me i could feel her titties totally leand on my back. I was shcoked

Puzzleheaded-Pin4278 · 2024-07-25T16:07:59+00:00

How come everyone giving advice on seduction is coming from people with the worst fucking advice

SirCanSir · 2024-07-25T13:27:37+00:00

That seems like the most common pick up tactic in gyms in existence. Probably works for low confidence girls or those who already are waiting for you to open a conversation because they see you as attractive but to anyone else it would come off as annoying and creepy.

So in a sense all you are doing is being physically attractive and forcing yourself in their space, hardly groundbreaking.

Tatleman68 · 2024-07-25T22:58:59+00:00

Generally, being "judgy" is very anti-seductive behaviour

GuyuteTheHolidayPig · 2024-07-25T23:12:42+00:00

Mansplaining great approach

nordik1 · 2024-07-26T01:34:40+00:00

“you’re doing this exercise slightly wrong”

I like the general idea of overcoming this stupid "don't approach girls in the gym" bs that gets repeated, but this type of approach is going to go over very poorly with the girls who are really fit or in there all the time. Do not advise

Secrecy_Guaranteed · 2024-07-26T01:54:21+00:00

So if they do not want to show you know each other. Wtf, it's like a Veiled orgy.

But how did you make this conclusion?

revonssvp · 2024-07-26T16:08:34+00:00

It is rude even in dancing

mshaner84 · 2024-07-26T23:10:03+00:00

this post sounds fake as fuck. Who gives unsolicited advice? It's worse than the regards who horde 13 dumbells and hogs 4 machines at once lmao.

Silly_Randy · 2024-07-25T11:33:37+00:00

Take me through your process of when she accepts your post workout date.

From leaving the gym to fucking.

Thanks

2024-07-25T13:34:55+00:00

Alternatively, you could just get big asf and walk around. Just simply smile and they'll be all over you.

Kobe_curry24 · 2024-07-25T11:20:16+00:00

There’s soo many woman in the gym just waiting to be fucked honestly it’s annoying when just want to use the gym and Fcking leave but I do like this approach it’s similar push and pull and women are open unlike clubs where their closed up idiots

EmperorSillyBilly · 2024-07-25T09:27:48+00:00

Never approach in the gym. Bad idea

Arrancar05 · 2024-07-25T15:29:59+00:00

I still believe in the age old, don't talk to girls in the gym, they don't want a relationship, they are there to workout. So yeah, just don't make other dudes look bad by flirting with them during their gym session

NuclearThane · 2024-07-25T15:51:11+00:00

Wow, this comment section is such a mess.

I think the comment on approaching someone you know from the gym is good advice, and that the likelihood of success on an approach like that does increase substantially if they recognize you. Doesn't matter if this was established obvious eye contact or casual conversation (even basic stuff like "how many sets do you have left").

Other good venues for this seem to be group classes (not always a great demographic) and run clubs. Run clubs these days are basically just an excuse for people to flirt-- lots of people just walk anyway! And there's a consistent pattern of going out for drinks after.

Just personally, I'd still maintain a rule of not actually asking anyone in the gym. Regardless of whether it's for a number or to go out after. Btw I don't think it'll ever come across as only "asking a gym buddy to get a post-workout meal"-- she knows what's up. It's just not the right time for that in my opinion.

It feels like if someone tried to ask me out while I was sitting on the toilet taking a shit. I'm trying to get something personal done, I'm trying to do it quickly and efficiently, and I'm not trying to make conversation or have people watch me while I do it. Get in, get out.

I recognize that not everyone (mainly women) feels this way at the gym. Lots of people wander around aimlessly, spend the whole time talking on the phone, and maximize their appearance (even with makeup). I kind of hate people like that, so I probably wouldn't want to approach them in the first place.

If it works for you though, more power to you. Ideally you are as good as reading things as you say, because it probably only takes one overly sensitive person to go to a gym employee and say you made them uncomfortable, and then you've kind of screwed yourself.

year2039nuclearwar · 2024-07-25T16:17:47+00:00

This is a tough one, I consider my gym section of my life as a sanctuary and I dislike knowing people at the gym, I generally don’t want anyone to interrupt what I’m doing. Even seeing someone I know at the gym gets on my nerves a little. If you were to hook up with a girl from the gym, then continued to do that for a while to other girls, you will soon be known as “that guy”, you know, the keen loser than talks to all the girls, even talks to the guys too, to mask his movements. They are loud pain in the arses and I roll my eyes everytime I hear them.

McPigg · 2024-07-25T14:52:03+00:00

Great guide, i love the assholish opener and can definitly see that working of you got that kind of playful-trollish vibe to go with it. i still wont do it like that, because i fear of getting a reputation when im just talking to random girls all the time, but i met some girls over friends of friends and by being friends with the staff.

Worldly_Collection87 · 2024-07-25T15:55:59+00:00

Dude you sound like someone that groups of women should (and hopefully do) avoid like the plague.

Your idea of a pickup line is literally to gaslight.

Scum.bag.

Title	Gym girls - here’s how I go success with them
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Date	July 25, 2024 8:14 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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