Why don’t people fuck and date their same sex friends? Because you’re not gay right? If you have friends of the same sex that cover all of your social, emotional, needs etc, why do you need them in a partner as well?

It’s because men and women are sex objects to one another. We want the most attractive opposite gender partners we can get, in most cases that also fit our sexual dynamic (submissive, dominant etc…). Also, that have our morals, fit our social standards and can “protect one another” BUT ONLY so that we can safely be around them and raise our children the way we want to.

Men typically want to spread their seed amongst multiple women and women typically want men to be exclusive and only protect them and the children they birthed. Men who don’t ascribe to this natural dynamic are usually speaking from a perspective they formed from living a life with a lack of resources/abundance. For women it’s hard to say, majority of you don’t seem to get it or accept it.

If a man were truly rich (king like), he could protect 100s of women. And i’m not talking about some science bullshit that claims it’s mens nature to spread their seed. It’s just biologically possible for a man to impregnate tons of women at once. A woman has to go through the entire process of having the child and it taxes most of their bodies.

The divorce rate is 50%, 60% for second marriages lol. You’re flipping a coin when you “marry”.

If you’re complete and content with yourself why do you need your social and emotional needs covered by another person? Why do you need to be around a person 24/7 365?

For men, i’m not saying go out and have sex over and over again with 30+ different women or some shit. Women I know most of y’all are not gonna do that shit anyway.