>inb4 gotcha "wouldn't you dislike if women you find unattractive approached you"

  1. The average mans idea of a unattractive woman is the female equivalent of a really heavy unkempt neckbeard
  2. The average womans idea of a unattractive man is usually the average man

One filters out 20% of women, the other filters out 80% of men. These discussions get us nowhere because "people like attractive people" doesn't mean anything unless you start looking at the criteria what passes as attractive or unattractive. It has completely different meanings for men and women, its like two people on panel discussing what ought to be done to maintain public health and while they both agree that "maintaining public health is good" one panelists idea of public health are guidelines put forward by the NHS the other a nazi eugenics program.