Q4RPMen: Would you be in a LTR with a very good looking virgin woman who isn’t sexually attracted to you?

a_minty_fart · 2024-08-27T19:44:34+00:00

No.

If she isn't sexually attracted to me, what's the point? I'm not interested in duty sex and I have enough friends.

Redpill-mind · 2024-08-27T19:43:52+00:00

I don't know what you guys get from asking this type of questions

Jaded-Worldliness597 · 2024-08-27T23:02:10+00:00

This is a rather wierd scenario and I don't think that I would be willing to play along in that particular situation.

Anyone who has been with the Red Pill long enough will know a certain RP guy who is French Canadian, openly had a wife, a mistress, and some random side pieces, practicing civil rights law.

One of his most well known statements was "I love my wife, but I neither need or expect my wife to love me in return, it is only respect that I demand from her."

Also... "I require affection in the form of sex, but the other ways in which a woman want's to show me love are entirely up to her."

I think that these two statements are much more worthy of discussion than some random scenario which really has little bearin on real life.

kochIndustriesRussia · 2024-08-27T23:22:42+00:00

No. Why would I?

Staying with someone who isn't sexually attracted to you is simp shit.

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-08-27T22:43:45+00:00

No, because I couldn't enjoy sex with someone who didn't enjoy having sex with me, so it would be all for naught

MisterFunnyShoes · 2024-08-27T23:00:15+00:00

Lmao no

Barely-moral · 2024-08-27T20:05:31+00:00

She plays her role and I play mine. That is all that matters and seems to be that I would be getting that deal.

I would be in the relationship you describe.

lastoflast67 · 2024-08-27T22:27:17+00:00

Highly dependant. Is this the only option?

just_a_place · 2024-08-28T07:02:15+00:00

Hell fucking NO.

An enthusiastic 6 is better than some resting bitch-faced 9 any day. Especially for a long term relationship. I am not giving a woman any of my time or dedication if she isn't worth it.

Side Note: I don't comprehend this creepy ass obsession with "virgins." This is NOT something that average ass men give a fuck about. It doesn't matter. Constantly bringing it up means there is some creepy shit going on, either it's from some backward ass culture where it matters for some stupid ass reason, or it from some religion where, again, it matters for some stupid ass reason. In the real world with real men; it doesn't fucking matter, at all, we just don't care.

abaxeron · 2024-08-27T20:27:45+00:00

Don't know but definitely would consider; this is not a dealbreaker. I'm lazy asshole and would get exhausted by a nymphomaniac. We will both age and our libidos will take a nose dive. Maybe at some point I'll get some surgery-requiring reproductive system glitch and leave her happily free of my pesky hormonal urges, and at that point we might already have several beautiful children raised by a beautiful loving mother.

In general, "you are in an LTR with a woman that is not sexually attracted to you" sounds like most marriages to me, even though most of them did not start this way. Yeah, we get to skip on the first stage of explosive mutual orgasms under shower of L-bombs while maintaining a 20-minute long widely open eye contact; so what, I know how to induce explosive orgasms. To myself and to a woman (if she's up to this kind of stuff). So... what exactly fundamentally changes here? Looks like "nothing" to me.

Acceptable-Truck3803 · 2024-08-27T21:03:52+00:00

OP, I’m very confused. She is loyal, she is amazing looking, she was a virgin when we met. Now she is in a dedicated relationship with me and has sex with me 2-3 times a week. She got with me after getting to know who I was and found out how much $$$ I made to essentially make her a trad wife ?

This sounds like a relationship to me unless someone is paying the virgin woman to be in a relationship with me with sex and companionship.

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LaloTwinsDa2nd · 2024-08-29T04:42:21+00:00

stats135 · 2024-08-27T20:25:13+00:00

Yes.

"Reals over feelz" is a hill I'm willing to die on. I apply it across the board on all these hypothetical questions.

I apply that principle on infidelity. I care about Physical Infidelity over Emotional Infidelity. I care about what physically happens, over feelings.

Its the principle I apply on children and paternity fraud. I care about my biological offspring, not the bastard I though was my child. I care about the person that shares half my DNA, not the emotional bond.

Its the same with your hypothetical here regarding sex and attraction. I care about the tangible, the fact that the woman is a physically good looking virgin and pleases me sexually, not her internal motivations.

SadCahita · 2024-08-28T01:45:13+00:00

As long as she doesn't cheat on me and she bears my child, yes.

Proudvow · 2024-08-28T02:43:48+00:00

Yeah, sure.

That's how a lot of marriages were in traditional times.

I'd also go further and tolerate a dead bedroom from her. I also don't need her to be particularly good looking. And I'd continue providng for and loving her.

The problem with BB is that it comes from AF/BB. Guys don't care nearly as much if the AF part wasn't there. The AF is what absolutely ruins it from a psychological perspective. I'm not making all the sacrifices I listed above for a woman who banged some dude at a party or off an app the first night.

Salt_Alternative_86 · 2024-08-27T21:49:48+00:00

Unicorns don't exist, so this is a ridiculous question. However, let's pretend it wasn't a hypothetical impossibility given the statistical reality: no. I've already been there. You don't turn hamburger back into the cow, and you can't hatch an omelette. Second, she's not interested, which means she's just a leech using men as an ATM for a free ride. Ergo, virginity issue aside, I'm too jaded and she's too worthlessly evil.

Edit: Been banned for wrong think

berichorbeburied · 2024-08-27T20:00:24+00:00

Yes I would.

Sex in my theory/mind

is intense excercise + hormone/lust/euphoria

But also has the potential implication of offspring

Ultimately I see it mostly as a male oriented thing

Where I rarely see women wanting to have the type of sex men want or wanting it at every given second or consistently all the time

My conclusion is women do not want sex that badly. That much.

Watching and experiencing personally women have sex.

They are not that athletic and don’t do that much actually in the sexual process

So a woman wanting to have sex with you and a woman consenting to have sex with you

In my mind is essentially the same thing.

As nothing really changes practically

Although I do want to be wanted more than just settled for consented to or compromised for

I’ll settle/compromise/accept willful/free will consent

As far as my other point

Women already look for more things than looks

So essentially women already do what this post is talking about

They just add looks into the equation

While this post is excluding looks

And is asking if a woman isn’t sexually attracted to you

How you know a woman’s sexual attraction is bullshit

Is the fact they claim they can “grow to be sexually attracted to someone”

If that was true then looks wouldn’t matter

If it’s not true then the fact that they can do this

Means in fact they are just consenting to sex because of all the other good qualities and benefits they recieve from the man they now “want” to have sex with

Either way it proves this post already happens

Not every women is with a man that gets her wet and horny every time she sees him

And they still have sex.

So with all that being said.

Yes I would.

If she was sexually attractive

Because I have to do all this anyway

But this would be for something that was worth all the effort and energy this takes

But with the caveat that I’d actually want to be wanted vs just compromised/free will consented for

But I’ll settle/accept this

Unable_Evidence_4028 · 2024-08-28T15:34:56+00:00

Sure... as long as I am confident it wont change in the near future and she continues to provide me sex.

What is the value of a woman if not for sex?

Title	Q4RPMen: Would you be in a LTR with a very good looking virgin woman who isn’t sexually attracted to you?
Author	BichonFriseLover
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Date	August 27, 2024 6:39 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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