Young women are starting to leave men behind

jessi387 · 2024-09-22T21:31:45+00:00

So this is the irony. It is clear that women are ahead. And how much better off they are for it. Yet, we still say men are the privileged gender ?

So now it’s obvious that women are ahead. Maybe it’s time to help men ? Ya right.

Now that women are ahead, maybe it’s time we start addressing their “systemic privilege” ? Oh wait, men are the privileged sex right? But women have it better by every measurable statistic ? But women are so much better off without men. But men need to grow up to provide for women so they can get married. But marriage is a patriarchal institution? But men not marrying is misogynistic?

Ya, you can’t win if you try

Clockw0rk · 2024-09-22T20:54:09+00:00

lol

You don’t say!

I wonder if having systemic advantages in terms of public assistance, scholarships, and dedicated government agencies might have something to do with that.

Yay equality?

want-to-say-this · 2024-09-22T21:01:38+00:00

For decades. Yet almost every woman I’ve ever met complains about being held back. Any woman that gets to even a slight manager role talks about how everyone said she was just a woman and would never be able to do it.

I think some get one negative comment and are like yup. That’s every man holding me down. When reality is most people have been trying to help them both systematically. White knight and pussy chasing

mrmensplights · 2024-09-23T02:10:28+00:00

Starting? Young women have been out-earning young men for a long time now in many places. That's what happens when you give more scholarships to women, make admissions easier for women, and double down on it even as women make up the vast majority of students. The fact that it is now a general truth for whole countries is proof that it's well beyond the "starting" point. Note also that women naturally go into lower paying fields. So it's doubly shocking. Men are now being subjugated into vanishing entirely.

As usual, curiously absent is any explanation for why boys are doing worse.

No mention at all that society now hates men. Anti-male propaganda everywhere you look, anti-male policies across all public institutions.
No mention at all that young women are now largely radicalized as a group. Far beyond any nightmare scenario they keep imagining happening to men. Misandry is mainstream culture now. How people speak to, about, and discuss men comes from a place of hatred.
No mention that these unequal outcomes for women are not just freebies in a non-zero sum game (e.g. women have way more scholarships, grants, special programs available) but have been purchased at the cost of boys. Schools were restructured for girls. Boys performed worse. No one cared. Admissions were retooled for girls. Less boys got in. No one cared. Career track positions in academia and the private sector earmarked specifically for women. etc

Just a nod that women doing better is clearly a good thing and some scaremongering that these men might vote right wing if we don't do something about them.

Anyway men, you still feeling that all powerful patriarchy boogie man they keep insisting exists?

CraftistOf · 2024-09-23T02:30:42+00:00

and...

wait for it...

feminists are not gonna do anything about it!

amirite?

Suspicious-Sleep5227 · 2024-09-22T22:30:36+00:00

Good. So now we can scale back those tax-payer funded support programs that disproportionately benefit women and redirect it toward men where it’s needed. Right?

Ziodyne967 · 2024-09-22T23:22:04+00:00

Starting to? Been like this for a good while, no?

GreedyDisaster6005 · 2024-09-23T03:00:44+00:00

Women cry that they are underrepresented in STEM jobs, but no one cares that men only hold 24% of HEAL(Health, Education, Administration and Literacy) jobs and it is going down year by year. Also by 2030, for every 1 job in STEM there will be 3 jobs in HEAL. There are special programs set up for women to join STEM jobs but men don’t enjoy the same benefits and privileges in the HEAL sector.

South-Steak-7810 · 2024-09-22T21:48:43+00:00

From the article:

“And relationship formation itself is being affected, as growing numbers of female graduates discover a shortage of male socio-economic counterparts, and simultaneously have less need than ever to pair up with a man for financial support.”

Or “And relationship formation itself is being affected, as growing numbers of men discover a shortage of friendly, feminine, loyal, respectful etc counterparts, and simultaneously have no need to ever pair up with a woman for any type of support.”

I could go on about women starting to live shorter because of work related stress, increased alcoholism, depression, loneliness and so on, but we already know that.

And the title. Young women are starting to leave men behind. They’re not really looking at the long term consequences are they.

But I do think that it is unfortunate that to many (young) men do not realize that we men are now free to live our own life. To find the jobs we actually like doing. To have time for hobbies that we wouldn’t have if we were married and had children. No longer walking ATM’s, disposable, providers for women who girl bossed a little to close to the sun. And with an increasing amount of men in this new way of life, it should be easier to make new friends through for instance hobbies.

A job you like, plenty of hobbies we enjoy, new friendships with likeminded men, spending time and taking care of our families (mother, father, siblings) and… Enjoy the peace and quiet. Bliss.

Felarhin · 2024-09-22T22:16:09+00:00

Personally, I think we should do more. Since women love going to school and work so much, we should just make them do ALL the work and give us guys UBI so we can drink chai and get high all day instead. I kind of don't feel like doing this anymore.

Strigon_7 · 2024-09-22T20:51:55+00:00

Good for them... but it doesn't seem to have made them happier or better off psychologically or socially.

DO-Kagome · 2024-09-22T23:20:44+00:00

Women have such an advantage that puts them far higher than their male counterparts in education. This study alone shows how 92% of all single sex scholarships are female. Look at the University of Phoenix: Females have 106 scholarship options while men have 2... TWO. Most schools have 30+ for women and none for men. Combine this with studies that show teachers are biased against boys. It's amazing men are still progressing as they are.

SarcasticallyCandour · 2024-09-23T02:35:06+00:00

But but but i thought when gaps occur its not natural. Its an imbalance that needs to be fixed with special programmes??

Seriously I think is to do with hundreds of millions in taxes poured into endless pampering programmes, DEI quotas, scholarships, bursaries, grants etc.

In other words, privileges that women have been lapping up for decades. They need to be opened up for men imo. And we need boy's mentorship programmes. Im not against programmes for women , but i am against men being blocked especially when we're paying for them with our taxes.

Cybralisk · 2024-09-22T21:15:27+00:00

Funny thing is women are going into debt for all this education but largely leaving the work force after they have kids if they have any choice in the matter.

All it does is handicap women in the dating world because most of them don't want to date men that earn less or have lower education achievements.

B1G_Fan · 2024-09-22T21:09:46+00:00

I think it was Aaron Clarey who estimated that 90% of female college students and 65% of male college students are wasting their time in college.

So, is it really an accomplishment if women are earning more Fluffy Bunny Studies degrees than men?

wordjedi · 2024-09-23T02:36:25+00:00

Young male support for populist rightwing parties is on the rise, particularly among those without jobs and degrees. Violent unrest is more likely with a growing pool of young men with little stake in society or their future.

Sounds like they're ramping up to a "stop and frisk" for unaccompanied males. "Oy you there! Where you off to, eh? What's in yer pocketses RAPIST?!"

furchfur · 2024-09-22T23:29:00+00:00

This is going to end very badly for society.

There is not a chance it will be reversed.

Number of men in prison is going to shoot up and get more expensive. It is about 80,000 in the UK at the moment.

Number of educated women getting married and having children will obviously fall.

Men will increasingly drop out of society when they see that they are intentionally discriminated against in society.

Of course they will vote for right wing parties.

Men will work just enough to provide for themselves but will not choose to raise a family or take a partner.

Baboon_Stew · 2024-09-23T02:17:03+00:00

Cool. Maybe they will finally leave us alone.

PA_Hillbilly1699 · 2024-09-23T04:21:57+00:00

We’ll see how long this lasts wait until another global war breaks out or Great Depression

Able-Field-2530 · 2024-09-22T21:49:24+00:00

Sweet. Now they can provide for us!

the_agent_0f_chaos · 2024-09-23T05:08:47+00:00

because men support them, yet they will not support man back. We always have their backs, yet they never have ours.

Take away ALL of men's support, let's see how well they'll actually do!

Johntoreno · 2024-09-23T07:41:14+00:00

Young women are starting to leave men behind

Where are they leaving to? There's no family without Men and there's not future without family and there's no country on earth that will survive without families.

ShameAffectionate15 · 2024-09-23T08:19:00+00:00

Why are women so ahead? Its cuz the “you go girl” mantra in every fabric of society shoved down pur throats…boys didnt think schooling etc is for them they are marginalized. And thus, it was never about the patriarchy but because if institions that men were up and now women are. Its not biology like they claim.

__BIOHAZARD___ · 2024-09-23T14:13:12+00:00

And yet we’ll never hear the end of the ‘wage gap’ and ‘where have all the good men gone’ (they won’t date a guy making less than them)

sijsk89 · 2024-09-22T21:29:11+00:00

The meek shall inherit the earth!

And since men are apparently less capable than women, we shall inherit the earth. Just give it time, and remember not to try too hard.

Royal_IDunno · 2024-09-23T01:42:10+00:00

Future lonely cat ladies then.

ZestyClose341 · 2024-09-22T20:56:26+00:00

As a European, these articles with Buzzfeed-style headlines give me a brain anuerism.

Plus_Ad_4041 · 2024-09-22T21:32:41+00:00

Men are doing the same but I am sure nobody will write an article on it.......

FinancialTomato1594 · 2024-09-22T22:23:10+00:00

Well women can walk their own way while men can do the same but don't expect attention from men when they don't have enough attention, felt unwanted, miserable or being lonely doesn't work out don't blame men for what happen because all women choose to be free but freedom and independence came with a cost so bear it like a real adult but hey it's like I trust them to be a matured adult cuz they are more priveledge than men nowadays and society care more about women than men giving scholarship, incentives, opportunities and more that men are deprived from but IF WW3 happen or birth rate declining probability they will need and value men more because men know to resist the pain of war and whether you like it or not fatherhood is important to nurture individual to contribute to society.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-09-22T22:43:24+00:00

Some have said they cannot access the article. It is NOT behind a paywall. I can read the article and I have no subscription. Maybe some countries censored the article?

PassionateCucumber43 · 2024-09-23T01:22:35+00:00

Why is a headline from Financial Times written in the style of Buzzfeed?

CompetitiveOffer5339 · 2024-09-23T20:51:38+00:00

Yet if an article wrote this about men being ahead of women. It would be everywhere and the feminists would be having seizures.

Interesting-Mango-69 · 2024-09-25T18:35:35+00:00

Sure, lower the bar and make it 10x-100x easier for women to get into top colleges, jobs and give them easy promotions over more deserving men. Then talk about how women are leaving men behind. Genius.

EvelynsLair · 2024-09-22T21:33:05+00:00

Sure, because pulling a disappearing act solves all relationship problems. What's next, sending smoke signals to communicate?

Present-Estimate-668 · 2024-09-22T22:37:07+00:00

Good for them just stay away from men

aigars2 · 2024-09-23T05:44:59+00:00

No matter proof somehow always be found men bad.

Additional_Insect_44 · 2024-09-23T21:16:25+00:00

This has happened for decades if not a century.

SulkTv999 · 2024-09-23T23:03:36+00:00

I called it. I felt it. We all feel it.

RealStarkey · 2024-09-23T12:39:13+00:00

I blame the patriarchy

Kyra92Hayes · 2024-09-23T15:54:32+00:00

It’s funny cause a lot is given to women.

jacare_o · 2024-09-23T20:26:02+00:00

So where is the title ix for men?

SleepLivid988 · 2024-09-24T03:35:44+00:00

Did anyone read the article? It says (only for Europe and Canada btw) that women are doing the child rearing and house expenses, while men are doing less. It also says that none of this is true in the US.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-09-22T21:23:36+00:00

This is a great post!!!

Title	Young women are starting to leave men behind
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Date	September 22, 2024 8:32 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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