If You're Not Successful with Women At All, It's Not Because You're Unattractive

neverendingplush93 · 2024-10-16T17:15:08+00:00

I always keep in mind that absolutely anyone can make a post on reddit and completely talk out their ass.

Sharplove365 · 2024-10-16T17:16:23+00:00

You've just proceeded to defeat yourself by pointing out all the things that make a guy unattractive, whilst comically maintaining your titled position.

py234567 · 2024-10-16T17:18:26+00:00

thedarkracer · 2024-10-16T17:29:13+00:00

The 2nd reason you're not successful with women is being out of shape, no girl no matter how unhealthy she is wants to date a fat guy. Women do not hook up or want to date obese men

Unattractiveness

The 3rd primary reason a guy doesn't have a girlfriend is because he is a simp. Omega guys are submissive and pine for women out of their league. They take their insecurities and give it to a beautiful women and submits to her.

Personality

None in your arguments did you mention testosterone. How do women get that, body swaps?

Alwaysnthered · 2024-10-16T17:39:40+00:00

correlation not causation.

what about high T-men that lost the genetic lottery? short but athletic. ugly but athletic.

also, I love how you limited it to these three oddly specific reasons. There is so much more at play.

BrainMarshal · 2024-10-16T17:11:37+00:00

If You're Not Successful with Women At All, It's Not Because You're Unattractive

The 2nd reason you're not successful with women is being out of shape,

???

Someone help me make this make sense?

SmokeySunDrops · 2024-10-16T17:25:23+00:00

If you don't submit a blood panel you can't date me. Sorry fellas, I'm trying to breed the next Mongolian army 💋

noafrochamplusamurai · 2024-10-16T17:53:48+00:00

Memo from every science class ever: correlation doesn't mean causation.

Low T guys can still be in shape physically

Some of the biggest simps around are guys with High T.

emax4 · 2024-10-16T17:32:46+00:00

Is there any story or study in the sub proving that women are at fault for lack of successful dating in any way?

At this point it's easier for men to give up and find peace and happiness elsewhere.

MyLastBestChance · 2024-10-16T18:08:09+00:00

Correction: it’s probably not JUST because you’re unattractive.

TheLonerCoder · 2024-10-16T18:11:53+00:00

Your physical appearance gets you in the door. Resources and personality is how you keep someone long term.

MongoBobalossus · 2024-10-16T19:03:52+00:00

I mean, high testosterone in men tends to yield attractive looks to women, evolutionarily speaking.

Updawg145 · 2024-10-16T19:17:14+00:00

The main reason men are having trouble with dating these days is because through social media women have access to hundreds if not thousands of men, so competition for any one woman is far higher, and women no longer have many if any practical reasons to engage in a relationship in the first place, so unless they're in a "I hate my dad/ex/whoever" mood, or you're a really standout man, they're probably not going to bother in the first place.

YtBlue · 2024-10-16T19:43:31+00:00

Well, people here and especially women , don't tell you the difference between being attractive and sexually attractive. They're the same for a woman. However opposite for a man. Beauty=/Partners for a man.

ArtifactFan65 · 2024-10-16T20:27:35+00:00

Most thinker women won't even consider an ugly guy. Maybe there's a chance with some feeler types.

Goonerlouie · 2024-10-16T20:51:58+00:00

Ok then where do I fit in to your theory?

MoshiMoshi78 · 2024-10-16T20:57:40+00:00

My dude, I'm a really optimistic go lucky person in life. EVEN I cannit dispute the fact that attractive people have an easier time in dating. Because they obviously do. I'm like, not blind lmao 🤣🤣🤣. Yeah, being attractive has to do with charm as well, but let's be honest, looks are what gets you through the door in most cases. And super good looking guys don’t even need to be very charming, they can just be attractive and not offputting. It helps to be charming but it’s not a requirement. Also, some people are just naturally charming / charismatic.

PsychologicalOil8190 · 2024-10-16T22:26:45+00:00

Dude I'll take less testosterone and have no desperation any time of the day. Have you seen the dating world out there these days? You're blessed if you're not a desperate dude, BLESSED.

BigMoistTwonkie · 2024-10-16T17:34:27+00:00

if you are successful with mating, finding a girlfriend, and sleeping with lots of women the correlation is you have high testosterone

I'd add on here that there is basically no difference in men between having low testosterone and being unattractive, because low-testosterone produces almost all of the traits in men that are generally considered to be unattractive.

The 2nd reason you're not successful with women is being out of shape, no girl no matter how unhealthy she is wants to date a fat guy. Women do not hook up or want to date obese men. If you are rocking a gut, you are totally off the radar of women for a casual or romantic option.

All of this is true. As it turns out, low-testosterone is associated with maintaining more fat in the gut. Men need to be in shape as a primary starting place in dating. There is no reality where women are attracted to men who are fat, or "dad bods" (same difference). If you're fat, as a man, you're done. The same thing can be said for being scrawny, in fact I think being too skinny is actually worse.

The 3rd primary reason a guy doesn't have a girlfriend is because he is a simp. These guys pay for onlyfans and fall in love with strippers. Simps will shell out 100s of dollars to women that would never talk to them in real life.

Facts.

While being attractive can help finding you a partner, it's not one of the main reasons men are alone. There is no correlation between number of sexual options and how attractive you are. The only direct link between success with mating that exists is how high a man's testosterone is.

This is not true. Your looks are very much linked to how successful you are in dating. High testosterone during puberty and the changes that it makes physiologically in the male body are directly linked to how attractive you are. Height, facial features, bone structure, deep voice, muscle mass, body fat percentage, all of these things are linked to testosterone levels in men.

When guys tell other guys you need to get in the gym and stop being addicted to porn. They are giving you 2 messages that can vastly improve your chances with women If you don't have enough sexual drive, you're not going to do whatever it takes to get a girl.

Getting in the gym will absolutely improve your chances with women. Quitting porn won't do anything; most men are using porn because they're not social enough to go out and meet women in the first place. Quitting watching porn doesn't change your level of attractiveness on its own, the way that getting in better shape does. Not going to the gym is a primary cause of unattractiveness in men, but porn usage is only a symptom. If these men started meeting women and having a real sex life, they wouldn't feel as much of a need to consume porn in the first place.

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IceWingAngel · 2024-10-16T17:44:36+00:00

I will confidently disagree having done 2 and never having been 3.

MikeArrow · 2024-10-16T18:58:34+00:00

It's 100% because I'm unattractive. Hope this helps.

rustlerhuskyjeans · 2024-10-18T12:30:56+00:00

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whatever8482 · 2024-10-20T01:00:45+00:00

High testosterone causes a man to have an attractive face. A masculine face is a face that was highly affected by testosterone.

ExcelsiorState718 · 2024-10-16T17:29:11+00:00

What do you consider succes with women?

Success in getting laid? Success in getting a date ? Success in maintaining a long term relationship?

The first two any man can be very successful at all he needs is money.

The last one you probably have to move to Afghanistan

Sharp_Engineering379 · 2024-10-16T17:40:17+00:00

Honey no. Many are on the ASD spectrum or sheltered/homeschooled/indoctrinated.

It’s very difficult to meet men halfway when they’ve been exposed to violently antisocial rhetoric, so sometimes the adversarial content here is based in rejection of opposing ideology.

ThatBitchA · 2024-10-16T17:17:56+00:00

No, it's because your attitude sucks or your personality sucks.

Title	If You're Not Successful with Women At All, It's Not Because You're Unattractive
Author	rustlerhuskyjeans
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Comments	152
Date	October 16, 2024 5:07 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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