I heard a few times throughout the years that guys are frankly not fond of cold approaching women. It's tedious, it feels awkward, it's long, you feel put on the spot, no one likes rejection, no one likes getting embarrassed, etc.

It's frankly not hard to see why most guys aren't fond of it. Hell the success rates are already insanely bad as it is. Some of the most successful men I know whom do cold approach at best have a 20 percent success rate. So that's like 1 out of 5 women they approach they likely will sleep with or date.

But the kicker is... These are the most successful cold approachers I know. Take a while guess where a beginners success rates are. Probably less than 5 percent. And even that is being generous.

So recently I have heard alot of women suggest that men should just give women their numbers instead. That way they just put the ball in their court. I'm here to tell you that this method is straight HOGWASH.

Look if you clearly see a girl that is OBVIOUSLY interested in you and you are pressed for time then sure go for this method. But let's say you don't know if she is interested or even noticed you. Well....

You're better off asking for their numbers. Most girls don't like making the first move. Let alone sending the first text. And unless you are EXTREMELY Her type she's not gonna text you. Shes very likely to throw your number in the trash or completely forget about it. How many women have dudes already in their beck in call that she's already trying to juggle. Putting the ball in her court makes it even worse because she doesn't have a strong attraction to you beforehand