What is one simple thing men don't understand about women is,

Women don't looking for a man who willing to give her what she want but what women looking for is,

A man with really good life, a man who is enjoying life and establish life without her, she wants to see herself in his life because she thinks it is a worth life living with him.

Thats why women actually choose men who establish themselves, confident and ambitious because what women see is this is who i am and this is my life, then women start to imagine what kind of life with these men they could have.

You can be expected provider what society and both men and women tells you to be but in the end women will end up with men, they think their lives more fun, established and exciting.

And you see will see women refusing men with great careers or being great providers, good or nice guys because they think they are boring and not worth living with and if what women consider harmed them didn't hold the promises she thought, then she will consider the guys I tell you "back up" plans.