Need Advice from Women: How can men decenter women and still get regular sex & intimacy, just like women are decentering men and meeting their needs? How can men live like women?

Decentering men is all the rage these days on social media. Women are saying that pursuing romantic relationships & marriage are a net negative and dont improve their overall quality of life. Social media is full of women saying they are loving the new dynamic whereby they can just meet a man for sex and intimacy and then go their separate ways.

In contrast, men are told that they need to CENTER women in order to find opportunities for sex and intimacy. They are told they need to be good friends with women, socialize with women, surround themselves with women, align their interests and hobbies with women's, align their lifestyle with women's, build a lifestyle that attracts women, offer all kind of support to women, be supportive of women's causes and interests, align their politics with women, be ready to emotionally invest in women, and so on.

As you can see, these 2 are hugely incompatible phenomena.

You have one gender that wants to DECENTER the other, while the other gender is told they need to CENTER the other more.

So my question to women is: Where are men going wrong? How can men just decenter women, live separate lives, but then meet up with women for sex and intimacy then go their separate ways.

For lack of better word, how can men live like a woman in todays world?