Dating market is monopolised by women and the infinite choice they've. Men will mold themselves to suit women and most men being jerk narrative is fake.

A common trope among women who like to gossip and say how male relationship isn't worth it in modern age is because men refuse to care about female orgasm, fulfill the emotional load, actively put effort in their hygeine and so on and so for.

This concerns are right. Women should have the option to choose men that put mutual efforts but when we dig deeper and analyse broader dating dynamics. We find something odd.

Why men can't fulfil basic needs of women in modern dating. What's wrong in it. Many men first listening to this just wonder that how can this even be possible that there are so many jerks out there and the bar for men being so low.

These guys soon enter in the dating market and their illusion is shattered. The bar was never low. It is higher than ever. You're filtered out for your race, height and looks before you could even show your personality. 85% of men getting weeded out just because they're under 5'8.

You're expected to have everything figured out. Have money, be the one who initiate the conversation, always earn more than the women despite what has been preached to you.

You realise it was just a simple victimisation tactics those women were using. They actually had the option to pick the better option. They always did but the options who were available weren't rich enough, stable enough, attractive enough, white enough or tall enough.

The bar was low but only for those who could pass the real barrier of immutable mandates. When there's literally more men dating than women. Women have the upper hand to reject guys they deem unfit. If men don't "adapt" to those criteria then they simply won't have relationship. Literally who would do the stupidity of being a jerk?

Well, many do because women would rather be single than pick a guy who they're not physically attracted to. It's funny because their criterias is again based on immutable traits.

Which again points me to women discussing how it's better to date an attractive jerk than an unattractive jerk. Again, reinforcing my theory that women endure all this because guy is just hot enough to tolerate it. They generalise men and whine on internet to just feel good about their poor choices. They will never choose guys who actually put efforts because they would rather endure abuse by chaad then choose an average guy.