TLDR: I Got involved in a girl's hypergamy situation and fired for harassement.
First off all, I didn't know what flair to choose so I went with meta.
Also I am not writing this to get advice, validation or a psychological breakdown of any of the parties. This is for the sole purpose of telling you that YOU MUST ALWAYS BE READY TO FIGHT FOR YOUR SAFETY AND RIGHTS.
Also english is not my first language so my writing sucks, I warned you.
I recently got a job at a company that pays very well and lots of good looking women work there. I did my fair share of cold approach pick up and I still do but I am (secretly) working 2 jobs right now (15h/day) and I figured I only have time for work and lifting at this moment so I must get some kind of an LTR.
There is this girl who works there (my recent well paying day job) who is pretty good looking. Now I am familiar with the expression don't shit where you eat but the amount of iois this one gave me are too much to just brush off, also it's a rare occasion that we ran into each other and we might never meet again. So I just made my move. I take her number and a couple of days later we meet up. No date just straight to my place after she rolled with me to get my groceries.
So we chill for a bit at my appartement and then we fuck. She fucks good to the point that I see it as a silver lining to me losing my job (got carried away).
Now our shifts are rarely the same and the workplace is huge so we don't meet at work (more fuel to my rationalizations), but whenever I set a meetup she shows up at my place and we fool around. So far so good no red flags, potential ltr.
Cue the drama music. 7 months later, I am chatting some co-workers and I see her in the corner of my eyes arguing with a jacked motherfucker. After a couple of don'ts and nos he turns around and charges towards me.
Now he couldn't pick a better time because the parking lot was packed with employees. She is following him and screaming at him to stop and at me to run away. She literally said "please run away" (in our language it sounded very desperate and scared). I knew at this point that it's the boyfriend (that I didn't know existed) and fuck, this guy is jacked asf. I am no jacked dude but I weight a decent amount of muscle mass.
Little tangent guys. It's so easy to knock motherfuckers out unconscious if you punch them in the head. What we see in movies is a lie and I had witnessed my fair share of bar fights to prove that.
I am getting off topic here. FOCUS. So, jacked motherfucker starts swinging and calling me all kinds of insults. I was dodging lethal damage there. I just made sure my head is protected. One of his punches landed on my arm and it hurt so much I knew this was serious business. I swing a couple as my self defence mechanism strike and BAM headshot knockout. The dude is on the ground sleeping. It went so fast, at this moment an audience of employees were gathered and enjoying the show.
The girl is still crying near her car. I felt so guilty and sad for the dude, I helped him sit down and said "sorry bro". Funny enough he was like "yeah I am the one who should say sorry", he seemed like he had a light concussion. We shook hands and I left.
This was last friday.
I just head back to my cubicle to continue the work day but I knew it wasn't over. I don't know if you guys noticed by now, but I don't live in the US (shitty Grammar as a proof). Law in my country is what happens outside the company (parking lot being a public property) is not the companie's business.
Next monday, I was summoned to some HR shit. As I sat down across the table from 3 FEMALE HR reps I let out a chuckle and I said "I know why I am here but I don't understand what gives you the authority to intervene" (I was dumb).
I was accused of sexually harassing the girl.
... And was told to "leave and never come back again".
After co-workers asked her what happened, she didn't go the "I am swinging branches" route. She cried innocent and victim of course. So she says "OP kept making sexual advances even though she resisted and the fight in the 100m away parking lot was about that."
I have the text messages. Phone conversations. nudes from her. A video we made. Proof she is a liar.
I went to the work inspector, this is his view of the situation:
They aren't allowed to fire me right away as sexual harassement is a crime, they should've called the police if it happened in the companie's property only. And by the girl if it happened outside. Then if I was convicted they can fire me. He said that we are looking at an abusive termination. I can sue the girl for filling the complaint (given the fact that I have all this evidence), I can sue the company for not taking the legal proceedure. It's going to cost me some money to hire lawyers for that so I pick the 3rd option, a settlement of 13 months of salary + compensations. It's gonna be lots of money and a friend of mine who is a lawyer advised me to take it.
The end.
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