CMV: The Vast Majority of Men Here Should Focus on Married Women

azngirl7689 · 2019-10-02T12:49:48+00:00

I guess but aren’t you worried about if the husband finds out? Have you ever seen Snapped?

WestsideMoonWalker · 2019-10-02T14:52:59+00:00

Ugh cheaters are disgusting. Who the fuck wants to be known in their social circle as the guy that goes after married women? Being the person someone cheats with should and is looked down upon.

janeaustenfan99 · 2019-10-02T12:57:17+00:00

What about women who clearly state that they want something casual? Why not go for likeminded women.

Mr_Smoogs · 2019-10-02T13:16:18+00:00

No that’s dumb. There’s plenty of women who try to seduce men into relationships. You just have to be attractive. The swinger scene is full of unstable people.

the-lone-squid · 2019-10-02T14:02:50+00:00

That's a good way to get shot Gatsby

Tyler_Gatsby · 2019-10-02T13:21:44+00:00

How about angry beta husband who is about to kill ya? Thought about that, OP?

diffdedbed · 2019-10-02T15:08:45+00:00

Sigh, this sort of thing is asking for an ass kicking, a bullet, or a summons. Not worth it for pussy.

The target demographic is recently divorced women. My wife has a few friends like that and they are desperate for cock. One even asked if she could borrow a husband in front of my wife and I not knowing she probably could have if she asked right being we are swingers.

They rediscover their libido when the marriage barrier is lifted.

Eastuss · 2019-10-02T12:46:58+00:00

We generally don't have enough option to afford focusing on anything, whatever her relationship status is you still try. Married women are getting rarer too, and it might be preferable to get into a bullshit drama about her feelings rather than bullshit drama about causing other people to divorce.

nevomintoarce · 2019-10-02T15:39:57+00:00

Seems legit if you're trying to get murdered by a jealous husband.

wtknight · 2019-10-02T15:52:16+00:00

That’s not cool to be a home wrecker. Wait until she separates from him at least and is going through divorce proceedings. You’re potentially contributing to destroying a family and hurting children by having sex with a temporarily dissatisfied woman who might end up making things work out with her husband, until he finds out that she has committed adultery.

jax006 · 2019-10-02T16:00:14+00:00

No way. Number 1, married women are mostly older. Early-mid 20s girls who are the hottest are largely not married.

They also are going to have you on their schedule. You have literally zero power. You're a side piece to her. Compare this to a chick you're fucking that is crazy about you. She will cancel plans in order to fuck you.

There is also the question of the Husband. Lots of crazy ppl out there and I dont want my nice shit vandalized over some old chick's pussy.

There is also the obvious more BP side of it in that maybe I meet a chick i really like. Kind of a dead end if shes married. If shes single could end up being a great LTR.

yasee · 2019-10-02T16:01:42+00:00

how many dissatisfied married women are there, really? dissatisfied to the point of cheating I mean

beyond any moral qualms, focusing exclusively on married ladies and ignoring anyone single just seems like needlessly restricting your pool

PickUpScientist · 2019-10-02T18:48:27+00:00

100% agree. peak infidelity age is 45. a woman's biological clock doesn't stop ticking when you put a ring on a finger, even if she has some kids. when the fertility window is closing, their sex drive skyrockets. all too often, this occurs just after the honeymoon phase of the marriage is over and hubby has let himself go. here you have a perfectly desirable lady with no reason to tell anybody what is going down, looking for nsa validation. its a recipe for success.

SpinachIsYummy · 2019-10-02T23:00:56+00:00

Gatsby did you even read the book your name comes from?

Remember what happened to Jay Gatsby?

Hell he wasn't even the one Myrtle's husband. He was the one cucking Tom who was cucking Myrtle's husband. And you remember what Daisy does? She chooses Tom over him and let's him take the fall for Myrtle's death. If Gatsby had just stayed away, he might have been fine.

Avoid the trouble of angry unstable husband coming after you, and just go for single girls.

Willow-girl · 2019-10-03T04:17:41+00:00

I knew a guy who actually got shot diving out a window trying to escape a jealous husband. (He survived, albeit with a jacked-up leg.)

So there's that.

Here4thebeer3232 · 2019-10-02T13:29:19+00:00

Married military wives would be the easiest to go for. Military couples cheat like a fish breathes water.

Of course if the husband ever found out your life might be in danger. But hey, you do you bro.

Hennythepainaway · 2019-10-02T13:08:00+00:00

Nah doesn’t feel right

Ofourkind · 2019-10-02T14:45:00+00:00

Women can cheat whenever they want. It couldn't be easier.

And yet, most never do.

cassandrarose39 · 2019-10-02T15:21:50+00:00

Yeah if you want to break up a whole family. Think about the kids. The wife’s reputation would be trashed.

Not only that but some men would absolutely go ape shit and your life and quite possibly the wife’s too would be in danger.

I would think single women would be easier myself

Kos_-_Omak · 2019-10-02T19:14:42+00:00

All of the stuff about married women is totally true, but to do well with them you need to provide whatever is missing from their relationship/marriage. And 99% of the time that means you need to be like extreme alpha fucks.

For most guys here or elsewhere in the manosphere, their biggest problem is that they are too betaish. Once they get their shit together and get all jacked and internalize the right mindset, then hell yeah go for married chicks its like shooting fish in a barrel.

But until then, they are going to struggle. All their betaish traits are going to be an even worse disadvantage with married chicks who are absolutely sick of their boring betaish husband.

CosmicBioHazard · 2019-10-02T19:57:27+00:00

I can only disagree with the morality, but the effectiveness? You hit at a morbid truth, OP. Very morbid.

pnadlerlaw · 2019-10-05T11:12:51+00:00

Have you heard about recently divorced women?

I have this one attorney friend, let’s call him James. Before James got married, he used to represent exclusively women in their divorce.

After their divorce, these women would invite James to Cancún, over their house in the Hamptons for the Summer, and take pictures and post it all over social media for their ex. One woman printed out checks with their PG-13 vacation photos together, so that she could send him payments for something.

Recently divorced women go nuts, especially with their own lawyer ... especially if their lawyer is relatively young, low body fat %, dresses well, has a classically attractive face, is fit, on the taller end of the spectrum. etc. ... and her husband ... was not.

There’s a reason unhappily married women remain “married.” Complacency. If she’s complacent, you’re not going to find her attractive.

Women who aren’t complacent get divorced. They “plan” for their divorce and they execute. If she was 150lbs., she’s back down to 110lbs. and “complaining” to her lawyer how it’s all because of the “stress” from getting divorced.

This is her fucking Shawshank Redemption. She has cover story after cover story carefully planned out. It all makes sense how life magically “did this to her.” Her body? It was the stress. Her new wardrobe? She got depressed after the divorce, and did some shopping therapy to feel better. Her sex drive? She hasn’t had sex with her husband for years and is tired of depriving herself. Always the victim. Always the object of a sentence, where some subject (e.g., life, the world, men, her husband, stress) are performing some verb onto her.

She’s already speaking the language of zero accountability. She’s not saying, “I (subject) am (verb) not that kind of girl (object).” She’s saying, “Life and other people (subject) did (verb) this to me (object).”

When I hear a woman use that language, to me, linguistically, it sounds like, “Fuck me.”

Aaren_Augustine · 2019-10-02T13:20:44+00:00

There's a subset of men that get off on "cucking" the husband. Its weird. Like there's still a remnant of core weakness in the dudes soul that he needs to fuck over another dude in order to feel better about himself.

And if a wife falls for that, well, that's on her. But someone like you wanting to teach the husband a lesson...fuckin' weird. Is this what women comment on when they see men that have this "revenge fantasy"?

Aaren_Augustine · 2019-10-02T13:03:33+00:00

"The answer is she's still a younger woman with needs,...". As to married women.

"Stay away from single women looking to settle down...". As to single women

The single woman is still the more hassle-free option.

The married women you described are still young according to your scenario and will be looking to branchswing and to settle down with a new, better male.

The single women you described will be looking to settle down.

One group of women carries the baggage of a pissed off husband, kids in tow, and divorce drama, not to mention the coordination of hook-up times and places which must be kept secret. The other group is an easy pump and dump which involves no potential pissed off husband and family break up.

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iceicle999 · 2019-10-02T13:39:35+00:00

Assuming we have the option, I'll pass. No point destroying other people's lives, possibly kids too, because I can't keep it in my pants.

rus9384 · 2019-10-02T13:44:29+00:00

Okay, so, you are deliberately filtering out unmarried women with whom you still might have sex?

That's dumb.

QueenCousland86 · 2019-10-02T16:51:07+00:00

Taking the morals of fucking someone else's wife out of it, you have to beware the women who see you as an out from their boring, dissatisfying marriage. Any woman who's looking for a "savior" is going to tearfully confess to her husband, because she can't "just break up" with him.

reluctantly_red · 2019-10-02T17:36:48+00:00

Guess I still have some pesky standards but I'd never do another guy's wife.

theoracleofosiris · 2019-10-03T05:08:34+00:00

Yeah I wouldn’t do things to others that I wouldn’t want done to me.

crackrocksteady7 · 2019-10-02T17:39:48+00:00

My first post TRP plate was a married woman at my gym and the whole thing made me feel sick

decoy88 · 2019-10-02T17:44:07+00:00

OR you can try not being a dickhead

Title	CMV: The Vast Majority of Men Here Should Focus on Married Women
Author	Tyler_Gatsby
Upvotes	0
Comments	185
Date	October 2, 2019 12:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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