I was trying to make the title short ...so longer title below

Average looking guys who are shy/socially anxious/below average socially and don't know how to flirt, escalate or have sex with women .....should shallow their pride and date ugly/fat chicks(for a while to learn)

I'll refer to them as nerdy virgins even this though it's just nerds who struggle with women.

So i was having a conversation with my "chad" roommate. He's objectively handsome, 6'1, smart, long distance athlete, DJ's and has a business. Guy is 21 years old with N count like 50.

Any ways i asked him if he really liked any of the girls he was fucking and he said "no". He also said "But they like me and that's what matters".

Basically he approaches a lot of girls. Hot ones, average ones fat ones , ones he considers ugly. He said most of his N count consists of girls he wouldn't be proud to show off. But it's easy practice. Approaching, flirting, escalating and sex are things he's practiced since high school ...he had to learn how to consciously turn on the charm.

He too was once a clueless 14 year old. His first lay wasn't the hottest girl in the class. It was a fat chick who kept staring at him. He was her bf for a while got laid ,then left after. If becoming chad was a game he started with level 1 girls.

If chad had to start from level 1 girls why do these average guys think they can start at level 10.

If hot guys don't think they're too good for sex with ugly/fat chicks , why do average looking guys think they are above banging ugly/fat chicks.

Most nerdy virgins have this thing were they only approach the girls they are crushing on .....usually the girl is hot/kinda. When they do approach it's unrefined , they don't really know what to say and even if their looks were ok enough for her ....the approach itself made her turn him down. When they do get lucky with their crush, they don't know how to flirt or escalate and mostly like suck at sex ...this is bad.

You don't want to have your awkward learning phase with the girl you're trying to impress. You get it over with the girl who's really into and you're pretty meh about.

There are girls who really want you ...and girls who you really want. Rarely are they the same girls (even chad has to shoot below his level). If you don't take easy pussy , you'll have really long dry spells or even be a forever virgin.

EDIT: Leagues include more than looks. Average looking girls with average social skills don't want average looking guys with below average approach/flirting/social skills. Therefore to improve said social skill the guy will have to learn with girls who have below average looks

EDIT 2: Fat doesn't mean obese. Cute slightly chubby girls exist.