I see way too many posts and comments here (like the last one) that are just plain lost (and low key misogynistic).

If you expect a girl to like you, you need to show that you RESPECT her while you hold your own. You are certainly not above her. You are a potential predator until proven otherwise.

She owes you absolutely nothing!! If you are going to have the audacity to talk to her, she needs to have a REASON to want to talk to you.

Woman have sexual desires just like men do. All men like fit girls with round butts and women generally also prefer men who are fit and sexy-faced too. GET OVER IT. Stop demonizing women for for wanting to fuck someone viscerally exciting. The difference is for us it’s easy and for you it’s not. Stop hating us because we can easily get the one thing you want so badly and yet struggle with so much. I’m not going to enjoy my life less because other people struggle to get what they want. I’m absolutely not sorry. Stop looking outside for a willing partner and start looking inside to become someone SHE actually wants.

Women are generally put off when strange men randomly approach them in public. PERIOD. I already know you’re hoping I will give AF about your dick and I am absolutely repulsed by your lack of respect demonstrated by the fact that you think you’re worth my attention despite bypassing the part where you demonstrate you have anything to offer AT ALL.

If you cannot demonstrate there is a reason for me to want to talk to you (a common interest at least) if I have no context for which to situate your existence (being in the same class, hiking group, art class..) do not occupy my attention. You will come off as a desperate loser who just goes around aimlessly trying to get the attention of ANY woman which is just so ew and cringe.

Woman want to feel special, desired, cared for. But first of all why should she make herself vulnerable by entertaining the possibility of creating this with YOU? Nevermind the fact that she’s probably not even contemplating that because your lack of social competence is just hella cringe.

You need to build a foundation to demonstrate that you have the emotional intelligence and discipline to INSPIRE her desire. Yes she might have that feeling by looking at you if you look like Ashton Kutcher. But you probably don’t look like that so stop complaining like a little bitch and nurture the opportunity to become some she trusts.

If she never wants to fuck you, you should be grateful for her attention REGARDLESS. Because even that you don’t deserve. You will ALWAYS have to earn her trust and respect: There is no such thing as a not for profit whoreganization.

If you are not channeling your sexual desire into up leveling yourself in a way that would make you more valuable to women (emotional intelligence, job skills, interesting hobbies...) you are wasting your potential, wasting your life away, and contributing to the collective burden that women everywhere are constantly fending off. Stop burdening women with your unwantedness and stop complaining about being a loser. The point of life is to GROW. Learn from women, prioritize her pleasure and needs.