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Both 44, married 24, best friends until a year ago. Perimenopause was rough but she's usually awesome.

October she started sleeping in another room. sex monthly until December. then nothing. She stays late And works 12hr Sundays by choice. we both work 9-5. she comes home at 8. in her room exercising shortly after. then bed. she's getting in great shape and now wants to cash out an old 401k and get some work done. breast lift and what not. I said I support you and within 2 days she has put a deposit on 2 consultations. She doesn't want to be around me I feel. Is she leaving??

Edit: Shes been on estridol cream for 2 weeks and getting an IUD tomorrow.