Hi everyone. I hope you all are staying strong and doing great. I have been married for over a year now and have started to consider getting a divorce. There are many reasons, so i hope you read them all.

First, most of our fights have been because she can't understand i need to go out and spend some time with my friends. It is never more than 2 hours and MOST IMPORTANT POINT IN MY DEFENSE IS THAT I AM A FREELANCER. So i stay with her all the time since i don't have to go to office.

Secondly, i am always in a fear that she will get mad. I have been brought up in a family where my parents loved each other and we never saw many fights. So whenever me and my fight, it destroys my mental peace. To avoid it from happening, i walk on eggshells to make sure there's isn't much to fight about. I spend time with her, try to fulfil her little wishes with my salary.

And one thing that really bugs me is that she never apologizes. Like if we have fought 10 times, i always apologize and try to sort out the issue. She never apologizes.

She says that she loves me a lot and honestly i don't question her love for me. But that love doesn't matter if i am not being respected. There have been occasions where she didn't respect my decision at all.

We have made good memories in the past 1 year, but at the same time, we haven't been financially tested or i haven't been abusive toward her or not fulfilled most of her wishes. I fear what would happen if we have a child in the future.