Always be vetting: Scrotes will make you their forever girlfriend, message other women while you pay the bills, then dump you

More_Pothos · 2021-07-15T15:45:24+00:00

“Although nothing has happened, I feel that I would like to explore these possibilities in the future.”

There it is! He stayed in the relationship while he was mooching and didn’t think he could do better. Now, he delusionally thinks these online “eMoTionaL coNnEcTionS” are going to turn into something. I bet these women are 10 years younger than he and his girlfriend are, and when they reject his broke ass, he’ll come crying back to his ex.

sleepysiri · 2021-07-15T13:55:19+00:00

He has been wanting to break up with her for THREE YEARS. Three YEARS. THREE years. This woman, I feel so bad for her, her time has been royally wasted.

HRandCats · 2021-07-15T16:25:53+00:00

Let me get this straight .. dude is unemployed but doesn’t feel he has enough time to go to therapy and apply for jobs until he moves out? Like no, you’re just too comfortable mooching off your girlfriend and being a lazy piece of shit/man child.

lalalalaika · 2021-07-15T14:03:52+00:00

He seems delusional. He is financially and emotionally dependent on her, and yet thinks his life will improve if he leaves her? LOLLLLL

I bet she's way more attractive than him, so naturally he thinks, "Wow if I can get a 7, that means I can also get a 10 🤩 Better leave her and find greener pastures." Never considering that she's the best he will ever do.

MarsV89 · 2021-07-15T15:33:15+00:00

Wtf. Wants to break up with her but is emotionally and financially dependent on her? They don’t see us as human beings like them, just a ticket to ride

Longluck · 2021-07-15T15:44:08+00:00

I am honestly really confused by this. I want to know how he assumes his life is going to get better without her. He is financially independent on her ffs. Does he assume that one of the girls he's developed an online "connection" with is just going to let him move in with her and mooch off of her too?

fleuretpomme · 2021-07-15T16:58:27+00:00

This is why we don't move in or be forever girlfriends

Any_Indication_2754 · 2021-07-15T14:29:32+00:00

"We have big cOmMuNiCaTiOn problems" Womp there it is. Typical scrote statement. And "obliged to give her the opportunity to work things out"...HER? Tf?

Jandi18 · 2021-07-15T14:24:55+00:00

So she has been taking care of him financially and at the same time he has also been "agitated" and on edge the past year. So while she was feeding and clothing him, dude has been a rude asshole. Talk about entitlement

Pornruinedsociety · 2021-07-15T14:01:37+00:00

"I don't love her anymore, but I do care for her alot and want all the best for her." Lying to her about how he really feels so he can continue using her for financial security and cheating online behind her back. Yes you can really tell he cares deeply for her!

w00kiee · 2021-07-15T17:21:18+00:00

Oh hell no.

“Grant her the opportunity to work things out.” … “developed strong emotional connections with people [read other women let’s be honest].”

Just say you’re a cheater and get it over with. Depending on a woman financially, be with her for over 9yrs, can’t even actually commit to her, BE THE SOLE PROBLEM OF YOUR PROBLEMS (it’s not her here) and you want to…

Grant her the opportunity?

O H H E L L N O S I R

proudpine · 2021-07-15T14:14:39+00:00

What an absolute coward and mooch.

blue_avocado · 2021-07-15T17:37:33+00:00

I like how he has felt this way for years, but only tried therapy a couple weeks ago….

CroneRaisedMaiden · 2021-07-15T18:00:56+00:00

Decently attractive scrote in my age group recently admitted he’d take me out and such which was nice ya, but then I found out after talking to him more that he has a girlfriend who lives with him and had 2 of his children !!!! Like excuse me?!? Delete and block

Objective_Ad7771 · 2021-07-15T14:52:26+00:00

I hate the way he wrote it - it sounds like we're supposed to feel sorry for him. Ain't gonna happen.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-07-15T19:12:06+00:00

This is prime example of a moocher, a leech, a blood-sucking parasite of a scrote. He tortures her while sucking up her resources and emotionally cheating online. So many years wasted on him!

europoor24 · 2021-07-15T14:27:50+00:00

13 yrs.. that's the length of some marriages yikes!

queen-wannabe · 2021-07-15T20:29:43+00:00

Wow. That’s a lot of words and sugarcoating to use, just to say “IM A LAZY FUCKING MALE SCROTE GOLD DIGGER WHO’S DEPENDENT ON MY GF TO BE TAKEN CARE OF, I ALSO CHAT WITH OTHER WOMEN WHO I WILL PURSUE FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS WITH, ON THE SIDE SINCE I FEEL IT IS OK TO BECAUSE IM NO LONGER EMOTIONALLY CONNECTED TO HER, HAVEN’T BEEN FOR 3 YEARS.” I find it incredibly disrespectful too that... he’s had those “work opportunities”.. that apparently he wasn’t “free to pursue” while he was in the relationship with this girl. Like?? What is that suppose to mean? How the fuck could you not pursue those “opportunities” when you were with her, assuming he hasn’t broken up with her. I’m sure that when they hang out, they don’t spend a lot of time together, I’m more than sure this scrote has a fuck lot of free time to himself... while his gf (ex now I hope) doesn’t have as much due to her work schedule. It doesn’t fucking add up, at all. He could of very well chased those job offerings, WITH OR WITHOUT the relationship, he’s using the label of the relationship he has with her as a excuse to be lazy and not work. Which further adds more onto the fact that he sees her as a bangmaid personal mommy. He’s either doing it intentionally or unintentionally, doesn’t matter, either or. The fact is the same: he’s deliberately wasting this women’s time. For his own comfort. All while he’s talking to other girls behind her back. Unbelievable. Men never cease to surprise me with how low they can drop.

modernmedusaa · 2021-07-16T00:48:47+00:00

FDS translates:

I have used and strung along this forever gf for 13 years stealing her youth with no ring, but probably promising her one ‘in the future’. I have unaddressed mental health issues and have used her as an arm chair therapist /maid for years to pump up my esteem and also been reliant on her financially. I have kept her in constant anxiety for the last few years particularly but don’t have the balls to leave, end her misery and tell her what the deal is. Now I’m done sucking host dry and want to go explore (fuck) the multiple women I’ve clearly been cheating with, in peace, with no consequences. At 37 I am clearly in the midst of an upcoming mid life Crisis as my hairline is disappearing and think I can do ‘better’ now forever gf has built me up.

Wonderrednow · 2021-07-15T14:28:36+00:00

13 whole years smh.

shockingupdate · 2021-07-15T23:57:08+00:00

Every time I screenshot a scrote on FDS, I get a message hours later from Redditcare saying a “concerned redditor” flagged me for self-h*rm lmao

OrganicGas4568 · 2021-07-15T15:54:34+00:00

I hope he got eaten alive in the comments

thatjimmylove · 2021-07-15T19:54:33+00:00

Why do men thing they are always in the Clear for avoiding emotional weight, he says he does not want to be selfish but he is incredibly selfish. He just wasted 3 years of this woman time, completely disrespecting the commitment of their relationship, he is not a fit partner. He is the definition of spineless practically DO EMOTIONAL LABOUR, you are not noble for not.

these are the men who think they are good people, when they are clearly shitty, I bet he believes himself to be a model boyfriend.

j9101 · 2021-07-15T18:26:28+00:00

This is literally the most disgusting thing I’ve read in a while. What a user what the fuck

red-cherry-on-ice · 2021-07-15T18:43:37+00:00

Oh wow. The guy is delusional. I hope she changes her mindset (🤡) after healing the broken heart...

Waste-Win · 2021-07-15T20:05:34+00:00

Ngl I was feeling a little of compasion for him since I've been in a place in which I sateyed too long in a relationship but then we got this "I have also developed quite strong connections with people i have been chatting online...I would like to explore these posibilities", which means He is been wasting this woman time for very long time but now feels the need to break up because He wants to date other people.

cccc2424 · 2021-07-16T02:48:25+00:00

They have communication issues because HE IS NOT COMMUNICATING. Wanted to end things for three years? Talking to people online for months? If your girlfriend is going to be surprised, like you said, then you’re the fucking problem, asshole.

thatsbloodyrubbish · 2021-07-15T15:16:20+00:00

Gross. This guy is a huge coward, and an even bigger loser.

LovedDemons · 2021-07-16T04:04:29+00:00

'I've been financially supported by her for years so I am obliged to give her a chance to work things out'

Oh. My. GOD. If there is a higher power out there, please prevent me meeting these kinds of guys. The fucking entitlement reeking from his pile of miserable flesh is overwhelming.

Yeah dude, aren't you nice giving her a chance to make it up to you after years and years of throwing money down the hole for you. Just so generous ain'tcha?

Title	Always be vetting: Scrotes will make you their forever girlfriend, message other women while you pay the bills, then dump you
Author	shockingupdate
Upvotes	587
Comments	83
Date	July 15, 2021 1:47 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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