Every damn time

Platipus6 · 2021-07-14T04:19:46+00:00

oh my god. the skincare one.

"My gf is OBSESSED with collecting skincare products because it's going to be her JOB as an aesthetician! So I punished her and threw all her products in my truck and made her break down and cry. Why is she CRAZY? Why isnt she focusing on ME?"

aoi4eg · 2021-07-14T08:30:04+00:00

Or "Yes, literally everyone in my life told me I should immediately leave this crazy man, but [some devil's advocate bs] so don't give me this advice, I only want to know how I can change my behaviour to accommodate him!"

MilkMadeMe · 2021-07-14T04:45:55+00:00

Variations on a friggin’ theme. Cloaked in Internet secrecy, men violently spit out their hate of us. But even in secret women still hope that their man is actually good despite the gut feelings that say otherwise. Been there.

sleutherino · 2021-07-14T05:18:22+00:00

Imagine being shocked when she leaves you after you dismiss, ridicule, tease, grope, disrespect, cheat on, and manipulate her.

"I'M JUST COMPLETELY BLIND SIDED I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW SHE COULD DO THIS."

"SHE'S FUCKING CRAZY TRUST ME, SHE JUST WANTS TO GO FUCK OTHER GUYS"

"YOU CAN'T TRUST ANYTHING SHE SAYS, SHE'LL SAY ANYTHING TO MAKE ME LOOK BAD. GOLD DIGGING BITCH"

Like, any possible reason they can come up with in their heads before they even CONSIDER that they did something wrong.

My ex guilt tripped me during the argument that led to our breakup. I called it out, how he was using self pity to make me feel bad so I'd just let it go and agree with him.

This mother fucker really said saying that hurt HIS feelings, and so I was the one who was REALLY guilt tripping. I'm somehow manipulative... for calling out his manipulations. 😒

Literally fucking anything to avoid being in the wrong. It's ridiculous the shit they come up with.

throwaway88043468 · 2021-07-14T09:15:44+00:00

"I swear this came out of nowhere, he's usually the best husband!" After he assaults or insults her

CAgirl17 · 2021-07-14T04:16:16+00:00

So true! I do remember a post on that sub about a girl questioning whether or not she should stay with her bf because she found out he killed someone when he was younger. 🥴

dodrugsmmkay · 2021-07-14T10:39:57+00:00

/r deadbedrooms is just the same. Women wanting their pornsick husbands to be intimate with them despite deathgrip rendering them useless.

The men in disbelief that their wives who work, take care of the kids and do all the chores are too tired to have sex with them. They don’t realize they are basically acting like children, what women would feel turned on by that?

I read a comment by an angry man who said: “my wife does (all things listed above) and won’t have sex with me! One weekend we had time to ourselves and she initiated sex so halfheartedly, like why would I want it then?”

Just mind blowing.

kycake · 2021-07-14T05:09:46+00:00

the fact that this is actually spot on is so sad and scary. like the world we live in is bad for women yet male violence and bad behavior is so normalized that it’s everywhere and most people dont even notice.

muchpatience_ · 2021-07-14T04:09:10+00:00

It's so sad that this type of complaints have become common place in society not just r/relationship...women always settling for less....men never appreciating and endlessly complaining. It's not worth it

obeyy_killxx · 2021-07-14T10:54:58+00:00

That sub must’ve gotten so much flack that they’ve set it to private. All their posts are either what’s stated on the tweet or women asking how they can better themselves to fix their (male) partner’s abhorrent behavior… or if they’re crazy noticing said behavior and if they should leave. Commence: jUsT cOmMunIcAtE comments.

victoriabowen8 · 2021-07-14T18:59:25+00:00

This is because females are taught to look INWARD when there is an issue (what is wrong with ME that caused this) and males are taught to look OUTWARD when there is an issue (who is responsible for this?!?!).

It's very true and very sad. But once I learned this it helped me to better direct my feelings and, more importantly VALIDATE them. It's all about unlearning that conditioning.

TellCerseeItWasMe · 2021-07-14T14:32:02+00:00

We need to put this message on a blimp for all women to see

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-07-14T15:24:34+00:00

According to him : “My wife is a crazy bitch because she complains about all the home renovations i’m doing to improve our living situation . We’ll have a whole extra room and another level of living space.”

The reality : he’s building a murder dungeon

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-07-14T20:14:39+00:00

Wow, pefect summary.

2021-07-14T07:22:44+00:00

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Title	Every damn time
Author	Any_Indication_2754
Upvotes	4024
Comments	58
Date	July 14, 2021 3:31 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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