Girls, HVM behaviour?

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-05-25T19:31:08+00:00

I am of the opinion that men who are repulsed by hair down there either watch too much porn or have pedophilic tendencies. It’s not natural, and I’ve personally never actually met a man in real life who would admit to it, every guy I’ve ever slept with hasn’t batted an eye at trimmed (not shaven) pubic hair. And as far as I know, none of those guys were into porn. Why are you soooo accustomed to never seeing hair, I guarantee you every woman they’ve ever slept with wasn’t clean shaven? They either want to replicate porn or they want you to look 12, that is not what a sexually mature woman’s genitalia looks like. I get not wanting hair in your mouth but there’s a difference between wanting things to be tidy and demanding it be completely bare like a ten year old or a porn star or hes not turned on.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-05-25T21:00:56+00:00

Obviously they exist, but I've never met a man who cared about any hair on my body. Maybe it's my age. In the past I've warned them I haven't shaved and they always tell me they don't give af, even the shitty ones. I still remember, as a young teen, the immense pressure and shame to shave my legs. I really hate how that's a thing.

fulltwistinglayout · 2020-05-25T20:48:21+00:00

Well. This one wipes.

NoThisIs-Patrick · 2020-05-25T19:15:10+00:00

I wax my arms and shave everything but my head/face, but contrary to popular belief it's actually more hygienic to have at least some pubic hair. It protects against friction, which can cause its own issues.

A man can admit he likes a clean-shaven woman, but if he claims it's due to "hygiene" then he's a fucking idiot and you should stop seeing him just because he's stupid. Own your preferences and don't try to be a little bitch ass justifying your shit.

randomgirlimok · 2020-05-25T20:54:20+00:00

Not necessarily, could be just an act. I knew a NVM who said the same thing, he was very much about “equal rights.” Including making his gf pay half of HIS mortgage if she wanted to move in, because it was “fair”. She never did move in because what woman would sign up to pay half his mortgage that your name isn’t on, and then basically be his slave/maid. “But my mortgage is cheaper than your rent” he said. Lol

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-05-25T18:51:29+00:00

Hell yeah

nosynobody · 2020-05-25T19:41:53+00:00

This should be the basic standard. I can't believe this dudes that have the audacity to expect their women to be hairless while they don't do the bate minimum maintenance

positivecatz · 2020-05-25T21:36:04+00:00

Thanks to lockdown I have pubic hair for the first time in my life... being nearly 30 that’s a really strange thought. Why did 13 year old me feel the need to shave my hair off?? No one saw me naked for another 3/4 years. Such sexualised youth.

Chi_shio · 2020-05-25T21:38:03+00:00

nah, that's just some basic human decency

tw231116 · 2020-05-25T21:17:32+00:00

Yeah I do like hair on my men actually, because we're all grown-ass adults and hair is natural. I find the lack of it quite disturbing and unattractive.

2340000 · 2020-05-25T19:27:52+00:00

This is just one of his opinions. It's a wonderful perspective, but it has nothing to do with his character. What is his character? That's the only thing that can make him HV.

If we rely on singular actions and not behavioral patterns, we'd be the blind leading the blind🤷

feasantly_plucked · 2020-05-25T20:20:27+00:00

I never shave my legs because I hate doing it. I do shave under my arms and keep my pubic hair trimmed or shaved (but not completely bare). I’ve only gotten a full Brazilian wax for a few special occasions.

Exactly zero men that I’ve dated have noticed that I have leg hair or commented about it. If anyone does in the future they will not hear from me again! 🤷‍♀️

silkypetal · 2020-05-25T21:35:49+00:00

This mindset should be the bare minimum! Regardless, it’s refreshing to see.

asiancountrymusicfan · 2020-05-25T20:44:18+00:00

This is actually something I’ve thought about a lot. I’ve never had a relationship (simply because I’ve been hyper focused on schoolwork and goals) so I’ve never really had to shave or worry about my lady parts. I think a deep part of me is afraid the first time I am intimate with a guy that he will recoil in disgust at my natural hair.

Then again, that’s why you date him a bit before hopping in the sack to see if he’s that kind of punk ass bitch. If that’s the case, not gonna let any man shame me.

umbralgarden · 2020-05-26T00:26:38+00:00

Wait, there's pick me versions of men and other men put them down for it...?

VaporwaveVampire · 2020-05-25T22:19:45+00:00

I shave my legs and stuff and not because it’s my choice 100%. It’s cause I don’t want to be judged! I admit that completely

Partyavoider29 · 2020-05-25T23:59:12+00:00

A high value sentiment from a debatable value male!

alluringiv · 2020-05-26T00:24:03+00:00

I only shave when I feel like it if you can’t fuck someone with hair then you prob don’t get any at all. It takes so long to shave ughhh

thowawaywookie · 2020-05-26T03:03:09+00:00

In the 70s, nobody shaved down there and nobody cared.

Is the guy HVM? Hell no. The bar is buried in the sewer for men, so the slightest comment supporting women, gets him some pussy points.

Alybank · 2020-05-25T23:58:02+00:00

I do trim mine BECAUSE I WANT TO. I would be appalled if a guy was like “yeah you have to keep it clean shaven” or whatever, this is my body, I do with it as I want to. Same goes for leg, and armpit hair, I do shave those BECAUSE I WANT TO, if I guy wanted to “require” it, it would be a big enough red flag to leave.

favoritesound · 2020-05-26T01:04:44+00:00

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balladwilds · 2020-05-25T22:03:22+00:00

very refreshing to see!

AutoMuchaBeach0 · 2020-05-25T21:50:54+00:00

That's just common sense

warinmymind94 · 2020-05-26T00:24:23+00:00

I like to keep myself smooth shaven down there and it's so funny any man I was ever with was always surprised! He was like oh! You shave! And then he was like "you know you dont have to if you dont want too! That's a lot of work " and they were all genuinely surprised. I asked one why he was so surprised and he said the other women he slept with didnt shave at all or would just trim.

lemon_hearts · 2020-05-25T22:46:31+00:00

This is the kind of man I could respect

Mitchelia · 2020-05-26T02:20:44+00:00

I would prefer guys don’t shave everywhere, it’s too prickly!

Wax or laser only. I personally prefer less hair but it’s not a requirement.

TheSatanicVegan · 2020-05-25T20:53:05+00:00

I personally like shaving. I find pubic hair annoying, coarse and not comfortable. I don't do Brazilians though (so not 100% bare) and I like how soft my legs are afterwards and my pits don't hold stench as much when shaven. So I shave for me. Haha.

KindNote6 · 2020-05-26T02:31:53+00:00

I personally like the feeling of being shaved. It’s easy to maintain once you’ve started. I like my legs feeling smooth, and I personally don’t like the coarse pubic hair since it is itchy when it’s grown out.

sadpourtoujours · 2020-05-25T23:10:48+00:00

I knew my boyfriend was a decent one when, among other things, I noticed that when we finally had sex he was shaved down there EVERY TIME. He still is, six months later. Whereas my POS trash-male ex had shaved once or twice within the span of three years.

MariaMariaRunner · 2020-05-26T01:31:26+00:00

An Icon lol

PinkElephant20 · 2020-05-26T03:30:50+00:00

Damn! I love this guy! I bet he grew up with girls

BungalowBootieBitch · 2020-05-25T22:47:21+00:00

My mom has been on back about shaving my pits. My feeling is that if I'm not going anywhere, and I don't smell, I don't need to lol. Also I'm just lazy. She's a boomer so of course women's body hair grosses her out.

Abracadoggo · 2020-05-26T01:07:36+00:00

I’m cool with body hair everywhere on everyone except armpits. I think all genders should shave their armpits because deodorant dingleberries are nasty. 😂

Animalcrossing4eva · 2020-05-26T03:10:42+00:00

I would be grossed out if a man shaved.

Title	Girls, HVM behaviour?
Author	idkwhattoputhere000
Upvotes	1425
Comments	80
Date	May 25, 2020 6:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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