For real they do. So over the last couple months I was trying to give it a shot with a guy that wanted to date me.

He was honestly very nice, respectful, told me how into me he was and took me out on dates, bought flowers, all the things.

Buttttt the thing was I knew in my heart it wasn’t going to go anywhere, it just didn’t feel right ya know. I was starting to dread dates because I knew I was going to have to end it which I hattteee because I hate feeling like I’m hurting someone. But today as he was trying to make out with me while watching a movie I just busted out with “this just doesn’t feel right and I don’t think we should date anymore”.

And this dude? This dude goes “omg thank god, I’ve been feeling the same way, there’s no spark, but I didn’t know how to tell you”.

Like on one hand I’m relieved that it’s mutual and I’m not hurting someone. But on the other? I’m mad. Mad at the deceivery. He is the one who kept on inviting me on dates. The one who literally said “I really like you”, the one who bought me flowers earlier this week. The one who called the restaurant we met at “our place”.

They will say literally ANYTHING to keep you on the hook. Even if they don’t really want you on their hook. Mean while I’m over here agonizing about having to “hurt someone”. I seriously was trying to put it off because I knew he was hanging out with his friends later and I didn’t want him to be bummed out when he was supposed to be having fun 😂