Never tell a man about your past!

ModernDayOracle · 2020-07-07T06:27:56+00:00

Of course he's a 40- something dating a 21 year old. She's not that much older than his kids!!!

lemonheaddass · 2020-07-07T06:28:50+00:00

Pure male fantasy. No 21 ur old wants your dusty blackmailing still-married saggy ass. That’s like the red flag factory exploded.

StormyL · 2020-07-07T06:26:58+00:00

But how does this affect her parenting? She did it in the past before she had kids, moved on and made a life for herself. This man is just digging up the past. I'm sure hes done way worse

Averyhvw · 2020-07-07T06:08:25+00:00

Complete scumbag this dude.

OrchidLion · 2020-07-07T06:28:38+00:00

Another 43 year old dating a 21 year old girl. I'm sick of this shit. Why do girls give old hag scrotes the time of day???? HOW DESPERATE DO U HAVE TO BE FOR FUCKS SAKES. WHY DONT WOMEN HAVE STANDARDS? Why don't they REALIZE they're RUINING IT for everyone by letting old males think they can have the audacity. This fucking sucks. I get pissed every time I see something like this. I'm in my 20s and I would NEVER and HAVE NEVER given an old hag scrote a chance.AND FUCKING PROUD.

Edit: ok finally read the whole post. Filth like this is why hell was created. Males are scum of the earth. NEVER tell a male anything. DO NOT BE VULNERABLE WITH THEM. Do not tell them your secrets. Do not show them your photos. Do not send them nudes.

BasieSkanks · 2020-07-07T06:27:49+00:00

Why is he dating a woman that’s 20 years younger than him???

munissa · 2020-07-07T08:08:50+00:00

This completely triggered me. Complete trash human. He has the audacity to ask if he is the AH?! Obviously he is. How could he do that to his ex and his kids?! His kids will hate him even if he ends up with custody. In addition, 21 year old?!

outside-perception · 2020-07-07T08:33:24+00:00

This is why women keep their pasts so private/only give half truths and trickle truths.

Mentally ill or unwell? It'll be used as leverage for why you are "unstable" in any capacity.

Used to be a sex worker of any kind? They'll obtain physical proof if possible and send it around/doxx you.

In one swoop this massive piece of shit robbed her of her livelihood, her sanity and her sense of self in terms of a societal position. He's dating a girl who's likely their eldest kid's age to add onto the the wound.

He's ruining her life and has the audacity to as if he's the asshole. He already knows he is. Hes using this post as a form of bragging rights to be like "see? If your wife wants to leave you, this is how you permanently screw her over".

She's 44. Seemingly made a good life for herself until he did that. Funny how it's from the 90s and likely wouldn't have been found on the internet until this guy came around and it's probably up there (without her consent, of course) for everyone to see including former students.

I hope she gets full custody and he pays ALL her bills including therapy to recover from this horrific betrayal and violation of privacy. This is traumatic.

outside-perception · 2020-07-07T09:43:58+00:00

Sorry to make a separate comment.

Here's the post. My hope is restored with how much people are pointing out the obvious age gap and that the wife is NOT jealous of a 21 year old.

Flaky_Nobody · 2020-07-07T11:03:36+00:00

why would you want the mother of your kids to have no income?

4E4ME · 2020-07-07T12:44:49+00:00

Can we talk about how he glossed over the fact that she filed after she had a baby? A significant amount of the story is missing, no woman wants to get divorced when she has a baby at home unless she's being flagrantly disrespected. His story is so one-sided.

krisy1990 · 2020-07-07T07:22:57+00:00

I have similar past that could be used against me. the older I’ve gotten, the LESS I care. I think the men who know me know this making this despicable behavior less effective.

hellportal · 2020-07-07T06:18:21+00:00

Hope he gets stomach cancer.

Freddit98 · 2020-07-07T08:07:01+00:00

How is this not revenge porn ..?

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-07-07T10:26:42+00:00

Ugh this is sickening. This has nothing to do with her past. Not that her past makes her a bad person in the slightest, but also, it was so long ago and has nothing to do with her abilities to raise their children. And 21, when he’s 43?! Fucking yuck. That poor girl is going to have even more issues when he’s done with her. His actions towards his ex wife just go to show what a controlling and manipulative weasel he is.

Kristeninmyskin · 2020-07-07T08:25:46+00:00

Ewww! Dickhead! He must have gone through a lot of effort to find those tapes of hers, and it’s late and I’m tired, but did he imply that he already had them?! What a scrote!

Saitschik · 2020-07-07T11:29:50+00:00

I highly doubt that his new girlfriend being 21 is the main reason for her to ask for custody. Except if the girlfriend has some kind of issues which is highly possible since she is dating an old geezer.

I am 100% sure he is a horrible father. I mean getting their mother fired from her job to have an advantage in court, wow

RadarFemef · 2020-07-07T10:44:41+00:00

If this is actually real and he’s honestly dating a 21 year old as a 40-something with 3 kids in a bitter divorce where he’s trying to use humiliation as a weapon against the mother of his children, he is a serious loser

lskfjd743 · 2020-07-07T14:42:25+00:00

This guy did not have a problem with her past when he married and started a family with her! Also, since she is now unemployed, she will push for more alimony. This scrote is both a hypocrite as well as an idiot!

2020-07-07T12:45:57+00:00

So he essentially ruins his ex-wife's life because she 60/40 instead of 50/50? Make it make sense. Oh yeah, it does, a scumbag to the lowest degree...

Lavender_flow · 2020-07-07T15:24:24+00:00

What a fucking piece of shit. Of course his new girlfriend is 21. Abusive narcissistic asshole detected.

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-07-07T16:21:51+00:00

He's an asshole and an idiot who doesn't even realize that his kids are going to grow up despising him (and rightfully so). I hope she takes him and the school district to the cleaners.

2020-07-07T19:35:01+00:00

The fact that he was able to meticulously orchestrate this entire runing of her life indicates that not only is he an asshole, but also probably capable of much worse.

lickyblickyuhh · 2020-07-07T14:17:00+00:00

I bet he was jacking his dick like no tomorrow to them when he was in the relationship though

miwamus · 2020-07-07T16:32:54+00:00

I'm so happy this woman is divorcing this degenerate. Go, sister!

AyemHerself · 2020-07-08T03:17:23+00:00

"Soon to be ex." They aren't divorced yet.

This guy gets a "girlfriend" half his age the moment his wife files for divorce, and pretends he's a family man.

There's obviously a reason his WIFE wants out, and he's not as devoted to his kids as he claims if he was so quick to find a replacement for her. Why was he even looking at women barely older than his kids?

I do not blame this woman for filing for full custody. His priorities are whack.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-07-08T04:10:50+00:00

Is it just me or does this sound completely made-up? It sounds like a redpiller wrote it because it has all their fantasies

Evil ex who is trying to "divorce rape" him, or some variation of it
He's supposedly middle aged and dating a college student
He punishes his ex for being promiscuous

Idk it's just too perfectly aligned with the douche guy stereotype.

throwawayitst · 2020-07-07T15:50:57+00:00

Asshat

Never tell a man about your past!

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Title	Never tell a man about your past!
Author	lemonheaddass
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Date	July 7, 2020 6:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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