"Why do you hate men?"

not_a_femme · 2020-09-02T18:28:33+00:00

Women don't wait in dark corners to r*pe men, women don't record men in public bathrooms, women don't impregnate someone and then ditch them while talking mad shit about them.

When a man leaves his child, the mom is a trashy single mom. When the woman leaves her child, the father is a hero who takes care and what kind of worthless woman is she for leaving her kid??

Women aren't voting to take away a men's right. Meanwhile men vote against abortions while many still participate in having (unsafe) sex.

Whole list can go on honestly.

not_a_femme · 2020-09-02T18:48:52+00:00

Another one thing I hate: dudes saying their female co-workers aren't experiencing sexism. Oh, how would you know?

Orphanedpinkpetals · 2020-09-02T19:36:52+00:00

Men are the ones in hollywood who have a culture of "if there is a woman on screen she better be naked or dead "

Orphanedpinkpetals · 2020-09-02T19:22:56+00:00

Women arent the ones using deepfakes

-captainhook · 2020-09-02T19:12:05+00:00

And to all the men who will try to reverse this and say their experiences with shitty women must mean all women are shitty then - it's not only based on personal experience but actual facts and the experiences of women as a whole. Facts are facts, and men are statistically more likely to be murderers (serial and otherwise), rapists, abusers, etc. Within a year, thousands more women are murdered by their partners than members of the military are killed.

No one would think all dogs are killers or even all bite people, but if nearly all your friends had been bitten/seriously hurt by a dog, if you grew up seeing your mom attacked by a dog with people making excuses for the dog, if all the statistics show how violence is mainly perpetuated by dogs, if you've been facing attacks from dogs since you were fucking 11, you would probably be fucking wary of dogs. That's not discrimination; that's protecting oneself and speaking up against seriously dangerous behavior.

And it's funny how men will agree that mental health is a serious concern for men (I don't disagree), and say that makes them oppressed while refusing to even consider that this can lead to patterns of problematic male behavior. It's almost as though repressing one's emotions and being unable to express or manage them is directly linked to violence, anger, and abuse.

They say "not all men" like we don't already know that HVM exist. The problem is that there's such a huge, consistent pattern of toxic behavior in men that it's led to countless mass murders, rapes, abuse cases, and more, and people are rightfully speaking up about it. But they somehow don't see that as the problem, and people expressing their grievances and sharing their experiences with horrible men are the problems instead

degnan1214 · 2020-09-02T18:38:20+00:00

This. No, of course, it isn't "all men" (just getting that in there) but enough men that it's a worry and a problem.

We have to be on our guard far more around men than with women. And if we aren't and something bad happens to us? "You should have known better!" "What were you thinking?" "What did you do?"

And if we're on our guard, some butthurt man is like, "You're treating me like I'm a potential rapist when I haven't even done anything! It's not fair!"

ClintEastwoods_Chair · 2020-09-02T20:17:29+00:00

Well over 90% of violent crime is committed by men. In a world of only women, there would hardly ever be school shootings, graphic murders, religious executions, beheadings, etc.

When I walk down the street, the average man I interact with is unlikely to harm me in any way, statistically. But the average woman poses basically ZERO threat to me, statistically.

It's not that every single man is potentially harmful to women. It's that barely any women, statistically, are potentially harmful to women in the violent ways that men are.

Women have adapted and evolved as a species. They are overwhelmingly more civilized, more able to peacefully coexist in society. Men just haven't gotten there yet. Without men so much the world's senseless tragedy, much of it disproportionately inflicted on women, would not have happened.

Any woman who is fully cognizant of this reality will certainly have some resentment about this. That doesn't mean that we hate each individual man. But as a society we still refuse to acknowledge the totality of men's culpability in global suffering.

Pahapan · 2020-09-02T21:41:36+00:00

No woman has ever raped me.

Orphanedpinkpetals · 2020-09-02T19:23:49+00:00

77 percent of slaves today globally are female

button-up · 2020-09-02T20:33:37+00:00

A woman has never given me a job or rented me an apartment just to try to get in my pants.

SansaDeservedBetter · 2020-09-02T18:37:20+00:00

I hate the men who sexually abused, humiliated and traumatized me and I hate the men who are complicit in any type of abuse of women which is all of them.

ragetimethrowaway · 2020-09-02T20:43:27+00:00

I do hate men tho🤷‍♀️Only half joking. But this was really well written and I’m really sorry about everything that they put you through.

2020-09-02T20:43:33+00:00

Women never invalidated my uncomfortable experiences with men. Men did.

mrspinster · 2020-09-02T20:48:14+00:00

This made me tear up bc I really feel it.

ScallionOk958 · 2020-09-02T23:05:33+00:00

Who else here has had relatives hit on them? I know I have and they certainly weren’t female!

Partyavoider29 · 2020-09-03T00:34:57+00:00

Accountability is not hatred.

Saitschik · 2020-09-03T00:17:52+00:00

For their selfishness and lack of love and empathy.

Thenightsaresolong_ · 2020-09-02T23:53:01+00:00

I have had a woman grope me in public at a club... because she was trying to impress a man

adertina · 2020-09-03T00:07:59+00:00

9 and 10 cant relate 😔 but yeah even as a woman who dates women exclusively men have tried to pressure me into sex, sending nudes, get drunk, get high, make out with my girlfriend, have sex in front of them, get me to sexualize other women in grotesque ways that even though i do find women, even straight women sorry, sexually appealing to me and have fantasies it’s nothing like how they want me to talk about women for some reason. And I don’t carry around two cans of pepper spray bc I’m scared how my date is going to go, in fact ones for me the other is for her in case she doesn’t have one

fim_de_semana · 2020-09-02T18:28:30+00:00

I don’t hate men. I just believe men are emotionally stunted.

lival42 · 2020-09-02T19:44:53+00:00

What? I dunno, why do you hate sand spurs? Little pricks that only annoy.

saydeesalt · 2020-09-03T02:01:53+00:00

I hate that men who can have some self reflection and emotion are called metro or gay. This is what females would refer to as... normal thoughts and feelings?

sentinelsexy · 2020-09-03T17:28:57+00:00

Wow, this really blew up. Thank you all for the support ❤

VivaLaSea · 2020-09-03T05:07:24+00:00

Female what???? Female is an adjective, the correct word is WOMAN.

Only LVM refer to women as females since it's more tame than bitches.

thatboyaintright0 · 2020-09-02T22:47:20+00:00

We dont hate men, we just hate being a victim.

"Why do you hate men?"

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Title	"Why do you hate men?"
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Date	September 2, 2020 6:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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