Dear Boys…oh wait…nothing for boys.

Lalulale · 2022-10-02T17:55:37+00:00

Dear male students you are not toxic.

Would have been a good one.

Double_A_92 · 2022-10-02T20:19:05+00:00

The Latino and Muslim ones would make me uncomfortable... because it implies that everyone else is calling me a terrorist just because I'm a muslim?

duhhhh · 2022-10-02T17:49:05+00:00

There is a message there for boys ...

Dear Boys,

You do not matter.

Your life is ugly and you are not allowed to expand past gender roles.

You are rapists and drug dealers.

You terrorize by your presence.

Women can grab you without repercussions.

In this classroom there are strict boundaries for you.

b11734 · 2022-10-02T21:35:19+00:00

I consider this actively discriminatory and highly offensive. It is intentionally provocative and demeans our boys and young men. This teacher should be fired.

Snoo_2853 · 2022-10-02T18:10:13+00:00

In this classroom there are no walls...... are they serious?

AGpls · 2022-10-02T18:16:31+00:00

Dear male students,

Fuck you. We dont care about you

randomguy7277 · 2022-10-02T18:11:03+00:00

excuse my language in this comment here mates.

Shit like this really grinds my gears. How often are the boys of our countries literally LOOKED OVER like they are fuckin GHOSTS.

Mental health needs? Boys don’t cry.

Got hurt on the playground? Toughen up

Teacher touch you inappropriately? Your lucky!

Acting out, problem home? Boys will be boys!

Kicked in the balls? Haha so funny!

Genitalia mutilated? Wow it looks so good! God is great!

Buy first car at 16? Pay more for insurance, because penis.

And the list goes on

Complain or bring awareness about any of these things? Your a toxic masculinity fueled incel!

gckman915 · 2022-10-02T18:32:48+00:00

Dear Boys, stay strong because society and humanity depend on you. Without you it will all fall apart in a day. You are humanity's future.

EvidencePlz · 2022-10-02T18:51:27+00:00

Dear male students,

You don't matter and we don't give a shit about you. But we magically start caring about you the moment a war breaks out and we need you to go to war and protect our "strong and independent modern enlightened women" from getting raped in the butthole by our enemies, or when we need you to rescue our women, children and elderly parents from burning buildings.

Bound-Submissive · 2022-10-02T19:29:52+00:00

Well, what a misandry.

But here is one, who you deserve:

Dear men,

Your emotions and issues matter.

You don't deserve to be villainized.

You deserve support, empathy and kindness.

You deserve society to pay attention to the ignored discrimination against you.

You deserve marginalizing against you to be ceased.

You deserve to have the power to abolish poison feminism.

You deserve a good life to your standards.

psycobillycadillac · 2022-10-02T23:10:58+00:00

My guess is the teacher has blue hair and an ass that looks like a bag of wet laundry.

Training-Rich5057 · 2022-10-02T23:17:21+00:00

Pathetic Pandering.

Outrageousirish · 2022-10-03T00:45:30+00:00

How to be racist without looking racist

jomagana18 · 2022-10-03T00:20:29+00:00

I’m just relieved it doesn’t say “Latinx”

Potential-Mountain61 · 2022-10-03T01:27:45+00:00

I now identify as a undocumented latino female who is LGTBQIA2S+(all of them).

StarCultiniser · 2022-10-03T01:51:55+00:00

It's mens fault that they dont get support

- The teacher probably

SvenAERTS · 2022-10-03T02:24:05+00:00

There's big studies on what % of women are raped but they all let it hang what % of men are rapist. Guess both % -es...

Army-jacket1916 · 2022-10-02T21:49:31+00:00

Wtf is this trash I never had this when I was in school

rainbow_bro_bot · 2022-10-02T20:27:36+00:00

"Dear boys: You are not toxic sex offender violent deadbeat dads and you aren't responsible for anyone who is. Your life matters as much as anyone else's."

In an alternate universe.

Parking_Fill_2280 · 2022-10-02T22:58:09+00:00

Dear White Men: You are not white supremacists. There I fixed it.

-vwv- · 2022-10-02T18:37:13+00:00

Dear Boys,

You better pay for all of this.

2wicky · 2022-10-03T01:36:08+00:00

Be glad that boys are not included. While probably well intentioned, most of these messages are awful.
While trying imply the classroom is a safe space, it's actually re-enforcing the idea that all these stereotypes and biases do apply outside of the school walls.

Like Black students... your life only matters when you're in this classroom. But once you leave the school, you go back to being a second tier citizen. How is this helping their wellbeing?
Or Latino boys.. unlike your brothers, you're not going to be a rapist or drug dealer.

The LGBTQ+ is probably the only one that has a positive message, but maybe it's because the other ones are so bad.

TheManlySebby · 2022-10-03T05:14:50+00:00

Damn, I would've loved to see a

"Dear boys, you are NOT weak for showing emotions."

Or something similar relating to psychology things boys can go through

_BlueShark87 · 2022-10-02T19:48:36+00:00

THEY FORGOT ASIANS. We don’t matter.😭😭 is this an actual poster because that’s a MAJOR oversight.

want-to-say-this · 2022-10-02T20:01:22+00:00

Can we find the classroom and complain. Let’s take action. Internet do your thing. Trace it backwards to source and let’s protest the teacher. Complaining does nothing.

Brownslogservice · 2022-10-03T01:40:59+00:00

Im just going to say im at least grateful they said Latino (a) instead of the cringe Latinx

vwatchrepair · 2022-10-02T22:01:41+00:00

I'll take, How to divide your students with political BS, for $800 Alex.

Throwawayyacc22 · 2022-10-02T21:01:21+00:00

IF thus was accurate there would be one for guys.

“Dear boys, you are literally the backbone of the country and without hard working men our country would fall within 48 hours”

awhatfor · 2022-10-03T00:54:44+00:00

this must be a joke, its even offensive...

CommissarSteel56 · 2022-10-02T21:01:37+00:00

I want to ask everyone here. If you could make a sign for the boys,the Asians, or any group they left out in the school what would you tell them to lift their spirits?

Here is what I would say.

Dear Boys,

The future you want is yours to create.

Dear Asians,

The only expectations that you need to meet are the ones you set.

Halobruhv · 2022-10-02T23:50:18+00:00

You know a white savior wrote that shit. Thank god they didn't say Latinx tho.

wooter99 · 2022-10-02T20:05:46+00:00

How do they know none of the Latinx students aren’t rapsists, if someone happened to be raped by one isn’t that likley to make them feel like they can’t report it ?

Also, aren’t they supposed to use Latinx I’m woke 2022 ?

vanduychr · 2022-10-02T23:41:12+00:00

this so called patriarchy looks a little odd. I admit our history is hard against minorities and women but what about them men and boys of today. this is a classroom, if this was my class i would feel completely worthless. we talk about men needing to open up but based on this nobody cares.

A69dupere · 2022-10-03T02:48:06+00:00

Fucking typical propaganda

VileHistory · 2022-10-03T07:00:12+00:00

Dear men, YoU aRe MiSoGynIsTiC pIgS

ReasonVision · 2022-10-03T09:33:21+00:00

"Dear Undocumented students, in this classroom, there are no walls".

Paper proceeds to fall on the ground.

B1uefalc0n · 2022-10-03T09:34:55+00:00

Dear Boys,

Its ok to express your feelings. You are a Man regardless of how well you can fix something or hide your emotions. You exist to be more than someones wallet, protector or handyman.

PonderingMan33 · 2022-10-03T11:08:57+00:00

For the rest there are rules by Jordan Peterson.

VSMSusi · 2022-10-03T13:15:47+00:00

Where Is The Sign For Boys And Straight People?

TheeBattleMedic · 2022-10-03T00:11:22+00:00

I’m Hispanic (Honduran) and the R*pist and drug dealers is talking about ms13 and coyote gangs. Personally all of it is stupid, fake social rules, so being born a gender facing different experiences on how people view you is social rules.

The idea that men are stronger is viewed as fake but men have larger lungs, overall lots more muscle mass, taller, thicker. Bone density which leads women to have more bone conditions. The fact that a mother is overall more vulnerable especially during pregnancy and after would lead men to protect their women through everything. But nope men bad, only women, children and LGBTQIA+?\£<¥ are beautiful, cause fuck men but trans men deal with oppression and fake social rules. For me I don’t think a girl can truly know what a man goes through in life, the same way a man can’t truly understand what a woman goes through. Idc if someone’s trans be what you want but doesn’t change biology, your still far more likely to get a bone disease, while a man is more likely to get prostate cancer.

What I don’t like about trans ppl or gay men is when they are or identify as men but hate and shit on men. Then why be it, and gay men they love men but shit on them. The logic doesn’t make sense(and I know they’d say the problem is cis white men idc a man is a man) overall for those who hate men but want to be one, hating is the furtherest thing from understanding and being. I don’t hate women or anyone( just find people don’t usually make sense, lots of double standards that people choose to ignore) I think hating women is as stupid as hating men. And they should have put something like dear men, your are not a r*pist, killer, abuser, you aren’t toxic, your life matter.

Yowilkat · 2022-10-03T13:28:10+00:00

Dear boys, youre not invisible. Keep on keeping on.

HaelenHaagen · 2022-10-03T13:34:43+00:00

what a simplistic lame view of the world to tell to the youth

QnsConcrete · 2022-10-03T16:39:53+00:00

Your life is beautiful

I never understood why people use the term “beautiful” as a blanket statement. Unfortunate reality is that not everyone is beautiful, physically or otherwise. Cheapens the term.

Jeffrey Dahmer was a LGBTQ+ student too.

kireol · 2022-10-02T23:40:28+00:00

Grooming all the children to hate and separate themselves from one another. And our tax dollars are paying for it.

Sandwhale123 · 2022-10-03T01:21:33+00:00

Well they at least have latinos, only because they're minorities. I say they are more racist for mentioning stereotypes

crz8956 · 2022-10-03T06:38:36+00:00

They understand that, from the CEO perspective they just reinforce stereotypes?

Thomjones · 2022-10-03T18:30:38+00:00

I mean I'm all for representing the under represented (notice not a damn thing for Asian or native American) but females aren't underrepresented. I mean if you're going to do females you might as well do males too. Men get everything handed to them....funny how women who say that are usually the ones that get handed stuff like expecting men to pay for dinner.

instaface · 2022-10-03T12:18:15+00:00

This liberal nonsense exists in most public schools. It's exactly why we homeschool

GoodeBoi · 2022-10-03T14:01:44+00:00

This some The Office type shit bro

Glennus626 · 2022-10-03T16:20:12+00:00

Dear undocumented residents, in this classroom there are no walls. -posted on one of the four walls of the room

Blockstr_ · 2022-10-03T17:08:12+00:00

What about Jewish students? Nobody gives a shit about the stereotypes of Jews

reverbiscrap · 2022-10-04T13:16:16+00:00

A BLM message?

Honestly, screams 'clueless white person wrote this'. ADOS people finally recognized BLM is a scam organization and turned their backs to it.

Someguy14201 · 2022-10-03T01:36:11+00:00

dunno why y'all are angry over a missing note about "boys" when this entire thing is stupid af, and is also ironically racist.

Miserable_Storm4080 · 2022-10-02T21:24:25+00:00

Just a genuine question to try and understand something I wouldn’t know as a female but what is something that men need reassurance for that you would put on the wall in this scenario?

Edit: Doesn’t makes sense that a woman is trying to literally understand what you need and you’re downvoting it. You can’t ask to be seen and then shoot down someone that is trying to see you.

martinbv95 · 2022-10-03T10:17:06+00:00

'Dear Boys, we don't all hate you. We're just interested in social issues'

Alpha-Vader1 · 2022-10-03T14:49:33+00:00

Do boys need it? We can just tell them at home that we are proud of them and that they are not toxic.

A piece of paper like this would not break their mentality if It didn't.

BarryHalls · 2022-10-03T01:00:52+00:00

Dear white males students, you are the reason for all of these bigoted-antibigotrt posts.

Title	Dear Boys…oh wait…nothing for boys.
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Date	October 2, 2022 5:28 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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