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szarnyaskezuszeretok · 2021-07-15T11:52:48+00:00

Removed from r/unpopularopinion in 15 minutes for "mgtow post" ♿

LoFiGai · 2021-07-15T12:37:09+00:00

Some of these things in the thumbnail are fine, but let's be honest thats not a good representation of the true shit storm that FDS is

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-07-15T11:42:34+00:00

It should at the very least get the same treatment that the MGTOW sub gets.

gratis_eekhoorn · 2021-07-15T12:35:56+00:00

that's only the tip of iceberg lol they literally call males as ''scrotes''

bedgasm_for_one · 2021-07-15T14:03:20+00:00

My issues is that some females don't hold some of these standards for themselves. "Must have the basics: job, own place, must be able to support themselves". Like why would these things matter if you you have these things for yourself, UNLESS you don't have these for yourself and want to mooch off someone else.

alexzyczia · 2021-07-15T13:25:37+00:00

I was banned from there and I didn’t even participate in the sub. I’m a female too.

BrianGossling · 2021-07-15T15:10:01+00:00

If you don't orgasm from PIV sex, it's actually a normal thing and can be due to several factors - small penis being absolutely not one of them. Source - Am Doctor.

Mantequilla_Stotch · 2021-07-15T12:51:21+00:00

When I met my wife I was riding a bicycle because I didn't drive due to a dui. I was making like $900 a month working at the YMCA as a lifeguard. I had some pot head room mates. It's been almost 5 years.. I am now making 50k a year as a GM and we own our own place, I take her on vacations, etc.

Some of those standards are bs and a lot of women would miss out on someone who has a lot of potential.

Coochieeater456 · 2021-07-15T14:21:48+00:00

Ever notice everyone in that sub is single, it explains a lot

TigPlaze · 2021-07-15T14:58:14+00:00

I'm glad FDS exists and don't want to see it banned. It exposes how rotten and despicable some women's behavior can be. The women at FDS are disgusting users who go after men to use them for their money, not giving a damn who he is as a human being. We've long known that some men exploit women for sex without caring about them. People have been reluctant to believe, however, that similar women exist. The FDS women are predators. They only care about themselves and about extracting maximum benefit from wealthy men. It's a huge warning to men. Women are not the fairer sex. They're every bit as capable of being ruthless and cruel as the very worst men are.

throwingaway_1992 · 2021-07-15T13:00:34+00:00

Check their user overlaps: DatingOverForty, cptsd, survivinginfidelity, childfree, adhd... They are talking out of resentment.

https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/femaledatingstrategy

lordNihilius · 2021-07-15T14:39:50+00:00

What I have learned is, Reddit or that subreddit that is against 'hate subreddits' won't do anything about it , just ignore it as it probably won't affect you in real life. if you wanna look on the bright side, feminist subreddits don't support it, so at least they are on everyone's red list.

Timo_Ike · 2021-07-15T15:08:51+00:00

If only these femcel subreddits got treated like the incels they are

Moarde · 2021-07-15T14:45:19+00:00

I wonder who these females date IRL.

Also, for a dating strategy sub, I don't see alot of dating advice.

silly_little_jingle · 2021-07-15T15:10:12+00:00

Honestly what bothers me about it more so than the fact that it's a sub dedicated to taking advantage of and objectifying men as a tool for financial/physical gain- it's that if there was an identical sub with all the same shit but in reverse it'd be banned as a hate group and rightly so.

TracyMorganFreeman · 2021-07-15T14:05:40+00:00

I do love how they expect the other person to be able to manage conflict when they're a walking litany of conflict.

Complex_Experience83 · 2021-07-15T14:15:30+00:00

This is all fine if that’s what your standards and boundaries are but uphold them yourself. If men held themselves to these high standards too there would be no dating. Women can be such hypocrites. “Oh I deserve this or I deserve that” well I do too. So how about you get off your high horse and treat men how you want to be treated. After all they “deserve” it too.

killjoy_enigma · 2021-07-15T15:04:36+00:00

Lmao at banning books I can read. How does me reading philosophy make me bad? Thus spoke zarathustra slaps I don't know what they are on

UppedSolution77 · 2021-07-15T15:07:18+00:00

When I found that sub, it had 90 000 members. I can't believe more and more people are being indoctrinated into this misandrist, cruel and bigoted mentality.

You should post this to r/TrueUnpopularOpinion. I think there have been quite similar posts about the same thing in the last couple days or weeks, but the mods there seem to be cool and don't remove posts for stupid reasons. I'd upvote this post there too.

Steaky_B · 2021-07-15T12:35:13+00:00

In all honesty bro don't lose sleep over it or worry about it too much I guarantee you that all of those girls on that sub are extremely privileged and won't settle for anything less than a top 1% man who doesn't want them and when they hit 30-35 and realise they can't have kids anymore they'll either change their ways or latch onto the next man they can get their hands on and will use and divorce them. The best thing we can do is educate ourselves as much as possible to understand that women like this do exist and they are very common and we need to avoid them at all cost. In 20-30 years most of them will die out I promise you this because they'll realise their flaws eventually when they don't get what they want. As much as I want them gone from reddit and social media and existance it's better to just let them waste their breath man.

12inchbamboo · 2021-07-15T14:57:34+00:00

Don't worry about it.

Have your own standards.

Mine so far: 1. Not fat 2. No single mother. 3. Is not a dunderhead. 4. Must have a job, since I'm working. 5. Must be between 18-27 years.

These are my standards and I can bet my left nut that 60% of women in FDS can't meet them.

The solution, learn from them.. Be manipulative as them, feign interest in them to make your dick wet and disappear into the thickest forest nearby.

jinladen040 · 2021-07-15T13:55:39+00:00

Female Dating Strategy is mainly comprised of Hood Rats so i really wouldn't sweat it.

AlternativeMirror740 · 2021-07-15T15:21:39+00:00

I never understood why they even bother with dating men if they seem to hate them. I can see the hate clearly, they expect the men to be totally submissive to them, to provide everything to them no matter it is wealth, attention, status and protection. All at the expense of his own personal wellbeing even.

Why even date someone you hate? Someone you want to torture? But then again its FDS, nothing much from them ever made sense despite my efforts to comprehend what they say

VeteranOfDepression · 2021-07-15T16:20:51+00:00

ask those women what they'll give in a relationship other than "my attention" if a man gives money, a house, a job, care, etc. i bet you they'll just ban you without answering.

thestrucguyYT · 2021-07-15T16:14:36+00:00

I have been banned from r/offmychest 😂

Geeekus · 2021-07-15T15:36:35+00:00

I've never understood their hate for no last-minute dates. Last-minute random dates with my gf are some of the best memories we have.

scaredofshaka · 2021-07-15T14:32:34+00:00

Holly shit that book list looks great!! I'm gonna get a few of these. I love how having read Marcus Aurelius and Nietzsche makes you an incel :D

Frankly, these kinds of disclaimers are not all that bad. If a chick endorse that with no exception, it means that she is weak minded and boring, so probably not worth your time. If this is representative of a cultural trend, then so be it, and there is nothing better than transgression sex - which is what they used to do a hundred years ago.

Also I find it hilarious that feminism has now done a full revolution and is back to pushing traditional values (or gender normativity, to sound more modern), such as fewer sexual encounters, having a man that takes care of you etc.

The slaves will build their own mental prisons and lock themselves up in them. Good riddance.

EDIT: also, having your own house and being financially independent should be the goal of any guy out there! Set up your life the way you like it, and NEVER engage in a relationship that would award some of your goods to be taken away from you in case of a rupture. You have your own house and your own money, you get your hookups or your relationships, and if it has to stop, you still have your life intact. This is the best goal possible.

punkeddiemurphy · 2021-07-15T14:15:54+00:00

This post comes up as regular as EastEnders.

squincherella · 2021-07-15T14:12:23+00:00

"Must be in a career they enjoy" Wow. Sounds dreamy. This irks me....the "must". I'm a female....I love coffee/drive by dates, Netflix and chill, last minute dates-none of that is disrespectful to us! It's about the attitude you approach it with, and how you treat us before/after. I love bigger, more serious dates too. What's wrong with a mix? And wtf, most females I know with this type of mindset don't even have a career THEY enjoy. They don't have their own place or pay their own bills, oh, maybe they do, with the help of assistance, but the man is expected to be well off or they won't even look at him. He needs to be able to support them, because, you know, they can't support themselves. And no sex before commitment? As if women don't like sex too! Not saying you should just lower your standards and go fuck everyone right away, but shit I'm not gonna commit to someone I'm not sexually compatible with because that's going to ruin things for me eventually.

I really just want someone who respects me and other people, who wants to grow with me and we push each other to better each other....I got him and he's amazing.

He has money, I'm still struggling. He never lets me go without, but he doesn't just hand over his money either. He pushes me to work on creating my own business instead of just working a job, shows me how to be successful on my own. And that's what I want and what I need. Oh yea, we ended up having sex 3 hours after we met and been together since. But yea, I guess I shoulda stuck to these "rules".

Lui_Le_Diamond · 2021-07-15T14:21:34+00:00

FDS is a well known hate sub. Why Reddit hasn't banned them is because they're technically a feminist sub, even though even feminists hate them.

falldown010 · 2021-07-15T14:27:46+00:00

"A man who earns less than a woman is not a good match. Just look at what happened to Britney Spears!"

Look at all the miserable career women making 100k/90k+ who cant find a man who makes more than them. Lmao and they expect to meet someone when the top 1% is fucking multiple women,yeah right.

To make things worse,some of them will despise you for having a blue collar job or job she doesn't want to tell her friends about/she might even leave you for it if you don't get a better job. And don't even get me started on when she starts earning more and starts to sabotage the relationship.

Rifter0876 · 2021-07-15T14:35:19+00:00

They are a radicalized feminist hate sub, no idea why they are allowed they will ban you the second you post an opposing opinion instead of discussing their points.

JumpTurnstiles · 2021-07-15T16:45:41+00:00

Yup. Definitely a femcel echo chamber. The hypocrisy is unbelievable.

amwfhunter · 2021-07-15T11:43:57+00:00

This is no different than what male incels do with women. Honestly, if you ignore the narrative, no one will take these girls seriously unless they are actually attractive. If that was the case (they are attractive to men), they wouldn't need to be in fds.....but I agree they should ban that sub considering red pill subs are on quarantine etc. Total hypocrisy we live in.

yoitsericc · 2021-07-15T13:08:22+00:00

If you look at the crossover for subreddits, it's mostly women over 30 and 40 who can't keep a man and have been in a series of abusive relationships since they were in their 20's.

This is the reason they need a strategy - because they are offering men a bad deal. Otherwise they could just show up.

bibibihobp · 2021-07-15T15:05:06+00:00

They also have something they like to call the 666 rule. 6 inch dick, 6 figure salary, 6 feet tall. This is a set of extremely unrealistic standards for men, because all three characteristics are unrelated to each other. Their chances of finding a man with all three of these is extremely low to begin with, and all their other requirements simply lower their chances of finding anyone.

DreamTheaterGuy · 2021-07-15T15:45:28+00:00

"A man who earns less than a woman is not a good match. Just look at what happened to Britney Spears!"

It's amazing that they never hold THEMSELVES to this same standard.

okay_yyyy · 2021-07-15T16:32:44+00:00

That sub is a mess for many reasons, not only is it sexist but they also hate poly people. If you so much as mention you are polyamorous they will ban you no quetions asked.

thestrucguyYT · 2021-07-15T16:07:23+00:00

As a man who reads, I will try to read all these books as they seems really interesting to me but that subreddit is just horrifying. I stay from anyone who thinks like that (like the picture in the links).

CookedCritter · 2021-07-15T14:07:41+00:00

No Joe rogan 😂 don’t think I’ve ever heard him say anything bad about women but aight

ar1stocrat · 2021-07-15T14:20:05+00:00

Wow. Imagine not dating someone because they're emotionally, physically or financially unhealthy. It's almost like these women are shopping for a man. What happened to just falling in love?

And what man would want to date such a shallow woman? Imagine you have a bad week and you're SO says "no, the deal was that I dont have to comfort you"

Intrinsic__Value · 2021-07-15T13:36:22+00:00

I liked the original intent of the sub, which was to "focus on effective dating strategies for women". However, you'll find that most of the posts today have devolved into radical feminist drivel. Half of the posts are bashing men and are completely unrelated to dating. Half of them are probably closet lesbians.

ManofGod1000 · 2021-07-15T13:31:54+00:00

I decided to read a part of the post: Mastering the Ice Queen stare to keep loser pests away. The kicker is, that dude that she looked down upon could have been a rich dude that got tired of all the "women" that only wanted him for his money and did not care about him at all.

Basically, I am seeing a 40 something year old with many cats in her future.

DanteLivra · 2021-07-15T13:30:13+00:00

Reddit admins are a bunch of hypocrites and self-hating men.

thunderstorm-nigg · 2021-07-15T13:16:15+00:00

When I saw it first few months back I thought it was just joke or some troll sub or satire but boy I was wrong they're literally -200 iq sexists

NohoTwoPointOh · 2021-07-15T12:39:02+00:00

Banned? No way.

Men need to see exactly how they think, act and behave. Quarantined? I don't believe in most quarantines. But if parity is what we want (someone mentioned MGTOW), then fine.\

Nope. They think Men's Rights and MGTOW recruit other men. There is no need. Between life, and subs like FDS, a constant flow of the "spice" is guaranteed. I think every man should read and lurk for an idea of what a substantial group of women think about them.

"B-b-b-b-but ALL women aren't like them."

You're right. Absolutely so. I agree.

But I want you to do one thing. Take roll call of the women who stood up to them, denounced them here or on social media, defended men, and attacked FDS the way they attack this sub. Ask yourself a question. What percentage of women that you know or interact with have actively checked other women?

Most?

A lot?

Half?

A few?

Barely any? <-----#1 answer.

Men also need to see these things in contrast (or comparison) to who stands up for them. It's a real eye-opener, for sure. I think that lesbian women who "passed" as a man for a few weeks found it out in a brutal fashion.

The lesson is that men have few, if any true allies. It's a clear-cut example of "arm yourself because no one else here will save you"

miramaxe · 2021-07-15T16:03:09+00:00

I was banned from there when I defended men lol

phish7777 · 2021-07-15T16:38:29+00:00

I’ve lurked FDS for months now and am quite disappointed in how dehumanizing the rhetoric can be that comes from that subreddit. I understand the intent of that sub is to elevate how a women defines quality in relationship but it promotes unrealistic expectations of what a good significant other is. Instead of focusing on self improvement and reflection of what lead to unhealthy relationships in the past, it promotes these oversimplified definitions of what is and is not quality.

IMO, FDS is counterproductive to finding a significant other because it promotes this inferiority / superiority complex. If I found out my date was on FDS, I would leave immediately because it’s safe to assume they have an overinflated perception of self worth. At the end of the day, we are all equal. We all eat, shit, and bleed. I refuse to be with someone who thinks of themselves as a fucking monarch who is above their “scrote” significant other.

mw8912a · 2021-07-15T16:41:06+00:00

They can have fun staying single and miserable most of their lives.

RodDeWitt · 2021-07-15T17:20:42+00:00

Man, I'm so happy that somebody is speaking about it! I found that page yesterday with a sub that said that a men who only wants to spend 1,500 dollars on a marriage ring is not worth it and the amount of girls that was agreeing with this in the comments was insane. So I entered this sub and started to read all the misandric things, after reading like 15 titles I had enough and enter a sub about how girls cheats on "nice guys" with "bad guys, the topic was basically how that is just a lie created by men who cannot get girls and blame them instead of change, so i writed my personal history about how my ex girlfriend cheated on me after 3 years with a drug seller who only used her for sex and liked to punch her, even after I give her emotional and economic support, a lot of love, fidelity, compromise, respect and other things. They were so angry that somebody wasn't agreed with them (especially a man) and started to blame me for not being enough man for my ex (WTF?!) and finally they downvoted my comment to hell, I was so frustrated. They only accept her own commentarys and theories: "men bad, women nice, women are victims, blame the patriarchy"

alistarsalk · 2021-07-15T17:23:43+00:00

The existence and frequent usage of the term "high value males" should tell you everything you need to know about FDS.

Lyradew · 2021-07-15T13:09:52+00:00

I've seen the sub before. And I've seen some odd things. I don't have a lot of proof though, I'll have to take a while since they were old posts from feb.

There was this post they crossposted saying,"find a woman who understands you." the comments kept mentioning, if they say 'find a man who understands you' everyone would get pissed and misogynic. And many comments actually went against men and called them scrotes.

Another post, on women's day, is of how every man is bad/misogynic/rapist but on women's day they act all nice to women. Biggest bullshit I've seen.

I'm completely happy with a sub that allows women to help in their dating life. Very helpful. But the subreddit is in complete ruins.

insomniachere · 2021-07-15T12:40:15+00:00

Do we have subs like this, where we can bitch about women or something like that?

Sergey32321 · 2021-07-15T13:18:59+00:00

"Probably", ABSOLUTELY. They banned peaceful subs like MGTOW, this is far worse

fossacecak · 2021-07-15T16:19:01+00:00

I recently found this sub and have been reading a lot on here to get a better understanding of how life is for men. I’ve followed the FDS sub for a while, and have been able to cherry pick a lot of good information / advice from it. I did have to use discernment to filter out what seemed toxic and hateful.

The sub overall helped me look at myself and why I was attracting men into my life who were hurting me. Not that it’s owed all to that sub, but I’m in the healthiest and most amazing relationship now. I apply some of the things I’ve learned there to my career as well.

Like someone already said, a lot of the women posting are ones who have just been hurt and are in there as a form of support, and talking to other hurt women, some move on and heal and others double-down and fall into a rut of thinking all men suck (even though deep down they want love from men).

Overall, it’s not a bad sub, and it should not be banned. But there is some toxicity there.

Driftwood52 · 2021-07-15T13:01:32+00:00

Yes it's a horrible man hating space but in the name of freedom of speech, let's hear it so that all the above opinions can be seen and heard. This is reality baby, don't hide under the covers. Listen to what those women think so that we can leave them alone and walk away. The less we reproduce, the better it is for the planet.

GullibleAirport732 · 2021-07-15T12:54:37+00:00

For the love of God, avoid that sub for the sake of your own mental health. I cried myself to sleep after I read thread upon thread of relentless body shaming of men over height and penis size. It's very dehumanizing in nature. I haven't even opened that sub afterwards. Just too much for my mental health Edit: And they're NOT femcels for God's sake. I've read many posts from that sub. A lot of them are attractive women who can easily get sex. They're just very hateful and spiteful people

No-Growth-8155 · 2021-07-15T12:17:03+00:00

Absolutely. It is a good laugh though. I think it must be a small few who are bitter. Still dodgy though.

EvolvingMan1994 · 2021-07-15T13:45:38+00:00

These imbecile women who propagate or follow this trash will never land a Man of value, at least not any Man with dignity or leadership.

It's at beast an echo chamber for modern women who are grossly delusional and high in redundant notions of dating and mating.

They are best left alone, of course any well-planned attempts to permanently ban that garbage of a Subredddit are always welcome but in the end, those despicable women over there want a worthwhile Man in the real world, and I go back to my first statement, that's not gonna happen, instances of 'Simps' surrendering to these women for selective intimacy and occasional sex notwithstanding.

JayJayWise · 2021-07-15T14:27:15+00:00

brb gunna go read those books they said were red flags

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bahoicamataru · 2021-07-15T16:06:06+00:00

what the fuck is wrong with the new encyclopedia of modern bodybuilding??

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CPT_JUGGERNAUT · 2021-07-15T15:48:33+00:00

Who cares don't ban shit that's a beta billy move. They are braindead over there but whatever.

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Sirtubb · 2021-07-15T14:40:36+00:00

much like the pick up community for men there are lessons to be learned and pitfalls and weirdos to avoid I guess

PoloniumIcedTea · 2021-07-15T15:35:17+00:00

Nice of them to compile that reading list for us though

Edit: And a youtube channel list! Can we get this in the sidebar?

Senarin21 · 2021-07-15T14:02:22+00:00

If you think this is bad you should check out the absolute cringe that is r/witchesvsthepatriarchy

redFenning22 · 2021-07-15T15:02:39+00:00

The delusional n on that aub is my personal source of comedy gold 👌👌👌

throwawaybear61 · 2021-07-15T13:40:50+00:00

I’ve thought a lot about this and yes, Feminine Deodorant Spray (a real product, I wonder if they knew that?) or fds should be banned for their hate speech like any other sub would. But it serves a real purpose upon reflection.

It is a place where all the terminally useless, undateable 300-400 pound, Walmart cruising, tacito and cheap hot dog slamming, big gulp drainers can gather. Kind of like cows in a field. If they are all over there circle-jerk-hating on men, the number of these beefarilloes loose elsewhere is curtailed. Maybe we should think of it as a mental salt lick for the cattle of Reddit?

Live_Operation2420 · 2021-07-15T15:47:03+00:00

I was banned from there because i talked about how my husband and i met in a bar, he has made less money than me (im not working atm) and he doesnt do extravagant because i HONESTLY like simple. And weve been together for 10 years. Hes my best friend and number one teammate.

By all fds standards he is a "low value man". But those women crave what we have....... i told them theyd never find it with an fds mindset.

Im no feminist. I support mens rights. My husband and i are equals.

Their ideas are setting the VALID womens rights believers back by an immeasurable amount.

Weekday_Warrior · 2021-07-15T14:50:35+00:00

These women and the über hardcore redpillers were made for each other

UltimaterializerX · 2021-07-15T13:44:36+00:00

https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/femaledatingstrategy

cristoZz_ · 2021-07-15T17:47:41+00:00

Removed?

Dunkolunko · 2021-07-15T12:46:19+00:00

There is (almost) no such thing as a femcel. Save for the absurdly physically and mentally handicapped. These women who "can't find a man" reject more perfectly decent guys than you can imagine, because they want a slave.

costyksimpatic · 2021-07-15T13:28:31+00:00

Yeah, that’s not asking for a lot at all lol Pff, what’s with all the high standards?

YesAmAThrowaway · 2021-07-15T16:16:19+00:00

I've seen most staunch feminists condemn that sub (because there is always nuance). Reddit won't ever ban it as they have publicly stated that their rules meant to protect users don't apply to men, especially if they're cishet white because hurrdurr privilege just deal with it man up or something.

Doctor_Mudshark · 2021-07-15T13:43:38+00:00

You're not enjoying the other side of the coin?

billyflynnn · 2021-07-15T16:17:11+00:00

It wasn’t too bad until I read the standards.

SirBlankFace · 2021-07-15T16:41:41+00:00

No need for gendered language like "Femcel". Incel is a defined term that used to refer to women until it was appropriated to refer only to men. Women can be incels too.

LateralThinker13 · 2021-07-15T13:43:30+00:00

Censorship is never the answer. Better that the world can see this behavior.

Failing that, at least hold them to the same standards.

DavidByron2 · 2021-07-15T16:30:49+00:00

This is just dating angst. Not relevant here.

Unless you bring in some institutional or feminist basis. Such as Reddit admins not banning it when they ban similar subs aimed at male subscribers or something. Even that would be dull.

It's not a case of civil rights every time someone gets angry with someone else on line.

wrekd · 2021-07-15T13:39:42+00:00

Calling for bans will always be retarded.

jimmytickles · 2021-07-16T01:09:27+00:00

So there's some crazy stuff over there, but I cant find anything wrong with this. It's pretty rational.

Cacoomba · 2021-07-15T13:02:48+00:00

Lol, just women MGTOW

timissick · 2021-07-15T13:06:38+00:00

It's the exact same as this site. Except for women.

carneadovadaaddict · 2021-07-15T16:39:11+00:00

Misandry isn't a thing you cucks

chadan1008 · 2021-07-15T16:51:44+00:00

Yeah idk, it actually reminds me a lot of this sub. A lot of sexism when you really look into it but sometimes you’ll see posts in r/all with good points.

iLoveReddit32 · 2021-07-15T15:47:23+00:00

You guys in r/mensrights posting about this and bitching about it is just as bad as their posts. And I’m a straight dude.

You guys need to get off this subreddit and go touch grass.

shaungudgud · 2021-07-15T15:49:14+00:00

It’s the same as mensrights activist. A group of people who have been hurt somehow and are trying to take there rage into the world.

Morrighan1129 · 2021-07-15T16:18:07+00:00

To be fair, this isn't only a 'feminist' issue, it's an issue of a larger part of what's wrong in the world today.

If you want to be a with a dude who's still living with his parents? Living in an apartment? Has a house with roommates? None of my business. You want to split the bill 50/50, or he pays for it always, or she pays for it always? None of my business. Want to have a big princess wedding, small wedding, or no wedding at all?

None. Of. My. Business.

I learned this the hard way. I used to criticize my in-laws, because after working a hard day at construction, my father-in-law would come home, and make dinner -even if my mother-in-law, who worked as a secretary, got home first. And that always bothered me. Like, why couldn't she make dinner?

Years later -after I'd gotten divorced -I asked my (now) ex-mother-in-law about it. And she just rolled her eyes, chuckling, and said, "(FIL) loves to cook; it's how he unwinds after work. God forbid I unwind like that."

It works for them. It's not harming me. If a relationship works for the couple involved, then no one outside needs to concern themselves with it.

lomar24 · 2021-07-15T15:16:18+00:00

A lot of your descriptions for those links are misrepresentative - just saying

fonzwazhere · 2021-07-15T13:02:05+00:00

This is a great strategy for men to find women worth dating too!

aetherjunkie · 2021-07-15T13:05:35+00:00

No “probably” about it.

ausie_swazi_love · 2021-07-15T13:52:49+00:00

Lol righto m8. This will be controversial but banning subs is folly

camknight15 · 2021-07-15T14:24:35+00:00

For just a single second, I thought this post was from r/againsthatesubreddits and thought, “times truly are changing”, but then I looked again and realized I was mistaken

pulpedid · 2021-07-15T19:08:17+00:00

No..... just plain no. Let them be

Title	r‎/F‎emaleDat‎ingStrategy is a m‎anipulative, mis‎andrist fe‎mc‎el ech‎o c‎hamb‎er and should p‎robably b‎e ban‎ned
Author	szarnyaskezuszeretok
Upvotes	1117
Comments	334
Date	July 15, 2021 11:35 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/okr0zc/rfemaledatingstrategy_is_a_manipulative/
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