I argue that the narrative claiming that men nowadays can't attract women because feminism has caused women to raise their standards to high, is incorrect and goes against historical data on mating trends. According to genetic studies historically during times of extreme patriarchies around 40-60% of men never had offspring while most women did. While this fact focuses on reproduction it is safe to assume that men who didn't reproduce most likely also never got to experience having sexual intercourse with women either since in those past patriarchal societies most women would have been under the control of a select few powerful men who owned all the the resources.

Nowadays, demographers estimate that the number of men who don't reproduce is at around 15-25% for men living in in developed countries. While that still might seem high it contradicts the narrative that men these days have a harder time finding a partner because of feminism and woke culture. If that were true we'd expect to see an increase in non-reproducing men not a decrease.

In addiction cultural norms around non-marital sex have changed implying that the number of men who go there whole lives without ever even having sexual intercourse even once is much lower now with feminism than it was in the past.

In conclusion dating there is no evidence that feminism is to blame for men's dating problems