I actually believe that the manosphere is right when it comes to female hypergamy and the sexual deficit average and below men face, but I dont think demonising women for having those standards will do much, even if it isn't fair.

Like many blackpillers, I believe self improvement can only go so far if youre below 6 foot or have a behaviourial predisposition to beta male tendencies, mental health problems or youre a low IQ dude. The rising proportion of undesirable sexless and relationship starved men should realise that in another time period or in a pre service economy/patriarchal world , they would have found unenthusiastic mates they could control. But now that women are free and can choose who they want to marry and fuck, theyll just have to face that they are somewhat obsolete.

The MRAs and the manosphere's main purpose when it comes to these SMP/RMP rejects is not to demonise women for practicing their choice or to elevate the mediocre, who dont add much value to the lives of women.

But to teach these men how live with their romantic solitude and to see women as platonic friends instead of potential sexual conquests that will only elicit frustration for these men.

Theres no point in fighting female nature. Just as women had to suppress their hypergamy and sexual impulses when the gender power balance favoured the average man, because the economy ran on the juices of beta males sweat, blood and tears and women were dependant on mens labour for their survival. Men have to realise that they are living in a world where women have power and can exercise their agency to the detriment of low value and average men sexual imperative. There was nothing fair about the previous gender contract if you were a woman, so why would women care if things aren't fair today for most men?

The great MRA dating problem of the 21st century is going to be creating a new non sexual social role for the growing proportion of undesirable men, not to go back to a time when women didnt have full sexual agency and rights.