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K7LIANMBAPPE · 2022-12-24T00:22:53+00:00

I'm a 21 year old guy, my count is 40, give or take 3....

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Why would a woman who values sex for love want to be with you, someone who thinks sex is meaningless? Men with high N counts are guaranteed cheaters.

Women have random hookups online or FWBs and keep them discreet all the time. I don't tell my female friends about my sex life because it's none of their fucking business. It's absolutely hilarious that you think the fact that a woman who's had 2 boyfriends means she's only had sex with 2 men in her entire life. You fucking idiot redpillers want low N count women but you expect sex within 3 measly dates. It's pretty to fuck 10 people by age 25 if you expect sex in 3 dates which is normal these days.

I stand by my statement that you can't know anyone's N count with any accuracy unless they tell you personally.

You can get a woman who only has sex with guys she is dating

So it's OK if women have sex on date 1? "Dating" is a loose term these days.

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Im starting to question if you actually are a woman. I also think its pretty obvious you dont have any friends.

I am a woman and I do have friends. None of my friends know the details of my sex life. I have NEVER asked any of my female friends "How many dicks have you touched in your entire life???". Who the fuck sits around talking about this shit? You. You do.

You're the weird one for being sperging out over N counts. So attractive in men, let me tell you.

why does this upset you so much? men dont wanna date you?

So am I a woman or not? I have no problem attracting GOOD men (meaning they treat me with respect, not what redpillers think are good men).

I'm upset because you're full of bullshit and you're a disgusting hypocrite. "I have triple digits but I demand a virgin or close!" It's hilarious that you think you're fit for a relationship.

Obviously sex means nothing to you, you get bored of having sex with the same woman (no one gets triple digits by being a monogamist), you probably have diseases and I bet you've cheated at few times. You're not husband material.

Why do redpillers pretend that promiscuous men make good partners? Literally everything you say about slutty women can be applied just the same to slutty men: diseased, get bored easily, cheat more, aren't loyal, etc. but y'all get sooooooo pressed when women say it.

I've had promiscuous men ask me out on dates and I ALWAYS reject them because I assume they only want sex and they will cheat on me sooner or later.

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I don't deliberately count partners because it's not about keeping a tally to me. In this subreddit I'd have to go through every date of my life and find out if what we did together constitutes a number for my n-count. A lot of people don't count a girl receiving oral or handjobs for people with dicks which is so odd. I could go on a hundred dates when I'm on the apps and might not even kiss any of them.

I don't keep track/differentiate between different types of intimacy once it goes beyond kissing.

Almost every time I ask for clarification people will say not to count women partners or men who I didn't have intercourse with or sexual climaxes from nipple stimulation. They don't count manual stimulation or orgasmic sessions that don't involve the dick, et cetera. Many also don't count partners who give oral to women as n-count if they didn't use their dick at some point.

And the disabled not counting as sex is just ableist and weird.

Agreed! But that's what we're dealing with all too often in these threads.

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I'm gonna have to ask OP as well, but I've never known anyone with that kind of body count. And I'm talking about guys and girls who went to party schools and drank every weekend. You're gonna have to make a post or smth.

Like what kind of school is this? Where at? You in a frat? Where do you meet these girls? Do you have no standards? Do you just ask everything with a pulse to have sex point blank? Are you studying art history? Are you a drug dealer? D1 athlete? How often do you get rejected? How do you not get a bad reputation? Any prostitutes? Are you a prostitute?

Nearly 100 girls in a year is like 2 girls every week, but school is only in session 9 months out of the year, so that's more like 3 girls a week. I know dudes who graduated with 0 who weren't even in STEM and given what we see on this sub and the media there's gotta be something you're doing consistently right that most guys aren't.

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Like what kind of school is this?

I go to Western which is pretty universally accepted as THE party school in Canada.

You in a frat?

That doesn't help as much as you think, at least not at my school.

Where do you meet these girls?

Bars, clubs, dorm, friends of friends.

Do you have no standards?

I've only ever fucked one girl that I genuinely found unattractive, and it was during a horrendous dry spell and she was a catfish. Showed up to my door a good 30 pounds heavier than she looked on Tinder or snap. Good head tho. Few mids, but I'd say of the roughly 40, at least 33 were 6/10 or better.

D1 athlete?

No but I look it and might walk on to the football team. Used to play soccer at a fairly high level.

How often do you get rejected?

Depends how you define rejection. Approach a girl and she flat out says no, stonewalls me, walks away etc? Maybe 5 in 100? As far as being able to get her in bed the same night, that depends on so many factors beyond the initial interest.

How do you not get a bad reputation?

Having a high count is not a bad rep if the girls are generally good-looking. Girls will put their guard up, but that's easily surmountable if you're willing to put in the effort, which I only am when the girl is top-tier. I've had girls who are 6s get "mad" at me after they find out I fucked some girl they know, and I just stop talking to them lmao. "You thought I was feeling you?"

Any prostitutes?

Never, wouldn't be able to respect myself

Nearly 100 girls in a year is like 2 girls every week

If you go out 4-5 nights a week and are really determined to fuck, that's very easy. There are nights where I go out and I'm like "I'm having sex tonight." I've never failed to have sex when I REALLY want to. This guy's count of 180+ is impressive to me because I'm shocked he isn't burnt out.

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party school in Canada.

So you're not in the hellhole that is the states

That doesn't help as much as you think, at least not at my school.

Frats are a big deal in the states. Most partying in the US (especially where attractive dtf girls are and the ratios are gatekept in the favor of men) is monopolized by them.

Basically if you're not in a frat, you're likely doomed to parties where the alcohol runs out and there's dozens of guys for every girl.

Bars, clubs, dorm, friends of friends.

Since you're in Canada that means that you can start clubbing at 18 right? In the states most people aren't old enough to go out to drink until the last year or two of college. This increases the popularity of Frats since they provide an alternative for partying.

Showed up to my door a good 30 pounds heavier than she looked on Tinder or snap.

If I hide a nickel for every time I heard this one...

Approach a girl and she flat out says no, stonewalls me, walks away etc? Maybe 5 in 100?

So you think you can pull 95% of women you meet?

Having a high count is not a bad rep if the girls are generally good-looking.

Not the high n count, but the reputation for approaching that many girls. At least from what I've seen, if a guy talks to a lot of girls and gets rejected by most of those girls then the reputation sticks with him in a bad way.

If you go out 4-5 nights a week and are really determined to fuck, that's very easy. There are nights where I go out and I'm like "I'm having sex tonight." I've never failed to have sex when I REALLY want to. This guy's count of 180+ is impressive to me because I'm shocked he isn't burnt out.

So if anything I can take away from you and the other guy if you want to get around is

1) Live in a big city or college town

2) Make getting laid your mission

3) Don't live in the US?

How are the gender ratios in Canada? Most of the time in the states (at least some parts) you can go out and see virtually no girls at all, let alone good looking ones.

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So you're not in the hellhole that is the states

Funny enough I actually want to move there lmao

Frats are a big deal in the states. Most partying in the US (especially where attractive dtf girls are and the ratios are gatekept in the favor of men) is monopolized by them.

Tbf there are attractive DTF girls at frat parties here too, they're just all massive whores. Girls who aren't whores are not DTF, or don't go at all and just have a better night at a bar where they get free drinks and aren't jammed in like sardines.

Since you're in Canada that means that you can start clubbing at 18 right?

19 where I am, but I'm 21, good chunk of my friends are also of age, rest are 18 with fakes.

In the states most people aren't old enough to go out to drink until the last year or two of college. This increases the popularity of Frats since they provide an alternative for partying.

That makes a lot of sense as to why greek life is so big there.

If I hide a nickel for every time I heard this one...

It's so common lmao. I folded that night because I had legit not fucked in a month or so. Never again.

So you think you can pull 95% of women you meet?

Let me explain a little further.

I don't think I can pull 95% of women I approach for a one night stand. Most (like at least 80%) girls are not in one night stand mode on any given night anyway. A girl is also less likely to be down for that the better looking she is. But if I go up to a girl and start talking to her, I can get her to dance with me and start kissing and touching 90-95% of the time. What happens a ton though, is that her friends interfere. If her friends are leaving at 1 AM, she's going with them, not the guy she just met (very very rarely will anyone get a girl to totally ditch her friends).

I do think that I'm capable of pulling 95% of women I approach/talk to. This will sound conceited, but I am probably in the top 5% of guys, looks-wise. I don't get a lot of flat out nos. I also have the asshole persona that women find intriguing. I'll always at least get a snap after talking a bit, and I do actually get added back and replied to. That's all you need if you REALLY want to pull a girl, the thing is I usually don't really care.

Not the high n count, but the reputation for approaching that many girls. At least from what I've seen, if a guy talks to a lot of girls and gets rejected by most of those girls then the reputation sticks with him in a bad way.

I don't really have the rep of approaching a lot, I just have the rep of fucking a lot, and lots of girls have seen me in bars with girls, heard my name from their friends, etc. Just recently, I was at lunch with this girl and she tells me her friend saw me at the bar last night with a little smirk on her face, because her friend probably told her I was on the dance floor making out with a girl for the better part of an hour. I didn't say anything, just smiled.

It's not a bad rep though. Girls are intrigued, and if you show genuine interest, they will start to like you. My problem is that my interest usually fades really fast, so I'll start reeling her in but then I'll go fuck another girl and she cuts it off before she gets in too deep.

So if anything I can take away from you and the other guy if you want to get around is

Live in a big city or college town
Make getting laid your mission
Don't live in the US?

College is a cheat code man. I wouldn't say make getting laid your mission. I'd say go out with your focus being on just having the best night you can, and you'll find that you end up just talking to some girl. They love high-energy guys. The "I'm getting laid tonight" nights are nights where I need to fuck for the sake of my ego.

How are the gender ratios in Canada?

Shit. Ratio is trash anywhere you go, girls will only entertain a stranger if he's good-looking.

Most of the time in the states (at least some parts) you can go out and see virtually no girls at all, let alone good looking ones.

That's not that far off what I see at school tbh. First couple months were really good because all the girls were amped up to party, but the hot ones started staying in after Halloween. None of my new tallies have been from bars since November.

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Funny enough I actually want to move there lmao

To paraphrase a friend, "You make your money here [the states] and spend it elsewhere [in another country]." It's good if you want to make money, but in many other aspects of quality of living it is subpar.

Tbf there are attractive DTF girls at frat parties here too, they're just all massive whores.

Well the difference is that frats in the states have much more pull/clout. You'll commonly see guys in their mid to late 20s who go back to party with college kids for a reason.

Most (like at least 80%) girls are not in one night stand mode on any given night anyway. A girl is also less likely to be down for that the better looking she is. But if I go up to a girl and start talking to her, I can get her to dance with me and start kissing and touching 90-95% of the time. What happens a ton though, is that her friends interfere.

Starting to sound more and more like the states where it's really a numbers game.

I wouldn't say make getting laid your mission. I'd say go out with your focus being on just having the best night you can, and you'll find that you end up just talking to some girl. They love high-energy guys.

My high energy moods are usually when I have 0 interest in women, and then when they show up I want them to go away.

Shit. Ratio is trash anywhere you go, girls will only entertain a stranger if he's good-looking.

It really is a dystopia wherever you go

the hot ones started staying in after Halloween. None of my new tallies have been from bars since November.

Crazy how girls have so much abundance that they don't even really need to play the game. So many are homebodies these days because they have their social life on their phone.

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in many other aspects of quality of living it is subpar

I wanna move to Texas. Great weather, no state income tax.

Well the difference is that frats in the states have much more pull/clout. You'll commonly see guys in their mid to late 20s who go back to party with college kids for a reason.

That's pretty cringe lmao gotta let it go after you graduate. Yeah I've been to frat stuff here, it's nothing to write home about.

Starting to sound more and more like the states where it's really a numbers game.

Oh of course it's a numbers game. To get a girl to fuck you within 2-3 hours of meeting you, EVERYTHING has to go right. Just her being interested isn't enough.

My high energy moods are usually when I have 0 interest in women, and then when they show up I want them to go away.

Lmao I kinda get what you mean. A lot of girls (especially really hot ones) are genuinely quite boring and won't get rowdy at all. Finding a girl who really just lets loose is a rare thing.

It really is a dystopia wherever you go

Yeah I think guys generally should not try to pull strangers at bars/clubs. The average guy can't do it. It kills the ego to pursue it. I don't even try usually, it just happens because I'm genetically gifted with height, looks, and build. I have that douchey fuckboy look and persona to me. I'm also half black in a place that's 90% white, so I get the odd girl who clearly just wants to try something different.

Crazy how girls have so much abundance that they don't even really need to play the game. So many are homebodies these days because they have their social life on their phone.

Any girl who's even slightly above average has more options than any guy who isn't famous. They'll stay in and have wine night with their friends because they get all the attention they need in their DMs and on Tinder.

My female friends all show me their Tinders and even the ones who are barely above average are matching with nearly everyone they swipe right on.

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I wanna move to Texas. Great weather, no state income tax.

There's better places for good weather, and there's other states with no state income tax (Florida, Washington, Nevada, some others too) and I think some of them might have both depending on what you consider good weather

That's pretty cringe lmao gotta let it go after you graduate.

I kind of understand them better now

Lmao I kinda get what you mean. A lot of girls (especially really hot ones) are genuinely quite boring and won't get rowdy at all. Finding a girl who really just lets loose is a rare thing.

It's the kind of thing that makes me a bit more LTR focused

I'm also half black in a place that's 90% white, so I get the odd girl who clearly just wants to try something different.

MOC are fetishized especially by white girls. Not entirely sure if that's a good or bad thing because it makes having a serious LTR that becomes a marriage much harder.

Any girl who's even slightly above average has more options than any guy who isn't famous. They'll stay in and have wine night with their friends because they get all the attention they need in their DMs and on Tinder.

I know girls who are not good looking but also not fat who have minor celebs sliding in their DMs. It's brutal out there. Social Media really has made it worse for men.

My female friends all show me their Tinders and even the ones who are barely above average are matching with nearly everyone they swipe right on.

To be fair, a lot of those are just from guys who swipe right on everyone

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There's better places for good weather, and there's other states with no state income tax (Florida, Washington, Nevada, some others too) and I think some of them might have both depending on what you consider good weather

Nevada does appeal to me big time.

I kind of understand them better now

Yes, and I hope for this reason that I find my future wife within these next 3.5 years I've got left in college. Because I know damn well that if I don't, I'm just gonna end up being wild until I'm 35.

It's the kind of thing that makes me a bit more LTR focused

Yeah fair and honestly all men should be LTR focused. Most guys can't get casual sex, and then those guys who can end up fumbling good girls with LTR potential because they go act like morons. I've done this and seen it done by friends of mine way too many times. This also embitters these women and makes them worse LTR candidates in the future, so it's a loss for every guy.

MOC are fetishized especially by white girls.

Some yeah, most girls who are into me are genuinely into me because I'm good looking and charismatic. You can tell who the fetish ones are because they're overly excited and will talk about my complexion and my lips lmao.

Not entirely sure if that's a good or bad thing because it makes having a serious LTR that becomes a marriage much harder.

Idk man, plenty of girls have wanted to escalate things with me beyond the purely casual, I just end up fumbling them by doing stupid shit because I have too many options.

I know girls who are not good looking but also not fat who have minor celebs sliding in their DMs.

It's insane man. Blue check accounts with 100k messaging 6s. What shot does the guy who's a 6 have?

Social Media really has made it worse for men.

Women too, because these girls get attention from high level guys and then in their minds, that's the level of guy they can date long-term. They don't understand that guys will go below their league for casual sex or even a casual relationship.

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Idk man, plenty of girls have wanted to escalate things with me beyond the purely casual

There's a difference between a boyfriend and a husband. If their parents have a problem with you, which is likely then it may not pan out even if she likes you. I've been there.

It's insane man. Blue check accounts with 100k messaging 6s. What shot does the guy who's a 6 have?

I knew a 6 that went out with a really famous (black) rapper with 10s of millions of followers. Another that was fwb with a different rapper who also had a boyfriend

Women too, because these girls get attention from high level guys and then in their minds, that's the level of guy they can date long-term. They don't understand that guys will go below their league for casual sex or even a casual relationship.

This same girl (the first one) when hooking up with a dude from her college was with a black dude (definite fetish) that was built like a fucking bodybuilder and 6'3.

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There's a difference between a boyfriend and a husband. If their parents have a problem with you, which is likely then it may not pan out even if she likes you.

I mean I guess we'll see when I get a little older. I'm more worried about my erratic behavior making parents hate me than my race tbh, I gel pretty well with most white people because I wasn't raised to be ghetto. Hopefully I can tamp down my wild side by the time I'm mid-late 20s.

I knew a 6 that went out with a really famous (black) rapper with 10s of millions of followers.

Yeah but did she go out with him or was he just fucking with her. Also keep in mind that a lot of black guys will look at a white girl who's a 6 and think she's a 9 because they see them as status symbols. I've always been the target of jealousy from black guys because white girls like me.

This same girl (the first one) when hooking up with a dude from her college was with a black dude (definite fetish) that was built like a fucking bodybuilder and 6'3.

Tbf to him, I wouldn't turn down consistent sex with a 6, I just wouldn't date her seriously.

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Yes I do actually plan making a post on men and women with cluster B disorders AKA dark triads and explain how in our cases personality does actually matter to women(and men) its just not the way PPD men think along with abusive relationships. You've never met anyone with triple digit laycount or doing it in a certain time period?

I go uni in the UK, south of England student city and my hometown is Birmingham.

Online, bars+clubs and parks during the spring-summer time occassionally

My minimum standard is a 7 which isn't hard to find because England is the land of 7s. Especially in the south there's loads of young good looking women. This is after I've gotten better at game along with me being good looking I frequently get told I look like Abdul Mateen. I get approached by women often but no where near compared to my current wing and my best friend/former wing.

I have a personality disorder+dark triad in the clinical sense so that helps. My self esteem and validation is 100% external and women make up a huge portion of it. No normal man would ever put in the work I do. I am great at faking personalities+ emotions and projecting my mindest onto the world. Eventually I believe it'll switch though due to therapy and me finding other avenues.

Rejection is part of the game, so if its cold approaching at nightclubs its usually 1 in 15 maximum although number of nights out to lays is a better metric of success, if they approach me and I wanna bang them that same night its 80-85%.

Online dating I order women like you'd order domino's pizza. I was doing very hard screening. This was necessary cause I wanted to have a life outside of women, pass my second year at uni and going on public dates is suboptimal and extremely boring to me now I'd rather get to the sex bit cause I haven't lost that feeling yet.

I do have an interesting reputation indeed, it just depends on the social circles you'd be going to. Since its 200-300k people I'm running out of leads to bang new girls so I am recognised by students and locals and I've lost women due to this lifestyle. Luckily I live in Birmingham so when I'm back home from term time I can get new girls without being known.

I am a one night stand type of guy max I only keep two women on rotation once they go I'd rather have a quick one and never see them again. My close friends are all manwhores to sex addicts I do not hang out (nor like)with men who aren't sucessful with women unless they wanna learn, my wingman is a Chad with game and is on track to bang 40 girls in 6 months. He's playing catch up due to missed opportunites he's had. My best friend is also a Chad and also had a triple digit laycount(113 to be exact). Another former wing I had he's what red pillers call someone "who just gets it" he banged around 250 he said, he could've easily banged 500-600+ women without question he had the type of charisma whereby its genetic.

A girl in my sixth form who I speak to had a flatmate who done 100/yr in a uni just slightly north from me. She confirmed it cause she'd see him bring 1-2 new girls a week. And on freshers week he banged 7 in 7. It was pretty funny she'd say he'd go to church on thursdays and pray then he'd hit the clubs and pull almost every time.

My number though is pretty average compared to legit PUAs, and top tier men, its pretty standard for those men who're high intermediate to advanced to be doing 50-100+/yr and having abnormal laycounts of 300-600+. These men do have "negative" traits stemmed from childhood I've noticed though and their brain is completely wired to the highest degree to our biological imperative as men. Most men if they tried would be capped max at 150 bodyocunt because there's a drive component to it unless you're handsome or famous.

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You've never met anyone with triple digit laycount or doing it in a certain time period?

Nope

I go uni in the UK, south of England student city and my hometown is Birmingham.

Age of consent and drinking age is pretty low, and you're from a big city. I unfortunately grew up in a small suburb and went to college in a bigger city, and after breaking up with a girl I was in a serious LTR with I moved back to a small suburb

My minimum standard is a 7 which isn't hard to find because England is the land of 7s. Especially in the south there's loads of young good looking women.

In the US you really only see lots of hot girls in certain places (college towns, cities like LA) but the only places where I've seen lots of hot girls with a higher ratio of men is NYC

I frequently get told I look like Abdul Mateen.

Prince Abdul Mateen or Yaha Abdul Mateen?

I have a personality disorder+dark triad in the clinical sense so that helps. My self esteem and validation is 100% external and women make up a huge portion of it. No normal man would ever put in the work I do. I am great at faking personalities+ emotions and projecting my mindest onto the world. Eventually I believe it'll switch though due to therapy and me finding other avenues.

The way you describe yourself sounds like me at a young age, but I started taking school seriously, ended up only dating girls seriously since I was raised very conservatively (and was not exposed to lots of hot girls until a later age).

Learning the perspectives of women I know, self-reflecting on childhood trauma over the last few years, and prioritizing my "mission" (money + career) has kept my count low, because I was tired of growing up feeling deprived and wanted nothing more than to build up my net worth. Chasing dumb sluts would get in the way of that. I have been able to travel much of the world and make a lot of money. In hindsight, not sure if it was worth it.

But even if I want to really get back in the game and make up for lost time, I'm not sure if there's even a point to it. I recognize it's an addiction that will never end until I am too old and worn out to chase women.

My close friends are all manwhores to sex addicts I do not hang out (nor like)with men who aren't sucessful with women

Ironically I ended up the opposite, I have surrounded myself with a lot of (arguably low value) men as my closest friends who think of me as some sort of demi god. Basically yes men who hype me up. I recently had an epiphany that this holds me back, because, besides boosting my ego, these men provide... no value to my life. Shocker, I know.

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Stats wise its pretty rare but in uni culture or just around party scenes you'd eventually meet one who at the very least claims to have hit triple digt bodycount.

Yeah on here PPD underestimates the importance of location and volume, not necessarily even the people but even the geography of the place can make a huge difference in pulling the girl back to your place. You already have an issue in terms of logistics and running volume by your admission.

Yes I've heard America has some the ugliest yet hottest women in the world due to obvious world clout you guys have and the culture. And PUAs have said the same thing bascially in America you're limited to certain pockets for consistent good quality pussy. And online dating you're mostly limited to 7.5s max (which isn't too far off in the UK) as the hottest women aren't on dating apps(this matches my experience after dating many beautiful women).

The actor Yaya Abdul Mateen

For me I will always have this disorder for life, Andrew Tate also has my personality disorder (and actually see myself a lot in him). My father was a retired top salesman in his company so a lot of my dating strategy and tactics are sales methods along with using superficial charm and masking because of the disorder. So in that sense I had a "great" start and progression ladder with women due this and stood out from other boys and men.

How old are you? It sounds like you have limiting beliefs over your age and at least with money you don't really have to worry about instability especially if you have a high paying remote job. There's a few things you can do with your money(that's not leading with your wallet) to maximise your opportunities with women.

You also do not need to be a sport fucker like me you can play the field for a little bit and then just be a rotation guy/slow down whenever you need. But yes do be careful about dopamine chasing and validation addiction for me its now primal that I have to approach an attractive woman, I have an extreme wondering eye and have a thrill of approaching a woman. I have even read PUAs experiencing withdrawals similar to hard drug addictions due to them being obsessed with this lifestyle.

Yeah those friends I'd be wary if you decided to go into the game because its a myth that men praise other men for being manwhores. Nah reality is most men will be jealous of your ability to attract women and just hate guys who have high bodycounts even on here I was called gross for sleeping around by some man lmao. And you can see this in various comments here everyday.

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Yeah on here PPD underestimates the importance of location and volume, not necessarily even the people but even the geography of the place can make a huge difference in pulling the girl back to your place. You already have an issue in terms of logistics and running volume by your admission.

My experience from travelling has taught me this to be true. Most parts of the US are quite rough as I mentioned. Very different to where I went to college where attractive girls would actually approach me.

Yes I've heard America has some the ugliest yet hottest women in the world due to obvious world clout you guys have and the culture.

It's definitely polarized.

The actor Yaya Abdul Mateen

Man's a legend for sure.

For me I will always have this disorder for life, Andrew Tate also has my personality disorder (and actually see myself a lot in him).

I think it's possible to overcome it, but I could be mistaken.

My father was a retired top salesman in his company so a lot of my dating strategy and tactics are sales methods along with using superficial charm and masking because of the disorder.

The men in my family served as a role model in a way for me to act this way - being manipulative and charming was common sense. I am at odds with living this way, disillusioned with being this type of person and question if in the end I will be alone.

I look at some people I know, but let's use Tate in this example - he was very open about how he made his money by being pretty much a pimp - if the allegations are true and the charges stick, in the end is that how you want your life to turn out? Rotting in an Eastern European jail?

I am not as impulsive as I used to be, but now I no longer have a pulse.

How old are you? It sounds like you have limiting beliefs over your age and at least with money you don't really have to worry about instability especially if you have a high paying remote job. There's a few things you can do with your money(that's not leading with your wallet) to maximise your opportunities with women.

Not much older than you, but I feel much older mentally.

I want to optimize my time and wealth, but location is a bottleneck. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

I'm not the leanest I've been but I'm gaining mass. I have a nice but not too flashy car and some nice clothes. It's ironic that it was easier for me to attract women when I was broke wearing t-shirts and driving a pick-up truck because I was cut with vascular arms (they are still vascular btw) and a carefree attitude. Forcing myself to be more disciplined and less argumentative in order to hold a stable career has made me more miserable and stuck in my head, and I have less time to meet women.

I've been improving in this aspect by going out a bit more and getting back into my old routine, and I won't be spending time on reddit for awhile either since that has been sucking up a good amount of my time lately.

You also do not need to be a sport fucker like me you can play the field for a little bit and then just be a rotation guy/slow down whenever you need.

I prefer consistency and quality over quantity, but I should play the field at least for some time in my life since I'm not planning to get married any time soon.

But yes do be careful about dopamine chasing and validation addiction for me its now primal that I have to approach an attractive woman, I have an extreme wondering eye and have a thrill of approaching a woman.

I have never cheated but have a problem with wandering eyes. I hope to find a middle ground where I can focus on accomplishing more in my life than just trying to have a lot of hook ups and not cave to temptation.

Yeah those friends I'd be wary if you decided to go into the game because its a myth that men praise other men for being manwhores. Nah reality is most men will be jealous of your ability to attract women and just hate guys who have high bodycounts

I think it depends on the friend. Some of those guys make for good company and inadvertently make for good wingmen since they put me in a good mood. One of those guys who has been my good friend for years actually ended up discovering RP content after the pandemic and combined with things I've said before he came to me for advice on how to work on himself.

The dude went through quite a transformation mentally and physically. Some of them are definitely crabs in a bucket though, I remember another guy who came to me for advice cock blocked me because I was already hooking up with someone.

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Title	What's your body count?
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Date	December 24, 2022 12:22 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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