Why some men have absolutely no standards?

22IsThisIt22 · 2023-04-03T23:38:14+00:00

Why do starving people go dumpster diving for food? They are extremely hungry....

Kliere · 2023-04-03T21:04:25+00:00

Fear of being alone. They aren't happy by themselves so they simp anything with a pulse in the hopes that they won't die alone.

RatchedAngle · 2023-04-03T20:56:03+00:00

I have a friend on social media who posted about how her grandmother died of breast cancer and it was this long emotional post about breast cancer awareness, etc.

One of her (male) friends responded with something like, “Yes! I love boobies ;)!”

I sat there for a good long time and wondered what was going through his head.

Did he think he was making himself look good? Did he think this would turn her on? Was this his way of flirting?

I can only conclude that he’s so horny and so desperate that he looks for any avenue to mention sex/his own horniness.

You know how some socially awkward people will go on an entire 2-hour long rant about their favorite character just because someone off-handedly mentioned a movie featuring that character? And they have zero regard for their audience?

Some men are like that but with sex.

Barely-moral · 2023-04-04T00:27:38+00:00

Because they did not find out an acceptable way to deal with the emotional/affectional malnutrition they are under.

Don't believe the men that have standards are not under that emotional/affectional malnutrition. Chances are they are under the same shit. They just deal with it in a way that may be less visible.

Edit. I am sure I made up some words.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-03T22:06:07+00:00

Because they're desperate and can't afford to have standards, the way women like it

SecondEldenLord · 2023-04-03T21:34:19+00:00

We are talking about average and below men here, and those men are so desperate for attentions and communication with a female, they would do anything for it and for any type of of a woman, whether she is tall, short, ugly, beautiful, slim, fat, he would do anything to have a chance with her cause they are craving for affection and intimacy so much, it's unbareable. And for them, dying with a partner that you are not very attracted to is better than dying alone.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-04-03T20:50:10+00:00

Low self-esteem, mostly. This can be the result of a variety of factors (physical/emotional abuse during childhood, being bullied a lot during adolescence, a particularly bad heartbreak, etc).

PlainTundra · 2023-04-03T20:49:39+00:00

Because having the bare minimum of standards would mean erasing any chance to have any interaction with the other sex.

wtknight · 2023-04-03T20:52:55+00:00

Some men feel good when any woman finds them attractive, even very low value women. Because of this, they simp.

SkatemanJohn · 2023-04-03T20:56:50+00:00

It's human nature to take what you can get.

Do they know how undesirable this makes them look?

There's varying degrees of self consciousness.

What is it that these men want/believe would happen?

They don't know what's happening. They just roll the dice. They call success "getting lucky".

Do they have an uncontrollable sex drive?

Yes. It's uncontrollable at this point like the urge to breathe when you're underwater.

Dacnis · 2023-04-03T22:57:06+00:00

Because they are desperate. The average dude has basically zero options in comparison to the average woman. Contrary to popular belief, men are also starved of affection and basic human kindness, and have no outlet to experience these things besides romantic relationships. Big Eddy from down the block is not gonna be picky once he realizes that the odds are stacked against him.

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-04-03T20:51:11+00:00

Do they know how undesirable this makes them look?

Very often, they don't.

Do they have an uncontrollable sex drive? Are they porn addicts?

Not necessarily.

Desperate for attention?

Yes. They just don't know how to accomplish that.

AristedesAllow · 2023-04-04T12:46:56+00:00

Woman moment.

It’s because they have no options, so they can’t afford to have standards. It is not a surprise that it is a mystery to you.

despisedlove2 · 2023-04-04T01:37:24+00:00

Beggars for sex can't be choosers.

The sex drive of men is women's single biggest strength. Take that away and the female con game falls to pieces.

toasterchild · 2023-04-03T21:32:16+00:00

I've asked many that question here and they think it increases their odds but it more than likely kills it. If you've been online dating with a super generic profile for years with little to no luck why not try changing it up to be looking for someone more specific, if it doesn't work what did you lose? A person who appears choosy and you got their desires is 100 times more appealing that someone who is just looking for anyone.

JasenBorne · 2023-04-04T01:51:53+00:00

most men have never had high standards, what are you on about. their standards have always been vagina, no job or education or money required. can you give birth and raise my offspring? application accepted.

Tight_Pomegranate404 · 2023-04-04T02:22:10+00:00

Men have the wrong standards. Tits and ass aren’t important. Personality and how she treats you is king. Your short term lust will disappear quickly. The what’s left is the personality.

Broad_Coconut_4757 · 2023-04-04T02:50:04+00:00

Everyone has different priorities. Who knows what that specific person's life is like. I know a buddy of mine who is a bit like this, and tbh, I still don't know why but he's a good dude so no judgment.

Anxious-Tailor-7182 · 2023-04-04T04:40:47+00:00

Because you never know who is going to reciprocate and who won't. In most cases you'll be rejected anyway, not a big deal. Just sitting there and waiting for perfect girl to fall from the sky won't bring you anywhere. And if you don't like it - then there are dozens of girls who have no problems with that.

CommunicationNo9896 · 2023-04-05T20:42:37+00:00

Men need less standards as they are more horny, and they don't necessarily want to love or appreciate someone to get sex.
Most men cannot afford to have standards. Only top men fuck almost every women they can get and they can pick, and even they are opportunistic and give sex to ugly women which then believe they are special.

harmonica2 · 2023-04-08T09:23:13+00:00

There is a lot of talk about the men having low standards but what about the women who are 'bottom of the barrel'as it was put?

Aren't they going to want guys too and are in the same boat?

gopher_glitz · 2023-04-04T21:42:10+00:00

Why do some women have zero standards when it comes to having a baby?

Men want sex as much as women want babies.

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Mr_Makak · 2023-04-04T13:42:20+00:00

Beggars can't be choosers

Ohmaygahh · 2023-04-04T14:48:03+00:00

Beggars can't be choosers...

Far_Albatross_Far · 2023-04-04T15:11:37+00:00

They probably had at some point.

justforlulz12345 · 2023-04-04T23:21:03+00:00

Men who would be Chad if they looked better. They have the mindset, the drive, the social skills...but not the looks to get Stacy. So instead they wind up running game and fucking a 2 for 'practice'

Title	Why some men have absolutely no standards?
Author	gat15
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Date	April 3, 2023 8:45 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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