My experiment running "asshole game"

MilkMoney111 · 2018-06-29T11:28:36+00:00

Some people claim that accusations of being a man whore is a shit test. I never saw it as one. I always took it as a compliment. Girls always want to know my body count. I ask them to guess so I can get an idea of how many dicks they’ve taken. And it’s something like: “I wouldn’t be surprised if you were up in the 50’s” or “do you even know how many girls you’ve slept with?” I just smile, playfully act insulted and say I’m a virgin or if I’ve slept with them, say that only one truly mattered and give them a smirk.

A girl who assumes you get a lot of pussy is a girl who thinks you’re high status enough to get pussy. Use it as a compliment. Never reveal your number though.

aguywholifts · 2018-06-29T12:49:20+00:00

Teasing and pushing more than pulling is a whole lot of fun. This is the sort of interaction I like to have with everybody, outside of a professional setting or when dealing with employees in stores and shit (where I default to a too polite and understanding guy).

Being used to teasing others makes it a lot easier to tease women you are into since it’s something that at that point comes natural to you. I’m also in agreement that it helps center the nerves and your skewed perception caused by your attraction to her since it takes her down a notch, especially if you unconsciously put her on a pedestal.

It also helps me filter out the people I won’t be compatible with socially. If a chick is too sensitive and gets upset over some teasing, I can tell we won’t mesh well and she is likely depressed, has low self esteem, or something similar. She’s also likely to be very sexually repressed and ashamed.

Pass.

Lambdal7 · 2018-06-29T10:33:31+00:00

Would you agree with this statement?

Asshole game is not actually being an asshole, but having mannerisms and vibe of an asshole without actually taking it that serious and also being able to build comfort after the attraction phase and to provide value.

At first girls will always find the assholery interesting and funny, but then she will see if you are really an asshole. Then, if you can just show some realness, you get the girl, but if you keep the asshole thing going all along, 90% will drop it and you'll only be left with the low self esteem girls.

Also, asshole game only works for night game, but will exclude you from your social circle or day game.

Mako_One · 2018-06-29T08:46:14+00:00

So now after you’ve told us, that asshole game works - Wow, Surprise, surprise - you should tell the folks something they actually don’t know.

WHAT exactly did you change in your behavior, so other men can fake it, till they make it.

Your story to gain attention isn’t worth a cent if you can’t describe / teach other what they have to change. HOW they have to be. Be specific and detailed when you edit your post.

SUPER-MAN-PUNCH · 2018-06-29T15:31:11+00:00

No amount of lifting and dressing nice can change your face my dudes. Focus on improving yourself as a person and into being successful to raise your sexual market value. meaning social status and success and pussy will come your way. Being an asshole will get you nowhere.

RedForEducation · 2018-06-29T14:51:27+00:00

Holy fuck! Someone applying, experimenting, and reporting findings.

What is this magic?

redpillcad · 2018-06-29T12:11:19+00:00

"I'm not having sex with you tn"

subtext

please convince me otherwise

It's a betabait. Keeps the unworthy yucky sperm away from her precious eggs. It's a green light to escalate with game.

"I'm not having sex with you tn"

Dont even make it complicated. Simple response that you dont care works.

You wish

SimpleJacked · 2018-06-29T14:32:50+00:00

Asshole game works well because it quickly puts her in your frame seeking validation. Non stop asshole game will cause a plate to break sooner than if you temper it with other styles. Calibrate based on the girl and you can maximize returns.

It helps her feel the whole range of emotions. With asshole game she will feel angry, upset, offended, shocked. Add other game so she feels happy, lonely, excited, sexy, confused, submissive, comfort, fun, etc. 80% asshole works at first but dialing it back slowly helps maintain a plate. Still be unpredictable, some days be an asshole some be slightly comforting. Be stern with shit tests but don't neg a girl that just told you her grandma died.

This is the biggest thing newbies miss. Redpill game requires tons of practice and calibration. You will get better results by trying many Redpill styles.

DrBalance · 2018-06-29T11:05:28+00:00

I've done this before without quite knowing what I was doing and I still pulled it off to some extent. All I knew was beta shit like 'nice guys finish last'. But then I found 'the hat' at a nightclub. It was this frat bro type baseball cap that someone dropped, and I was half drunk already, so I put it on, backwards. Wouldn't it be hilarious if I just acted like some frat bro for the night, I pondered? 'The hat' was my persona for the night. I'd lend 'the hat' to my friends at opportune moments if the needed a bit of a boost too.

And fuck me it worked. I was Chad-lite. I hung around at the bar shooting shit at everyone, getting drunker and drunker, pissing a fair few people off but getting a few makeouts with girls lurking near the bar without getting booted out. It was messy, and I'd cringe if I could even remember much of it I'm sure, but it worked.

This was a weird joke of a night where I realised that just doing my squats in the gym, eating chicken and brocolli and being nice and polite to girls doesn't get you anywhere except near the fat crazy ones.

Tritzel · 2018-06-29T07:51:03+00:00

In my own opinion this only works if 2 factors are at play

1: You’re attractive enough (top 15% and above?) to give her the tingles automatically

2: You hold frame. (Especially when she hits you with “we’re not gonna have sex”)

Basic things that are said over and over again in this sub, but it needs to flow naturally, you can’t fake your frame and a strong frame will always have her happy like a kid in a jungle gym.

I just hope nobody starting off reads this and takes this as concrete advice, it won’t end well.

Foobyx · 2018-06-29T07:50:41+00:00

Well, nothing new with push pull, it's like the basic of attraction. Teasing and showing interest is fun and exciting. On the contrary of the thousand questions nice guys ask and answer with "hooo" "it's great": zzzzzzzzzzz

the hardest is to use the proper dosage depending on the girl.

justicecantakeanap · 2018-06-29T11:24:52+00:00

Did the same thing some year ago.

Literally pussy came flowing the INSTANT i started acting like an asshole.

I am medium looking and very smart talkative guy, so there you have it

Auvergnat · 2018-06-29T09:04:37+00:00

In before the moralizing. Read this:

Chateau Heartiste - A-hole Game: Day 1

This week I will discuss Asshole Game. There is no sugarcoating it; being an asshole works on women, all women, most of the time. Any man who has lived a day in his life and isn’t self-deluded by equalist ideology or chick flic romanticism knows this is true, even those PUA “love gurus” who unctuously sermonize that what women really want are “strong confident men” minus the asshole part. Save your holier-than-thou moralizing and desperate attempts to discredit asshole game by falsely claiming it only appeals to low self esteem girls. We’re going to discuss what works, not what should work. [...]

Chateau Heartiste - A-hole Game: Day 2

Chateau Heartiste - A-hole Game: Day 3

[...] The best Asshole Game is when the assholery comes naturally and effortlessly. What I did was not good by most people’s definition of the good, but there’s no denying it worked. After that incident, she was in love with me more than ever.

splendid_phoenix · 2018-06-29T08:08:28+00:00

Interesting post. Yeah I've been hovering and shit for a couple months and am in the process of swallowing the pill. Because of this sub, my mentality did a complete 180 and since I didn't care, I started seeing results. Girls dig assholes despite their hamster trying to convince them otherwise and the "nice guy" thing gets you nothing farther than a beta orbiter. There s a reason why all those chicks were over you. They want what they can't have, a simple primal instinct. I also wouldn't call it "asshole game" because it's not supposed to be a game you use. The way you carry yourself (frame) plus your abundance mentality is more significant.

robbiss · 2018-06-29T07:35:08+00:00

So treat a girl like shit...she'll fuck you...WOW, that should be easy

Shaney96 · 2018-06-29T13:11:58+00:00

I used to be total nice-guy and now I sometimes feel I've turned into 'too much' of an asshole when with girls. I feel I 'push' too much. Like, the other day this bird said I was the cockiest English guy she's come across.

Last night I went out and was met with only rejections. Perhaps my looks aren't developed enough to pull-off this game? Or maybe because I was in a poor state, my frame was weak and this was obvious?

Like, I know these weren't shit-tests and were rejections (read How To Get Laid Like A Warlord), as I'd still stand around smirking after she'd look at me like I'm an autist or something, but then she'd just end up walking off.

Entropy-7 · 2018-06-29T13:38:58+00:00

The correlation and causation of assholes and success are a bit muddied.

When I jacked up and fronted a rock band the attention I got went to my head and I became an asshole. Guess what? The girls didn't care.

In some cases like in business or crime, being an asshole is our primary asset and your success flows from that and then the ladies follow. Rich assholes have their pick of women.

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2018-06-29T15:39:46+00:00

I sorta did an experiment with a friend one night, he seemed to think that because I was attractive, that I would only need to talk confidently, nicely with girls at the bar. you know small talk, where are you from, what do you do, and where are you travelling, blah, blah... well once I had a few drinks that went out the window, I did the old ass grab and I banged both of those girls...maybe I just have an inner ass grab radar but I think maybe only once, I've gotten in 'hot water' for doing it, the girl's friend come up to me and gave me scolding in front of the bar...I just stood there and took it stoically...but later after banging one of them she admitted that she found my quiet confidence a turn on when a guy was hitting on her in front of me...she said she sensed my cool demeanor and the ass grab was the final straw which she described as dominant. So, asshole game.. love it! You just have to be very calibrated to the girl and the interaction, you don't just grab the ass off the bat...but work it in. Most likely you'll bang her that night..

sadomasochrist · 2018-06-29T13:27:57+00:00

For guys not in the top 5%, have a paternal frame.

askmrcia · 2018-06-29T16:45:15+00:00

The girls I liked would friendzone me and the girls I was hooking up with on a regular basis would lose attraction after a while or find another guy.

To be fair, this happens to assholes or "alphas" as well.

RonieGarret · 2018-06-29T20:39:59+00:00

Can you give some examples of asshole behavior and push?

ChrimsonChin988 · 2018-06-29T10:56:17+00:00

The problem here is you’re trying to emulate this faggie “asshole behavior” by pushing. You’re doing it to get a reaction out of her. Which is still beta af.

The one and only good reason to do it is because you ENJOY fucking a little with girls. Ultimately, it shouldn’t matter how and even if she responds/ is triggered by your teasing. The teasing should be the goal in itself, no ulterior motive or goal it should accomplish.

I like to fuck a bit with everyone, especially my friends but also my brothers/sisters/cousins, even my parents and yes, girls. I enjoy doing it and it’s so much fun when people are at your level and fuck back with you.

tiberius14 · 2018-06-29T14:30:12+00:00

Well done, man! It seems you've got yourself another weapon in your arsenal.

This would include A LOT of push behaviors (like heavy teases and negging) , focusing on what I wanted to do.

Can you elaborate on these heavy teases you speak of?

mrfritzeltits · 2018-06-29T15:25:59+00:00

Treat them like dirt they stick like mud

cuntrolbot · 2018-06-29T22:05:03+00:00

"I'm not having sex with you tn"

Right up there with "I have a boyfriend".

PeterPansSyndrome · 2018-06-29T14:49:00+00:00

To balance out the asshole, post sex run a little bit of comfort game. That's if you want to keep her around.

contributive-citizen · 2018-06-29T15:34:31+00:00

It's not "asshole game," it's "sexy asshole game."

It's the difference between plainly insulting a girl and playing a push-pull game.

lifeisweirdasfuck · 2018-06-29T10:46:37+00:00

I really don't get it. I've been doing the bad asshole game for almost a year and got no pussy.

I just got them to emotionally close to me. There's a difference between the bad asshole and good asshole.

The bad asshole only manages to fuck girls with low self-esteem.

Good asshole is the cocky and funny guy. Which is funny (funny not in the sense of clown funny, but you know what I mean) and attractive.

Bad asshole is the bully who 99% pushes and 1% pulls. At this point you end up being hated by everyone, not just women but also males because you are not a person who's nice to have around.

For personal experience, don't try to be the bad asshole as you are not going to go really far. Aim to be the good asshole and you'll end up having both male friends and pussy.

U-94 · 2018-06-29T10:36:14+00:00

Yeah you've got to be good looking enough, or at least her 'type' to manage this. Now I've had girls tell me I'm not their type to my face but I 'held frame' so to speak because I -KNEW- what their type was and it matched me. Like I have long hair and muscles (blah blah) and this girl was fawning over some video of Jason Momoa. I knew somewhere at the root of this was a baseline desire for that surfer looking dude. Which is me. My nickname at one of my jobs is 'California'. So this girl could say "Never gonna happen" to my face but I had the evidence logged in my mind to hold frame easily.

I've done this so many times in the last 15 years that I even get the added benefit of over confidence, like watching an opponent play themselves into a corner with chess. Now I'm not closing deal immediately with these women, some yes but most of the time it's a slow burn tension kind of thing. Timing is important too. Combination of physical circumstance and 'it's your turn' logic.

look_good · 2018-06-29T13:58:55+00:00

polarize early and polarize hard

flclst3v3 · 2018-06-29T14:01:22+00:00

Fuck the girl gave me that shit we are not having sex and I fell for it. Lesson learned.

osirise · 2018-06-29T14:32:18+00:00

In my opinion asshole game is step 1. The reason why girls want to end communication is because you have to be a dominant leader. A dominant leader doesn’t give a fuck of what you think. He does what he wants because he has a purpose in life and he’s going to do it regardless if the girl thinks he’s an asshole or not.

He may come off as an asshole. But purely being an asshole for the sake of being an asshole is not what he is about. The reason why they wanted nothing to do with you is because they saw through the asshole persona.

Check out the art of not giving a fuck if you haven’t read it already.

Congrats on not being the nice guy though. That’s a step most guys never manage to take

Narcissist456 · 2018-06-29T17:06:09+00:00

I asshole game insecure bitches right out of my life.

AlexanderTheBread · 2018-06-29T17:16:49+00:00

Reminds me of the first time I was with a chick after employing asshole game! Later on when we talked about past experiences she thought I had been with 200+ girls or something like that. Little did she know it was barely 10% of that at the time.

redpillrobert · 2018-06-29T18:00:21+00:00

however I was always a "beta" nice guy and often found that girls I'd be seeing would dump me for more "alpha" guys.

don't put those words in quotations. you're not quoting anyone and those terms aren't foreign to this audience. you did that a lot in your post and it makes it look like you've never read an actual book before

rayk10k · 2018-06-29T18:16:46+00:00

What would you respond with if they hit you wit it the “we’re not having sex tonight” line? In some instances I’ve said “okay, onto the next” and have had some success but mostly failure

etherealembryo · 2018-06-29T19:32:38+00:00

I felt like this was the scene in the matrix where Neo touches the mirror and learns the true. Never stop!

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-29T20:01:41+00:00

The experimental process is fascinating. Looks like you've made great strides and have swung the pendulum to the far opposite side. now comes the part where you can dial it back a pinch so your ONS can become regular plates. Cheers.

jonpe87 · 2018-06-29T20:54:05+00:00

Just tease her.. our brain is really simple and dumb: for man: hot girl = bones

for girls: tease: wow, he is fun and don't give a fuck, good genes

girls are super goofy... betas dont have even idea, cuz they don't talk with them, once you start less you give a fuck, cuz the goofyness pass your imagination capacity

looneyniggabunny · 2018-06-30T00:26:01+00:00

Y’all still in the anger phase denying lmao Keep working on yourselves, and you’ll be back in time understanding what we are trying to tell you Have fun out there

dynasty_400 · 2018-06-30T02:23:23+00:00

Just wanna add ypu glanced over a important part ypu were saying,: you started teasing girls for the fun of it and genuinely didnt care how they would react...

eyewant · 2018-07-03T02:40:20+00:00

What teases did you say though?

agronerd25 · 2018-06-29T15:12:29+00:00

This game works great just be careful when you find a girl you actually like and want to speak to again. Played this game in college, plenty of hooks ups but contact will end there if they are convinced you are the ass hole/player character.

My experiment running "asshole game"

Comments

2. Women would rather fuck an ugly guy with a strong frame than a handsome guy with a weak one

Absolutely not true.

Title	My experiment running "asshole game"
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