How Do You Know if a Girl is Too Drunk for Consent?

-Cachi- · 2022-06-18T11:44:57+00:00

Please always err on the side of caution with these things. If you think that someone might not be able to consent, then don't do anything!

It's as simple as that. You did the right thing OP 👍

Ancquar · 2022-06-18T13:08:22+00:00

Which country was that in? In most places if she was able to formulate her wish to cuddle with you while not being with you (and thus not being currently manipulated) and put into text that can be saved as evidence, you are safe. On the other hand in a few countries with messed up laws, US being most prominent example, I'd pass to be safe.

ThemasterofZ · 2022-06-18T11:38:59+00:00

Nah man, this is 🚩🚩🚩

Dodged a bullet.

Deep-Advice7587 · 2022-06-18T11:43:14+00:00

Man, go for the date, it's only a red flag if she starts ghosting you after saying no in her drunk state.

Fapandwarmshowers · 2022-06-18T13:01:09+00:00

Yes dont do risky things

Spiritual-Fox6141 · 2022-06-18T13:45:22+00:00

First off.. I'm not going anywhere at 2 am to cuddle. We both havevto understand we gonna hqve sex if i come out at 2 am.. That being said .. The first problem here is she's running the show. Her place her, time her, rules... ask yourself if this was anything besides a girl, does it make sense?. sports, war, court.. etc. If you feeling simpish, go.. but tape your dick to to your leg and never pull it out.. just cuddle.. if she wants more.. record her consent, or have the discipline to leave .

Legal_Ranch · 2022-06-18T14:08:01+00:00

Dude, if you have to ask - she's too drunk

theukvamp · 2022-06-18T11:15:49+00:00

Could of gotten killed or robbed .Better safe than sorry

jjboy91 · 2022-06-18T12:43:19+00:00

Personally if she drank with you around I wouldn't go cause don't now how far she is

TheFreakish · 2022-06-18T14:01:47+00:00

Not worth it, you made the right choice, you don't want any guilt on your mind.

Fuck I met someone, we spent every day and night fucking. Would wake up a few times during the night and fuck. Great chemistry. One day she tells me last night she was only half awake when we were fucking. I'm definitely taking it too hard, like... she was responsive, grinding on me, and making eye contact. Idk... maybe she was trying to start a kink. Maybe she's a sexsomniac. Maybe I misread her signals. I don't know, but it fucking weighs on me.

Fuck .. Another time I had a girl staying over, we'd been dating 8 months. She started talking to me she was really into the idea of getting fuck while she was drugged up and asleep.

... And then she proceeded to take sleeping medication and passes out.

Then starts grinding on me.

I ask her if she's awake, and in a completely sober voice she says "No, I'm asleep" (felt like she was pretending to be asleep).

I get she was most likely trying to play out a fantasy. Everything in my mind was telling me.. That's what she was doing. That's how it felt.

I'm fucking glad I didn't go for it.

That's shit is not worth weighing on your conscience.

SGrosch · 2022-06-18T14:06:58+00:00

More than 1 drink an hour. Avoid. Too easy to ruin your life for a F.

I’ve had multiple students have lives ruined over.

BigG1996 · 2022-06-18T12:51:16+00:00

Bro she doesn’t need to if she’s drunk and wants to fuck then you fuck she gives consent even when she’s drunk. Not your responsibility it’s hers

Gigachad4Head · 2022-06-18T13:35:46+00:00

She says yes.

IOnlyCameToArgue · 2022-06-18T12:13:18+00:00

Legally: If any* amount of alcohol is in her system she cannot give consent.

Creepy-Storage-1786 · 2022-06-18T11:16:25+00:00

I do not fully understand your question. Can you elaborate further?

alexmaycovid · 2022-06-18T12:52:14+00:00

Can you compare a little drunk or too drunk? I would not personally sleep with too drunk, because sex won't be good anyway and I can get some trouble.

Too drunk is when a person barely can walk streight or can not speak well

Informal_Fishing5729 · 2022-06-18T12:54:05+00:00

If you have any doubt maybe she is already too drunk. Don’t have sex with a totally drunk lady because she won’t even remember the moment. A few glasses is totally okay but completely drunk is a nono

cobraCL · 2022-06-18T13:12:05+00:00

You made the best judgement here - best be safe, and advance another time.

HotCandle3978 · 2022-06-18T13:47:16+00:00

Her "no sex" means you are new to her so make it sound better she used word "cuddles" but ultimately it must have ended up as fucking sex. You did the right thing otherwise it could have been complicated.

Jay-Ames · 2022-06-18T13:59:43+00:00

You did the right thing. If afterwards she feel unhappy about her own actions she is gonna blame you for it. And because there was alcohol involved it makes you the criminal in an instant. Not saying every woman does this but guys have gone to jail for things like this.

nbh1995 · 2022-06-18T14:02:32+00:00

Then come and cuddle with her with no sex. A few days after ask if she wants to hang out and try to have sex with her while she is 100 percent there.

iamamoa · 2022-06-18T14:48:04+00:00

Have you considered that she perhaps wanted a booty call, but did not want to come off as a slut over text. Just in case you shared her text with friends or posted it in Reddit.

premedchunsa · 2022-06-18T15:07:11+00:00

Dodged a bullet bro. Stop thinking too much about it.

BonelessLimbs · 2022-06-18T15:22:03+00:00

If you're even slightly unsure, treat it like she's given a hard "No".

Maybe you feel like you really can't tell. Back it up and come back with a couple of glasses of water, if she's genuinely interested this won't be a problem. If nothing is progressing but you're still unsure. Literally just say "hey we're both drunk so maybe I'm wrong but am I picking up signals?"

If you aren't comfortable asking a question like that then you'll be better off always letting her make the first move

ksmith11011 · 2022-06-18T15:35:36+00:00

If we’re being accountable then she can consent as long as she’s not seeing double. Alcohol is a social lubricant, people frequently will drink and get a little buzz before sex or on dates.

If we’re not being accountable than as soon as one drop has touched her lips she can claim deniability and therefore can no longer consent reliably.

Title	How Do You Know if a Girl is Too Drunk for Consent?
Author	shittyfuckdick
Upvotes	55
Comments	176
Date	June 18, 2022 11:13 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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