So I’m just gonna come out and say it quick. If you have an Instagram (or Snapchat) and you’re not using it as a key part of your dating strategy then you’re shooting yourself in both foot. Now does that sound like a wild unsubstantiated claim that needs backing up? Well I’m glad you said that, home boy; here’s the proof.

It allows girls to find out who you are from a safe distance

One of the main reasons why girls don’t respond to guys’ calls is because they’ve forgotten about them since they first met. Whatever state you managed to put them into has since faded and now they don’t remember who the fuck you are. When you call or text it puts them into a mindset of anxiety and fear because they’re terrified you might be some sort of boring loser/rapist/woman-hating troll/whatever. That fear often causes them to ignore your message which makes both of you lose out.

BUT

When she has your IG she’ll scroll up and down your page and remember just who the hell she’s dealing with. When she sees you out and about living a cool life with awesome activities, great friends, and attractive women, she’ll realise that you’re not everything she feared and will be infinitely more likely to answer your messages. Women are attracted to cool and confident guys who are carving their own paths through life and IG allows you to display all of those qualities indirectly. It allows you to attract multiple women just by being you without actually having to contact them directly and put on a song and dance to do it.

It allows them to stay in touch with you without actually staying in touch with you at all

One other reason why girls don’t respond to your calls is simply if they haven’t spoken to you in ages. Women tend to have an ‘out of sight, out of mind’ mentality when it comes to men but IG allows you to circumvent that. By regularly posting to your feed and story she can and will keep up with your exploits and can and will feel like she’s been hanging out with you, even if she hasn’t. That then means that if you try to contact her months or even years later, she’ll be far more likely to respond than if she didn’t have your IG and you’d just called her out of the blue.

Girls are more likely to give you their IG account than their phone number

Even though it’s much more beneficial to have a girl’s IG or Snapchat than her phone number, they don’t really see it that way. Just like you until reading this post, most girls still see their phone numbers as being intimate pieces of information that shouldn’t be given out to any old shmuck, but they don’t feel that way about their social media accounts. If you suggest to a girl that you both follow each other on IG, she’ll most likely do it, even if she isn’t that into you because it won’t seem like a big deal.

But guess what? Even if she isn’t into you now she can become attracted to you later as she follows your online activities.

It’s just way better to have than a regular phone number

If all of the above doesn’t show you why it’s better to swap IGs with a girl than numbers then I’m not sure what else to say but that the benefits are real and deep. I’ve had girls who rejected me after dates and lost all interest in me whatsoever slowly reclaim that interest by following me on IG before reaching out to me months later. I’ve also found it infinitely easier to both keep in touch with and arrange dates with just about every woman I’ve connected with on the platform.

Give it a try if you doubt me. What on earth have you got to lose?

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